Not even sure where to start with this one
Dh has been off with me all week. Snappy, short answers to any questions and just not engaged at all.
He had a drink tonight and finally admitted that he thinks i'm too boring for him. Because I don't have many friends. Don't go out and when I do its usually with work friends.
He thinks I am a terrible friend because I don't have many so I must be.
I don't go to any clubs or activities etc and we don't go out at the weekend often.
Here's the thing.. we have 2 children (8 and 4.) Both work full time and up until a year ago he worked shifts (earlies/lates/nights) so I could never make plans as he was always on shift. Even now he often works shifts. tho less of them and has weeks where he is on call 24/7 so I can't do anything
He also goes to football most weekends all day on Saturday so i'm at home with kids and he may stay put in the pub after until late
He was away with work last week and said he sat in a hotel room just thinking how badly he'd messed up by marrying someone so boring
He seems to think people, even with young children are out socialising every weekend and we're not and the children will suffer because of it