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Voluntary contribution of £120 for school

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Voiceofreason92 · 07/02/2026 20:25

My son’s school have always asked for a voluntary contribution of £35 per year per child. This year they have decided to up it to £60 per child. I have two children. In the past it’s never been clear what that £35 is going on so have always reluctantly contributed. This year they have asked for money for revamping the year 1 toilets, building a ‘summer house’ style cabin as an intervention room and to support their staffing structure.

since September, it’s been in the newsletter every week saying they still don’t have 100% of families contributing and they would really like it. (Only 50% have) This week a letter came home in my kid’s book bag from the head teacher saying that they noticed I havent paid my £120 contribution and they really think it’s time I contributed for my boys.
AIBU unreasonable for not contributing out of principle that I feel hounded and it’s meant to be voluntary.
(this is a state primary school not a private one)

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Besidemyselfwithworry · 07/02/2026 20:27

That’s really rude.
I’d be sending a copy of the letter to offstead! They have no idea of peoples circumstances either I think thats really inappropriate.

Sadteacher · 07/02/2026 20:26

Does the actual wording say they ‘really think it’s time’?