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To think quality furnishings can last a lifetime?

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snble · 08/02/2026 21:33

DP and I are very slowly fitting out our first home together. We are careful with what we buy and make sure it’s all high quality. Solid wood antiques or 60s furniture, english made sofas. solid brass lamps, original paintings. The idea is that these items will either last us a lifetime or will hold a good amount of value if we needed to sell them on.

I think to my granny’s house that she built in the 70s and most things were from then and looked good even in 2010. Whereas my mum is asking us if why we don’t just do a big ikea shop.

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Bikergran · 08/02/2026 21:37

My mother was an antique dealer and I have always thought like this, but now I am getting on in years, I don't know if any of my kids will want any of the stuff I have cherished for so long. Part of me is thinking of downsizing and sending the lot to auction.

MyBestThing · 08/02/2026 21:35

It's true but you'll be sick of the sight of it after 20 years, let alone 40 or 60 years.
It's also a myth that old furniture has value. People want whatever is modern, not what their grandparents had.