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Cheshire but down south?

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Cheshirequestions · 10/02/2026 12:36

Hi all, posted here for traffic.

We (couple in our 30s plus DCs under 5), currently live in Cheshire and absolutely love it here. We’re close to Alderley Edge high street and I love that we live somewhere that feels fairly rural whilst also having so much within walking distance. We have a lovely mixture of chain and independent restaurants/cafes, and have a local train station. Plus we’re only 20 minutes away from Manchester.

I know it’s not to everybody’s taste, but we love the vibe here and are really sad to be leaving.

We need to be somewhere in this circle ideally. We are completely newbies when it comes to this area - are there any places here that are like Cheshire?!

Cheshire but down south?
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NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 15:14

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow , you'll need to visit Luton again. You're probably getting it mixed with Milton Keynes.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/02/2026 15:09

InveterateWineDrinker · 10/02/2026 12:56

Luton is exactly like Alderley Edge, maybe a little more cosmopolitan, and the houses are cheaper too. Good access to highly rated international airport, just like you're used to. You'll love it there!

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How can Luton and Alderley Edge be the same?!

Alderley Edge is proper posh and countrified. I mean proper posh. Full of footballers. It’s one of the wealthiest areas outside London.

I don’t get that vibe from Luton!

whiteroseredrose · 10/02/2026 15:04

Summertown in Oxford is a bit like Altrincham/Hale. There are also cute little streets with independent shops within walking distance.

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 15:04

Me too. I doubt that many remember JB - he died over 40 years ago, and that line gets trotted out on almost every post that mentions Slough.

Elbowpatch · 10/02/2026 14:58

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 14:41

@Elbowpatch , Slough has already been suggested.

Sir John Betjemen even wrote a poem about it.
The opening line is "Come, friendly bombs and fall on Slough"
That stopped being funny about 60 years ago.

I’ll take your word for it. I’m too young to remember.

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 14:57

St Albans would be in the circle, just, but it's a city.
Newbury would be just in the circle too.

I'd be looking at Tring, Berkhamstead, Henley, Marlow, Beaconsfield.

thesugarbumfairy · 10/02/2026 14:55

Berkhamsted maybe? I don't live there. and I don't know Alderley edge either. But my friend lives there and the way she describes it sounds like what you're after

Ducksbehindthesofa · 10/02/2026 14:55

I live in a village at the north end of your circled area, and it's bloody lovely. Close to 3 towns, and well placed for the M1.

Member968405 · 10/02/2026 14:55

Have a look at Pangbourne, Goring, Henley - as well as Thame as already suggested. All lovely areas.

Catwalking · 10/02/2026 14:49

Hiptothisjive · 10/02/2026 13:51

As others have said - Beaconsfield, Marlow, Henley, Berkhamsted, St Albans, Wokingham, Chalfonts....

I don't know Cheshire so it depends on your budget (these areas are very expensive), schools (local, private, grammar), business (some of these towns are way too busy for me) and what you are looking for in terms of a town and culture.

Edited

I don’t think St Albans is quite in the red ‘circle’?
& it’d barely scrape into having rural feeling anyway.

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 14:41

Elbowpatch · 10/02/2026 14:35

If Luton is on the table then so should Slough. Excellent rail and airport accessibility. Sir John Betjemen even wrote a poem about it.

The opening line is "Come, friendly bombs and fall on Slough"

@Elbowpatch , Slough has already been suggested.

Sir John Betjemen even wrote a poem about it.
The opening line is "Come, friendly bombs and fall on Slough"
That stopped being funny about 60 years ago.

Elbowpatch · 10/02/2026 14:35

If Luton is on the table then so should Slough. Excellent rail and airport accessibility. Sir John Betjemen even wrote a poem about it.

The opening line is "Come, friendly bombs and fall on Slough"

Changedmynameagain20 · 10/02/2026 14:27

fashionqueen0123 · 10/02/2026 13:50

As you have kids, Wokingham. Some of the best state schools you will find. Or Twyford- a bit more rural. Henley is also nice but pricey.

Good train line from Twyford.

Silverbirchleaf · 10/02/2026 14:27

Harpenden may suit you but pricey.

