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AIBU to want this government to do some actual governing?

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CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 12:34

So frustrated with the lack of actual effective governing by our current government. Lifelong labour voter and hoped for rapid, pragmatic solutions to domestic problems and considered leadership on international issues. Instead we get bogged down in murky political appointments and constant U-turns on poorly thought through policies.

Every sympathy to the victims of Epstein and his co-offenders. Those culpable should be investigated and brought to justice however powerful / rich. But this current media storm and government instability should never have happened. One instance of inappropriate and / or illegal behaviour in a public office and that's it - no further government appointments should be allowed. One strike and you are out for life. It is a privilege to form part of our government not a personal opportunity to gain wealth, power or escape the law.

My heart hurts reading about 3 more young people dead this week in knife attacks. What is this government doing about tackling knife crime? I have no idea. Banning online sales of knives (except cutlery)? Automatic custodial sentence for carrying a knife? Knife amnesty? Prison for those selling knives to minors? All of these could be introduced quickly and make a difference. While this government flails about young people are dying.

Also don't understand why Labour keep going after the most vulnerable in our society to reduce benefit spending. Most of the electorate agree the welfare system is too complex and unaffordable but random cuts and changes are unpopular and divisive. The whole system needs radically redesigning to be fit for the world we live in now and not just tweaking a system designed 100 years ago.

Just two examples. There are many more!

AIBU to be so frustrated how Labour are letting us down. Anyone else sick of it? What can we do?

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Boomer55 · 06/02/2026 07:50

Fluffyholeysocks · 05/02/2026 14:20

I do wish posters would stop comments like this. Let's not compare Governments by how bad they are. This Labour Government was elected to be better and do better. Are we unreasonable to expect higher standards ? Or should we accept the 'yes they are shit but less shit than the Tories?'

That’s how it is. They have descended into the party squabbling etc we had with the Tories.

Plus U-Turns, too numerous to mention, because they can’t get much past the backbenchers, despite having record seats.

Stats are massaged as they are with every government.

Inhad hoped Thry might do better than the Tories, but they haven’t. Even in the red wall seat of Gordon in the by election to come, they are forecast to come below Reform and the Greens. Burnham might well have won it for them, but Starmer is too scared to let him become an MP. 🙄

randomchap · 06/02/2026 07:44

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 22:10

Didn't Labour say this issue was a national emergency? I agree! But nothing is happening as far as I know to address the problems your post raises.

They are working on Raneem’s Law.

https://womensaid.org.uk/womens-aid-respond-to-the-pilot-launch-of-raneems-law/

Currently being piloted in Northumbria I think.

Part of Labours manifesto pledge to halve vawg.

There was also extra money for the CPS to support victims of crime, but that wasn't specific for women as far as I remember.

It's slow, and should be quicker, but progress is being made.

Women’s Aid respond to the pilot launch of Raneem’s Law - Women’s Aid

Women’s Aid respond to the pilot launch of Raneem’s Law

https://womensaid.org.uk/womens-aid-respond-to-the-pilot-launch-of-raneems-law/

LlynTegid · 05/02/2026 22:14

The government is doing plenty of things that never get reported, because other things take all the headlines. Whilst they have been poor in many respects, they are nowhere near as bad as the Tories were especially since 2019.

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 22:10

Bertiebiscuit · 05/02/2026 17:32

What about the epidemic of violence against women and girls? That seems to only get worse, the Government mentions it occasionally, usually when another woman is murdered by an ex husband/boyfriend, but nothing is actually done, there are fewer police, fewer places in Women's refuges, fewer Helplines & counselling services. Increasing sexual harassment on the streets, public transport and in the workplace. But no extra money is provided, no extra court sessions or prison sentences. Neither Labour nor Tories are genuinely committed to tackling this imo.

Didn't Labour say this issue was a national emergency? I agree! But nothing is happening as far as I know to address the problems your post raises.

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Bertiebiscuit · 05/02/2026 17:32

What about the epidemic of violence against women and girls? That seems to only get worse, the Government mentions it occasionally, usually when another woman is murdered by an ex husband/boyfriend, but nothing is actually done, there are fewer police, fewer places in Women's refuges, fewer Helplines & counselling services. Increasing sexual harassment on the streets, public transport and in the workplace. But no extra money is provided, no extra court sessions or prison sentences. Neither Labour nor Tories are genuinely committed to tackling this imo.

