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Time for Women with Talent to Take Back Older Female Roles in Pantos

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SpringTimeIsRingTime · 08/02/2026 15:31

Panto Dames have been a thing since 1806 when a certain Mr Simmons decided to play Mother Goose as a Witch (how original) rather than as a caring grandmother figure. Nowadays panto dames are mainly played by gay men in drag.

I think it's time for talented actresses to take back elder female roles from the tired tropes played by men since the Victorian era.

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Coffeeteasugar · 08/02/2026 23:11

PeriMerry · 08/02/2026 17:30

I don't think panto is for you OP!

Maybe try a bit of Shakespeare? or not

Far too much cross dressing in Shakespeare! 🤣

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 23:11

WearyAuldWumman · 08/02/2026 23:09

I recall seeing Una Maclean playing the Dame in panto at the McRobert Theatre in Stirling in '84. Very good she was too.

I think that many of the pantos in Scotland have moved away from having a woman playing the Principal Boy.

I believe that the most recent panto at the Adam Smith Theatre, Kirkcaldy didn't have a Principal Boy at all - the Princess was the leading character - but they did have a male Dame. The Dames up here are normally well-known comedians of either sex. The best known woman currently playing Dame roles would probably be Elaine C. Smith.

https://www.glasgowtimes.co.uk/news/23821293.elaine-c-smith-says-feels-privileged-part-glasgow-panto/

Interesting, sounds like a good approach. I like giving the princess a bigger role, too.

WearyAuldWumman · 08/02/2026 23:09

SpringTimeIsRingTime · 08/02/2026 16:40

It's a highly visible role and one designed for older women.

I recall seeing Una Maclean playing the Dame in panto at the McRobert Theatre in Stirling in '84. Very good she was too.

I think that many of the pantos in Scotland have moved away from having a woman playing the Principal Boy.

I believe that the most recent panto at the Adam Smith Theatre, Kirkcaldy didn't have a Principal Boy at all - the Princess was the leading character - but they did have a male Dame. The Dames up here are normally well-known comedians of either sex. The best known woman currently playing Dame roles would probably be Elaine C. Smith.

https://www.glasgowtimes.co.uk/news/23821293.elaine-c-smith-says-feels-privileged-part-glasgow-panto/

Elaine C. Smith says she feels 'very privileged' to be part of Glasgow panto

LEGENDARY actress Elaine C. Smith says she feels "very privileged" to be a part of Glasgow's panto scene.

https://www.glasgowtimes.co.uk/news/23821293.elaine-c-smith-says-feels-privileged-part-glasgow-panto/

MirrorMirror1247 · 08/02/2026 23:09

I did see a production of Jack and The Beanstalk a few years ago where Jack was played by a woman, although the character was portrayed as female (Jack presumably short forJacqueline). I thought it worked quite well. No tights and tunic though, if I remember correctly she wore dungarees.

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 23:08

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 23:06

Which countries? I know there have been controversies about Russian companies doing this.

Russian companies are very insistent on playing it the way it originally was played (not that many Russian ballet companies are being allowed to dance at the moment still)

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 23:06

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 23:01

BTW, are you sure most UK panto dames now are gay men playing it drag-style?

If OP means "drag" as in "Drag Race" then it's not common at all, most pantos still have the "motherly figure who's clearly played by a man" version

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 23:06

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 23:03

The touring companies from other countries who perform on UK stages quite often do

Which countries? I know there have been controversies about Russian companies doing this.

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 23:03

taxi4ballet · 08/02/2026 22:58

Which companies in the UK would they be?

The touring companies from other countries who perform on UK stages quite often do

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 23:02

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 22:54

That sounds good. The Ugly Sisters could be given outlandish makeup etc, as you say

I've also seen it done where the Ugly Stepsisters are "ugly on the inside" as in because they are vain and selfish

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 23:01

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 22:53

Is yellowface used? I've never seen that. Shocking ...

It's quite uncomfortable to watch the Arabian and Chinese dances tbh

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 23:01

SpringTimeIsRingTime · 08/02/2026 15:31

Panto Dames have been a thing since 1806 when a certain Mr Simmons decided to play Mother Goose as a Witch (how original) rather than as a caring grandmother figure. Nowadays panto dames are mainly played by gay men in drag.

I think it's time for talented actresses to take back elder female roles from the tired tropes played by men since the Victorian era.