Changedmynameagain20 · 10/02/2026 14:26

Wallingford, Abingdon, Chippenham, Florence Park area of Oxford, Stroud (not quite sure how far that circle extends), Wantage?

NorthXNorthWest · 10/02/2026 14:24

NellieJean · 10/02/2026 14:19

But snobby for me and full of artisan bakers and gastropubs.

I miss the laughing reaction!

NorthXNorthWest · 10/02/2026 14:22

Luton 😂(but it does have an airport)

Amersham, Chalfont St Giles, Beaconsfield, Chorleywood. I think your biggest challenge is a nice village with lively restaurants and amenities + not an eyewatering house price ( if you live in or near Alderley they won't be as much of a shock). Many places will be just a bit quieter.

In this area, I don't think there is an exact match for Alderley/ the golden triangle. On the upside the weather is warmer down here. I find Oxford over rated and just awkward to navigate. Leamington is nice but there not much around it unlike some of the other villages people have mentioned.

If you have family up North it might be worth thinking about motorway and train networks for visiting family. Also Airports - Heathrow is really handy for some of these villages.

NellieJean · 10/02/2026 14:19

InveterateWineDrinker · 10/02/2026 12:56

Luton is exactly like Alderley Edge, maybe a little more cosmopolitan, and the houses are cheaper too. Good access to highly rated international airport, just like you're used to. You'll love it there!

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But snobby for me and full of artisan bakers and gastropubs.

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 14:12

Henley is lovely but the traffic can be horrendous.

staringatthesun · 10/02/2026 14:05

St Albans, Harpenden, Hitchin, Tunbridge Wells, Seven Oaks and Berkhampstead may all fit the bill.

Youspurnme · 10/02/2026 14:05

InveterateWineDrinker · 10/02/2026 12:56

Luton is exactly like Alderley Edge, maybe a little more cosmopolitan, and the houses are cheaper too. Good access to highly rated international airport, just like you're used to. You'll love it there!

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😂😂

OtherS · 10/02/2026 14:03

Beaconsfield is rather more than " reasonably affluent" though, it regularly tops the list of most expensive towns in the UK. Gerrards Cross isn't that far behind, as is the rest of South Bucks. If budget is no object, Amersham sounds like a perfect fit; it's in the Chilterns AONB, with miles of walks in all directions. It has a very beautiful old town, and a very useful newer town (Amersham on the Hill) with every convenience you're likely to need day to day including both Waitrose and M&S Foodhall, several independent boutiques, loads of hairdressers, and an absolutely absurd number of coffee shops. Last count was 14 within 5 minutes walk, though they've recently opened a gelato brunch place so might be more. There's also a train station which had Chiltern line trains to London in 34 minutes, and the Metropolitan (tube) line in 50-something. Best bit is you only pay underground prices whether you take the train or the tube, so it's about half the price of Beaconsfield or Gerrards Cross. Also marginally cheaper to buy houses, at least up top. They are building an Aldi down the bottom though, which you may appreciate, or not...!

Little Chalfont down the road is cheaper, and also has the cheap station. And an amazingly good bakery. Less quaint though, and fewer walks. Berkhamstead might also be a good fit, everyone I know who's lived there absolutely loved it, but I'm not sure on prices. Chesham ok, but bit 'rougher'. Chalfont St Peter good, but no train station. Slough, Aylesbury and High Wycombe much cheaper - for a reason! Thame and Wendover are lovely, but quieter and further from town. Marlow's nice but very 'polished' these days, and very busy in summer. Traffic's hideous on the bypass though, and about to get much worse. Useless station only goes to Maidenhead though, so getting in and out of London is a pain. Henley similar, though I personally think it has a better vibe than Marlow. Both also extremely expensive.

Borgonzola · 10/02/2026 14:00

Wallingford, Amersham, Harpenden

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 13:56

Tell that to GX residents. Smile

Needtorunawayfromitall · 10/02/2026 13:54

NamingNoNames · 10/02/2026 13:52

I know the area but they're a few miles apart.

About the same as Marlow and High Wycombe or Gerrards X and Slough.

A few miles apart is close…

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