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Drivers getting more reluctant to move to let emergency vehicles on blues and twos through

62 replies

Kloh · 07/02/2026 16:41

Drive a lot in rush hour traffic having doing Dolly hours (9-5) and recently when an emergency vehicle is coming from behind the traffic, very few move to the side - there is room, until the ambulance is almost touching the other vehicles’ bumpers. Inconsiderate, selfish and ignorant.

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5foot5 · 07/02/2026 21:06

MassiveOvaryaction · 07/02/2026 19:07

I think it's less reluctance to move over and more general decrease in observational skills tbh.

Maybe, but if so it doesn't just apply to drivers. Pedestrians looking at their phone or with headphones on can be pretty oblivious to what is going on around them.

I was walking home from work one evening and waiting at a crossing for the lights to change. Quite a few other pedestrians were waiting too. An ambulance with sirens going and blue lights on was racing towards the crossing. Just as it got to the crossing the green man appeared. Naturally everyone waiting stayed where they were so the ambulance could go through. Well, everyone apart from one woman with headphones in who was clearly oblivious and started to cross in front of it. The ambulance screeched to a halt just a few metres from her and she still didn't notice but continued on her way. Everyone else watched open mouthed, shaking their heads in disbelief.

lazyarse123 · 07/02/2026 20:47

I haven't noticed it here but sometimes it's hard to tell where the sirens are coming from since they changed them. Although I am good at seeing blue lights. A lot of drivers these days seem oblivious to other road users.

Barrellturn · 07/02/2026 20:42

igelkott2026 · 07/02/2026 17:01

Driving with an airpod in? I know people have lost their collective braincells, but really?

I see it all the time. And cyclists which huge noise cancelling headphones on. I can't understand why you'd want to not hear traffic when cycling!

MassiveOvaryaction · 07/02/2026 19:07

I think it's less reluctance to move over and more general decrease in observational skills tbh.

LlynTegid · 07/02/2026 19:02

I've not seen this trend myself.

However, it would be easier and less likely to be necessary if roadworks were conducted properly and with consideration for those who use roads. I bet half or more of those this month will be to spend up the budget before March, and with no working after 4pm or at weekends, even where traffic lights have to be there 24/7.

Pricelessadvice · 07/02/2026 18:59

I’ve not noticed this but I have noticed people are slower to react and often don’t realise the emergency vehicle is there until it’s nearly on top of them. Perhaps less awareness in general of their surroundings, or loud music in the car?

Needmorelego · 07/02/2026 18:58

There's so much traffic and cars parked on the road in London there's usually no where for vehicles to go if they try to move out the way.

SpaceRaccoon · 07/02/2026 18:58

Whereabouts are you OP? I want to test a theory.

Hairybuf · 07/02/2026 18:54

I’ve not noticed this at all. If anything, other driver’s reactions to an emergency vehicle are wildly over the top.

NewPapaGuinea · 07/02/2026 18:52

How can you expect a driver to notice an ambulance when they’re looking down at their phone?

Chisbots · 07/02/2026 18:52

I saw a FB post from our local Police explaining how hand signals from police directing traffic work.

So like stop, go on, etc.

As apparently people don't understand them now.

Kloh · 07/02/2026 18:49

Tableforjoan · 07/02/2026 16:52

Because with so many cameras around now ready to fine you people can’t afford to risk it.

Dh has pulled into verges up curbs and all
sorts but would he knowingly risk a fine to move. I doubt it. Unless he knew it was coming to our house at which point he would already be jumping reds himself.

Edited

About 9 years ago I pulled over to let an ambulance through. It was the summer, overgrown grass verges. BANG! I hit a broken kerbstone. If I saw the broken kerbstone, I would have driven 1/4 of a car length.

Fortunately my car then had a space saving tyre (those modern puncture kits get with cars are crap), a kind man swapped it for me. Then £50 worse off.

I live in the Midlands, drive around the city ring road to go to a town 10 miles away

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greencheetah · 07/02/2026 17:43

Where do you live? Definitely isn’t happening where I am (SE)

User1367349 · 07/02/2026 17:27

I will pull over if I can. But since it was publicised that you will still get points and fines if you step a toe out of line to allow an ambulance past, I’m much more cautious.

Thatcannotberight · 07/02/2026 17:26

Not where I live, two cars nearly ran me and my dog over ( on the pavement) suddenly throwing their cars up out of an ambulances' way. I had nowhere to move to or any time to do it. Fuckwits.

Sunfloweranddaisy · 07/02/2026 17:13

Unless there is a yellow box or the traffic lights are red then people move for them where possible in our city.

Galatine · 07/02/2026 17:13

CharlotteSometimeslikesanafternoonnap · 07/02/2026 16:43

Agree. I pulled in one morning last week to make room for an ambulance and a fuckwit woman between me and the ambulance overtook me.

By fuckwit I assume that you mean a BMW driver!
(light hearted)

Craftysue · 07/02/2026 17:05

Not where I live - fairly big city and people are still moving over - just a shame about some of the idiot parking that blocks the roads anyway 😔

luckylavender · 07/02/2026 17:04

Doesn’t happen here - Brighton. Road is usually rammed but everyone squeezes out of the way

SargeMarge · 07/02/2026 17:02

Weekmindedfool · 07/02/2026 16:44

Ah here we go. Cue all the comments about
how Its illegal to go through a red light even for an emergency vehicle and even the police say so and even my DH who is a paramedic says so….does that cover it all?

Are you the poster who always goes on about not believing that? It’s not a matter up for debate. The law is clear. And if you do get caught by a red light camera, you’ll get a ticket. Appeal will be denied. That is just fact. And I’m in Glasgow with bus lane cameras everywhere and they are desperate to fine for that, so I won’t enter a bus lane either. The bloody ambulance should be in the bus lane.

A ticket is a week’s food shopping for me and my kids and a I just cannot afford it. Is the person in the ambulance going to feed my kids for a week? Because I wouldn’t be able to. That’s life for a lot of people.

I’ll get out of the way as much as possible, even if it means going on the pavement which is also a worry in Scotland with the new pavement parking laws, but there aren’t cameras up looking for that yet.

99pwithaflake · 07/02/2026 17:02

Never noticed this. We had an ambulance come past us on Thursday and everyone stopped/moved where possible.

igelkott2026 · 07/02/2026 17:01

Barrellturn · 07/02/2026 16:49

I've noticed this but suspect it's because a lot of people seem to drive with air pods in and probably don't hear it.

Driving with an airpod in? I know people have lost their collective braincells, but really?

igelkott2026 · 07/02/2026 17:01

I haven't noticed that - I think people are still very good. I have encountered some super-impatient emergency vehicle drivers though - you're in the process of moving and they lean on the horn. You can only move once there's space and in each case (once was my DH, sometimes I see other drivers moving) the driver couldn't have moved any faster.

I do think we should do the German emergency lane, whereby the cars move over to the left (or right depending on what lane they are in) to make a lane in the middle.

SargeMarge · 07/02/2026 16:59

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 07/02/2026 16:56

I've not noticed this, but more importantly where does the term 'dolly hours' come from?

Dolly Parton… 9 to 5… ringing any bells?

rebeccachoc · 07/02/2026 16:57

I know I move as soon as I see the lights and it's safe to pull over but people but overtake me like they've got no care in the world. I do hope in the future, people will lose their licences for not pulling over.