BTW, are you sure most UK panto dames now are gay men playing it drag-style?

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 22:59

YouBelongHere · 08/02/2026 18:32

I think there is an argument to be had about how generally the 'funny' parts in panto's have always gone to men whilst women were just there to be pretty but tbh in recent years I do think it's gotten better. Saw Doreen Tipton in Wolverhampton and Birmingham, she was fantastic and got to be funny.

Panto dames though? Traditionally played by men. I'm not sure about your statistic that they're 'mostly played by gay men' either.

Imo panto can of course be played by gay men but traditionally drag (mainly done by gay men) is quite different in that men were trying to look feminine. The whole joke of the panto dame is that it's played by a galumphing older man- if it were played a feminine or androgynous man it wouldn't be so funny.

Nowadays drag has crossed to be more grotesquely mocking women, and that has seeped into panto when panto dames have gone for a more drag style performance. Neither is good

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 22:59

Lobbygobbler · 08/02/2026 22:36

I have tried to explain myself and you still believe you know better.
in any event, mentioning musicals with female lead roles is only the tip of the iceberg which if you work in theatre, you would know. The numbers of production roles filled by women in musical theatre and straight theatre are really bad, all of which can be evidenced by recent statistics.
musical theatre may be doing ok but straight drama, both London based and regional are in real trouble. That was the point I was making which for some reason annoyed you.

I do work in theatre and I do know what I'm on about
Which is why I know using "theatre" and "straight plays" as synonyms for each other is problematic

You didn't say "straight plays are in trouble", you said "theatre"

If you can't see how it reads then it's on you

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 08/02/2026 22:58

Lobbygobbler · 08/02/2026 22:51

Actresses won’t care. They are playing a character the audience is responding to. It’s the character who is ugly, not them.

I think it's both, really: they obviously have an ugly character, but with the simple visual that they are also physically very ugly as 'women'.

Pantomimes really aren't intended to be highbrow art to encourage you to engage your brain and consider the wider ramifications and deeper nuances of a highly visceral performance; as theatre goes, they're as subtle as a bin lorry.

taxi4ballet · 08/02/2026 22:58

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 22:41

The Nutcracker is still performed with the ethnically incorrect Arabian and Chinese dances by some companies. Because I have actually seen that. Yes.

Which companies in the UK would they be?

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 22:57

SnowyPetals · 08/02/2026 18:32

My cat is livid that nobody has given him the opportunity to play Puss in Boots.

Now that I'd go to see!

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 22:54

Ricecrispiesatsix · 08/02/2026 22:53

I’m in an am dram group and I can guarantee that if we did Cinderella as a panto, the ugly sisters would be the most auditioned for roles! Fun and silly roles like that are always more popular than the boring parts (like Cinderella herself). Men and women would go for it, and because we have more women than men in our group they would probably be played by women. Probably women who are very attractive in real life. Their ugliness contrasted with Cinderella’s beauty would be portrayed by costume, posture, voice, mannerisms etc.

I’ve seen Cinderella performed by another am dram group with 2 women as the ugly sisters and they were fantastic. One in particular was a stand out performance. Not once did I think “this would be better if they were men”.

That sounds good. The Ugly Sisters could be given outlandish makeup etc, as you say

Ricecrispiesatsix · 08/02/2026 22:53

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 08/02/2026 22:45

No-one's saying get rid of panto - just allow actresses a chance to play female roles such as the Dame Panto or the Ugly Sisters.

I think it would risk turning an otherwise good-humoured production into something quite nasty and awkward if you had an older woman playing an ugly sister - inviting the audience to laugh at how ugly she is. I can't think many actresses would truly want that part either, when it isn't about the actor skilfully portraying a villainous and wicked character: it's primarily physical-driven absurd humour.

It's not high art. The idea is that everybody laughs a lot at the people playing the ugly, grotesque sisters - and the actors play up to it, usually with lots of pathetically deluded and ridiculous lines and ad libs about how amazingly pretty they're convinced that they are; because they are clearly men and thus they are naturally going to be ugly/unattractive 'women'. Cinderella is a beautiful woman contrasted against two ugly 'women'. It would take a really unpleasant turn if you were inviting everybody to physically compare like with like: i.e. three actual women, one of whom is a beautiful woman and the other two are as ugly as she is beautiful.

