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Would you take on the mortgage?

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CheckofSense · 10/02/2026 09:24

We’ve found a house we love, currently renting. We’ve been declined for a high street mortgage due to some 5/6 year old credit issues. Everything done well for 4 years.

We can get a subprime mortgage fixed for 2 years when we can switch to high street lenders.

Due to DHs age, if we don’t do it now, we will struggle as he is 51.

High street would have been £1690, but sub prime is £1930 pm.

My income is £3400 pm, DH is £2300, £100 Child Benefit, Board from DD £200pm (not keen to budget this but unlikely to change in the next two years).

Bills account:

Category
Bill Type
Amount
Housing
Mortgage
1,930.00
Utilities
Gas & Electric
214.00
Utilities
Water
54.00
Council
Council Tax
182.00
Media
TV Licence
14.95
Communications
Mobile phone
42.08
Communications
Mobile phone
176.82 (DD pays £80 of this)
Fitness
Gym membership
53.28
Fitness
Gym membership
53.28
Subscriptions
Amazon Prime
8.99
Subscriptions
Amazon Music
10.99
Subscriptions
Netflix
12.99
Subscriptions
Disney+
8.99
Entertainment
National Lottery
42.00
Insurance
Pet insurance
103.63
Savings
Premium Bonds
100.00
Finance
Home insurance
15.77
Health
NHS prescriptions
11.45
Health
Opticians
18.00
Family
Account fee
15.00
Savings
School lunches / bus fare
90.00
Finance
Retail finance (DFS)
30.00
Weekly (avg monthly)
Child pocket money
43.33

Total: £3275.00

Unfortunately our pet is likely to pass soon, so insurance will stop and we can cancel the lottery payments if needed. Gas & Electric likely to go down now we’ve cleared a significant debit balance and new house would be more economical.

This leaves all of DHs wage for food, petrol, savings and discretionary spends.

OP posts:
CheckofSense · 10/02/2026 09:43

DHs biggest worry is he gets ill or injured and can’t work for a while, I think income protection will be too expensive due to his age, but I can pay all the bills (I have good sick pay and benefits), we would just have to cut all discretionary spending and use his SSP for food.

OP posts:
CheckofSense · 10/02/2026 09:42

Rent is currently £950, since my last pay rise I’ve been saving £1000 a month (was £600 before this).

OP posts:
treeowl · 10/02/2026 09:30

Agree it’s now or never

rwalker · 10/02/2026 09:29

Sounds do able but as you say it’s now or never
and there’s a safety net of there a few of your outgoings you could cancel

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