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Gdpr at the doctor's reception

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MsGreying · 10/02/2026 08:34

https://www.stokesentinel.co.uk/news/stoke-on-trent-news/community-leader-overhears-patients-private-10779277.amp

I dislike giving personal information in public. I think this news article highlights concerns.

Giving date of birth out and address at the doctor's or chemist feels really wrong when the place is busy.

'Gross breach of GDPR' as patient's 'private details' overheard in GP reception

'It needs to be addressed'

https://www.stokesentinel.co.uk/news/stoke-on-trent-news/community-leader-overhears-patients-private-10779277.amp

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LordofMisrule1 · 11/02/2026 11:57

I think this is a really important thing that the public have seemingly accepted for a long time, probably because they feel there's nothing they can do about it. Being expected to say your address in the chemist is absolutely ridiculous tbh. I just write it on my notes app and show it to the assistant. I don't want anyone in earshot to know exactly where I live when I'm off home carrying a bag of drugs.

As others have highlighted it's unrelated to GDPR as it's you yourself giving out your personal info publicly.

I'm always surprised chemists don't ask patients for ID to collect medication, unless it's a CD.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 11/02/2026 11:09

It's definitely not right in cases of adoption. I had a little girl in a class that I taught, and she and her brother- both with incredibly distinctive first names- were adopted, admittedly in another council, but not a million miles away from where they were born. I always wonder if they managed to stay under the radar, away from their birth family, for their own safety, as it wasn't recommended that their first names were changed after the adoption. They will now be in late primary/early secondary school, and I do hope that the adoption went well for both of them. The little girl was lovely!

The only thing that I do object to is disclosing why I would like an appointment, because I grew up in a village where everybody knew your business and your family, so attempting to maintain any form of privacy required a lot of effort!

Smiling2022 · 11/02/2026 10:25

KilkennyCats · 10/02/2026 22:22

Presumably anyone standing nearby would also have heard her asking the pharmacist for it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

No, she went into that private little room with a door to discuss what she needed. No one knew what she was waiting for.

Needlenardlenoo · 11/02/2026 08:48

Quite interesting to consider that in America this is strictly not allowed. The regulations in America are HIPAA if anyone wants to look it up. Different system of course but the way things are going in the UK, could be useful to know.

Itsmetheflamingo · 10/02/2026 23:00

YourDearPearlWasp · 10/02/2026 10:39

It's not a breach of GDPR to ask name or DOB, it's for patient safety.

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Totally. “Gross breach” what a drama llama

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 22:57

@PrizedPickledPopcorn And thst happens every day of the week to all of us? You need to find another way, but the rest of us don’t. You probably need another GP.

KilkennyCats · 10/02/2026 22:22

Smiling2022 · 10/02/2026 13:02

The worse thing I ever experienced was waiting in a long queue at Boot's pharmacy area.
I was waiting for my prescription. There was a lady stood to the side, not in the queue.
The pharmacist asked her assistant if the lady stood the side was waiting to be served.
The assistant said in a loud voice without even thinking "Oh, she's being dealt with, she's waiting for the morning after pill"
The poor woman got really upset, everyone heard what was said....

Presumably anyone standing nearby would also have heard her asking the pharmacist for it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 22:18

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 10/02/2026 22:07

So have it written in your notes ready for whenever you need to share it in such a scenario. If that’s THAT important for you not to say it aloud then you can find this is a really easy solution! Help yourself instead of expecting the world to bow to your niche issue.

There is no need for anyone to have to call out their address in public. It isn’t niche. There are many reasons why some people need to keep it private.

Yes, if we know someone will be expecting us to call out our name and address, we can prepare a strategy. If. But why should we need to, when other people have come up with far better systems that don’t need it.

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 10/02/2026 22:07

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 13:20

It was my address I had to share, and still do at the pharmacy. It’s no longer a problem. It was a safeguarding problem at the time.

If I’d not answered and started fiddling with my phone, I think she’d have moved on to the next person in line. When you are in a noisy environment with impatient people behind, and a deadline to check in for an appointment, it’s not easy to resist the pressure.

So have it written in your notes ready for whenever you need to share it in such a scenario. If that’s THAT important for you not to say it aloud then you can find this is a really easy solution! Help yourself instead of expecting the world to bow to your niche issue.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 22:07

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 15:06

@PrizedPickledPopcorn It absolutely is not. In hardly any circumstances! And they are safe house type families by and large. Safeguarding is not about saying your name. It’s about being groomed and abused.

It damn well is when the birth family who are a risk to the child are stood next to you!

murasaki · 10/02/2026 21:36

Needlenardlenoo · 10/02/2026 17:21

So two really simple adaptations that would work almost anywhere. So sensible. It'll never catch on!

Exactly. Today's words spoken in the pharmacy while picking up DP's prescription were ' hi, we pay for this' as I handed over the paper, and they keep paid for in a separate box so it's quicker for them to find if you specify, and 'thanks' when I paid and he handed it over.

