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Fussy eating 5 year old....at my wits end.

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TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 05/02/2026 17:46

My 5yo is extremely fussy, the things she will eat are:
Chicken nuggets
Garlic bread
Sweetcorn
Broccoli
Strawberries
Oranges
Nutella sandwiches
Plain crackers
Pom bear crisps
Biscuits
Chocolate
Ice cream
Sweets.

That's it. Obviously there is no meal there whatsoever, she will eat chicken nuggets and sweetcorn/broccoli most nights. I've tried getting her to help me make stuff so she can be involved, she still will not even touch it let alone eat it. I have tried just giving her meals and making no comment but she will just kick off massively.

Tonight we had lasagne and I put about an inch long piece on her plate along with chips and garlic bread. She ate the middle out of the garlic bread and will not touch the rest. She has spent the last hour screaming because she's hungry and wants ice cream.

I just don't know what to do, surely I can't just give her chicken nuggets every single night?? But equally it's not like she'll eat if she's hungry, she just won't. Any advice welcome.

OP posts:
WizardLizard86 · 05/02/2026 17:50

Lammveg · 05/02/2026 17:49

Have you tried giving her the stuff she eats then a small portion of whatever you are having?

Sorry OP, its really frustrating. Has she always been fussy?

It does say in the OP, with the lasagne.

What does she eat at school? Did she eat at nursery?

is it a texture thing? Can she verbalise why she won’t eat anything else?

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 05/02/2026 17:49

Read "my child won't eat"

Is she a healthy weight?

Lammveg · 05/02/2026 17:49

Have you tried giving her the stuff she eats then a small portion of whatever you are having?

Sorry OP, its really frustrating. Has she always been fussy?