I’m in an am dram group and I can guarantee that if we did Cinderella as a panto, the ugly sisters would be the most auditioned for roles! Fun and silly roles like that are always more popular than the boring parts (like Cinderella herself). Men and women would go for it, and because we have more women than men in our group they would probably be played by women. Probably women who are very attractive in real life. Their ugliness contrasted with Cinderella’s beauty would be portrayed by costume, posture, voice, mannerisms etc.

I’ve seen Cinderella performed by another am dram group with 2 women as the ugly sisters and they were fantastic. One in particular was a stand out performance. Not once did I think “this would be better if they were men”.

Carla786 · 08/02/2026 22:53

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 22:41

The Nutcracker is still performed with the ethnically incorrect Arabian and Chinese dances by some companies. Because I have actually seen that. Yes.

Is yellowface used? I've never seen that. Shocking ...

Lobbygobbler · 08/02/2026 22:51

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 08/02/2026 22:45

No-one's saying get rid of panto - just allow actresses a chance to play female roles such as the Dame Panto or the Ugly Sisters.

I think it would risk turning an otherwise good-humoured production into something quite nasty and awkward if you had an older woman playing an ugly sister - inviting the audience to laugh at how ugly she is. I can't think many actresses would truly want that part either, when it isn't about the actor skilfully portraying a villainous and wicked character: it's primarily physical-driven absurd humour.

It's not high art. The idea is that everybody laughs a lot at the people playing the ugly, grotesque sisters - and the actors play up to it, usually with lots of pathetically deluded and ridiculous lines and ad libs about how amazingly pretty they're convinced that they are; because they are clearly men and thus they are naturally going to be ugly/unattractive 'women'. Cinderella is a beautiful woman contrasted against two ugly 'women'. It would take a really unpleasant turn if you were inviting everybody to physically compare like with like: i.e. three actual women, one of whom is a beautiful woman and the other two are as ugly as she is beautiful.

Actresses won’t care. They are playing a character the audience is responding to. It’s the character who is ugly, not them.

vodkaredbullgirl · 08/02/2026 22:48

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 08/02/2026 22:46

Hmmm, one female and seven men? Are all the men... on the short side?!

😂

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 08/02/2026 22:46

SardinesOnButteredToast · 08/02/2026 16:06

But most of the time, it just isn't. Where I live there are always posters for the pantos at four large venues. I always notice there is one female name/face on each poster and between four and seven men. I'm sure this doesn't represent every panto in the history of time, but I've noticed the pattern in all four venues posters for the last decade (since I started noticing).

Hmmm, one female and seven men? Are all the men... on the short side?!

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 08/02/2026 22:45

No-one's saying get rid of panto - just allow actresses a chance to play female roles such as the Dame Panto or the Ugly Sisters.

I think it would risk turning an otherwise good-humoured production into something quite nasty and awkward if you had an older woman playing an ugly sister - inviting the audience to laugh at how ugly she is. I can't think many actresses would truly want that part either, when it isn't about the actor skilfully portraying a villainous and wicked character: it's primarily physical-driven absurd humour.

It's not high art. The idea is that everybody laughs a lot at the people playing the ugly, grotesque sisters - and the actors play up to it, usually with lots of pathetically deluded and ridiculous lines and ad libs about how amazingly pretty they're convinced that they are; because they are clearly men and thus they are naturally going to be ugly/unattractive 'women'. Cinderella is a beautiful woman contrasted against two ugly 'women'. It would take a really unpleasant turn if you were inviting everybody to physically compare like with like: i.e. three actual women, one of whom is a beautiful woman and the other two are as ugly as she is beautiful.

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 22:41

taxi4ballet · 08/02/2026 22:37

You don't go the ballet much, do you?

The Nutcracker is still performed with the ethnically incorrect Arabian and Chinese dances by some companies. Because I have actually seen that. Yes.

GreenIsTheColourOfMyHoliday · 08/02/2026 22:38

SpringTimeIsRingTime · 08/02/2026 22:30

Oh stop with your misogyny - they're extremely talented comedians who can bring a lot more skill to the role than the average mediocre male drag artist.

Edited

So why didn't you suggest someone like Sophie Wilan or Aisling Bea or Katherine Ryan or even Mel Giedrych?

There's something very similar about most of the women you suggested and the misogyny lies in you suggesting them playing a traditionally male role...