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Explain to me why you offence is caused by saying things like 'mildly autistic' etc.

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Purpleturtle45 · 07/02/2026 02:19

If ASD is a spectrum why do people commonly disagree that you can be mildly autistic or severely autistic etc.

My daughter is diagnosed with ASD, however you wouldn't really know unless you knew her well. She goes to mainstream school and copes well with everyday life most of the time so to me I would say she is mildly autistic but I often see people getting ripped to shreds on here for using that term.

Genuinely wondering how 'spectrum' can literally be in the title of the condition but people disagree there can be different severities.

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SweetDreamsAreMadeOfFizz · 07/02/2026 02:25

You either have autism, or you don't. Within the diagnosis of autism there is a spectrum of traits which vary between individuals. This unique constellation of individual traits can result in very different life experiences, skill sets and capabilities. You can't be a little bit autistic, it's like saying you're a little bit pregnant - you either are or are not.

Forree · 07/02/2026 02:23

It's not a spectrum from more autistic to less but rather a spectrum like this

Explain to me why you offence is caused by saying things like 'mildly autistic' etc.
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