Last GP appointment I checked in on the touchscreen, and didn't say a word to anyone outside the consultation room, as they announce which room you should go to and show your name briefly on a screen. No other data shared publicly. Two different places, two good systems.

MrsEmmelinePankhurst · 10/02/2026 20:10

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 17:17

There really are not people taking your details down in a shop or doctor’s who would use them illegally! Honestly!

My post above yours literally tells you that there are, with a concrete example!

Needlenardlenoo · 10/02/2026 17:23

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 17:17

There really are not people taking your details down in a shop or doctor’s who would use them illegally! Honestly!

There are, however, always a certain % of people at risk from abusive ex partners, stalkers, and birth families in the case of adoption.

None of those affect me thankfully, but I can see how difficult it would be.

Needlenardlenoo · 10/02/2026 17:21

murasaki · 10/02/2026 13:21

My local pharmacy has a box of bits of paper and pens for you to write it down, it works well.

At my gp, you check in via a qr code or the screen on the wall, again, no issues.

So two really simple adaptations that would work almost anywhere. So sensible. It'll never catch on!

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 17:17

There really are not people taking your details down in a shop or doctor’s who would use them illegally! Honestly!

MrsEmmelinePankhurst · 10/02/2026 16:48

But by requiring you to say your details out loud within earshot of other people, they are laying you open to the risk that someone else will use your details nefariously.

I had to give out my phone number in Zara in order to make a return. It was visible on the till screen facing outwards into the store. The person behind my in the queue made a note of my number and sent me abusive text messages. After a lot of to-ing and fro-ing I got Zara to change their policy, but I no longer shop there. What if, say, I’d escaped an abusive relationship and the person behind me knew my ex and took down my number and gave it to them ?

Boots requires you to give the date of birth and address of the person you’re collecting a prescription for. Those details can absolutely be used to commit fraud. We should all be much more aware that, even though giving our details does not in itself consist of a GDPR breach, other people can use those details illegally / to our detriment.

BillieWiper · 10/02/2026 15:15

IamnotSethRogan · 10/02/2026 10:46

I don't think this lady understands GDPR. It would be a breach if the practice staff loudly announced it without the patients permission, but it's not a breach when the person whose information it is states it.

Yeah you can't breach gdpr by saying your own name and address. Or accidentally hearing someone else doing so.

If you noted down the data and then used it for purposes without the person's consent then you would be.

I guess they could have a little pad and pen and people can write it down, or they could just have it in their phone and raise the screen.

But the simple act of overhearing someone saying something personal about themselves isn't a breach of gdpr. As long as you don't 'steal' that information and use it.

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 15:06

@PrizedPickledPopcorn It absolutely is not. In hardly any circumstances! And they are safe house type families by and large. Safeguarding is not about saying your name. It’s about being groomed and abused.

FinallyMummy · 10/02/2026 13:30

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 10/02/2026 13:15

And what is someone going to do with your name and birthday?

I’m ann adoptive mum. Pre-adoption order my child’s name was the birth one they’d always had and giving that alone was a safeguarding concern.
Now their surname has changed but still saying first name and DOB or address is a worry for me in case someone who knows the birth family is around and recognises them.

It is surprisingly hard to get certain places (anything NHS related particularly) to understand and make adjustments for this.

murasaki · 10/02/2026 13:21

My local pharmacy has a box of bits of paper and pens for you to write it down, it works well.

At my gp, you check in via a qr code or the screen on the wall, again, no issues.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 13:21

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 13:19

@MrThorpeHazell I don’t agree. It would help have all info held in one place. Certainly would help with security.

This info given verbally in a waiting room is nothing to do with gdpr. It’s a checking system. The law around holding and sharing info is what matters. Not saying your name!

Requiring people to say their address loudly in public is a safeguarding issue.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 13:20

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 10/02/2026 13:15

You could just write it on your phone and hand it over.

It was my address I had to share, and still do at the pharmacy. It’s no longer a problem. It was a safeguarding problem at the time.

If I’d not answered and started fiddling with my phone, I think she’d have moved on to the next person in line. When you are in a noisy environment with impatient people behind, and a deadline to check in for an appointment, it’s not easy to resist the pressure.

OhDear111 · 10/02/2026 13:19

@MrThorpeHazell I don’t agree. It would help have all info held in one place. Certainly would help with security.

This info given verbally in a waiting room is nothing to do with gdpr. It’s a checking system. The law around holding and sharing info is what matters. Not saying your name!

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 10/02/2026 13:15

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 13:07

I’ve known it be a problem too. I had to say my address loudly in front of people who were not allowed to know where I live for safeguarding reasons. I stage whispered and hoped, because of the queue behind me and the woman not understanding my concern.

@IamnotSethRogan when you are required to do so, it’s a breach of GDPR. The system is set up to effectively force you to share information you may need to keep confidential.

You could just write it on your phone and hand it over.

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 10/02/2026 13:15

And what is someone going to do with your name and birthday?

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