SerendipityJane · 05/02/2026 17:32

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 13:31

In the year ending March 2024, Home Office data shows there were 262 homicides (the killing of one person by another) using a sharp instrument, including knives and broken bottles. This meant sharp instruments were used in 46% of the 570 homicides that occurred in England and Wales in 2023/24.

I don't think 5 deaths a week is "low". Knife crime has only fallen by 9% from 2024 to 2025 and remains 50% higher than before the pandemic.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cgk86rr0vxyo

A man in a blue forensics suits stands over another person, also in a blue forensics suit, at a crime scene. They are in between lines of parked cars and there is a camera on a tripod next to the man standing.

Homicides at lowest level in nearly 50 years, ONS statistics show

The 499 homicide cases in the year to September were the lowest in England and Wales since 1977.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cgk86rr0vxyo

WaryCrow · 05/02/2026 17:28

The Greens were only good with Caroline Lucas. They turned to student politics crap, pro-trans male activism and pro-Islam. They’re embarrassed by British environmentalism these days.

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 17:24

Summerhillsquare · 05/02/2026 16:48

There is heaps of governing, you won't read about it in the newspapers of course. Good news does not produce clicks, gossip and scandal does. If you click on that you will keep being served it. Try the Warm Homes plan, the COVID corruption commission, the end of the 2 child limit etc, search for those and you will find interesting progress.

Yes you are right and I noted the need for "clicks" with scandals in a earlier post. The government needs to get a grip of it's MPs, public appointments and leadership and focus on policy delivery (after proper impact assessments please!).

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Mumoftwoboysaged4and5 · 05/02/2026 17:03

The trouble is that Labour policies appear good for individuals but bad for the economy:

Employ rights bill = employment rates dropping and less grads being hired
Vat on private schools = fuller mainstream classes and private schools closing, job losses etc
ground rents cap = good for young people, terrible for anyone with a pension
two child benefit cap lifted = higher welfare bill

They either need to boost the economy or stick to Labour values and they have shown that they are not doing either currently

Fluffyholeysocks · 05/02/2026 16:59

Summerhillsquare · 05/02/2026 16:50

You are right but people's standards for the left are MUCH higher, without perhaps considering how deep the shit left behind is. People are turning to the greens, not because they suddenly discovered environmentalalism, but because they have little patience for Labour.

Are people really 'turning to the Greens'? I'm not sure. I just see people disappointed, disillusioned, let down and fed up with all of our elected representatives. The new leader of the Greens doesn't seem particularly inspirational. Just more of the same lacklustre quality.

Summerhillsquare · 05/02/2026 16:50

Fluffyholeysocks · 05/02/2026 14:20

I do wish posters would stop comments like this. Let's not compare Governments by how bad they are. This Labour Government was elected to be better and do better. Are we unreasonable to expect higher standards ? Or should we accept the 'yes they are shit but less shit than the Tories?'

You are right but people's standards for the left are MUCH higher, without perhaps considering how deep the shit left behind is. People are turning to the greens, not because they suddenly discovered environmentalalism, but because they have little patience for Labour.

Summerhillsquare · 05/02/2026 16:48

There is heaps of governing, you won't read about it in the newspapers of course. Good news does not produce clicks, gossip and scandal does. If you click on that you will keep being served it. Try the Warm Homes plan, the COVID corruption commission, the end of the 2 child limit etc, search for those and you will find interesting progress.

WaryCrow · 05/02/2026 15:52

It would be nice if Labour did some actual Labouring, but that ship sailed 25 years ago with the most right wing prime minister to that date, Blair. All we’ve had since are money-movers talking about money-moving, unsurprisingly therefore they are not in the least interested in making the country actually work well for plebs.

I wonder if the London political elite have actually just given up and are indeed pursuing disaster capitalist policies now, looking at the ecological issues. We are screwed bow. So many opportunities to stop it, so many ‘pause’ moments when there was going to be real change, all sold for greed.

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/jan/27/uk-government-report-ecosystem-collapse-foi-national-security

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 14:31

Mishmosher · 05/02/2026 14:16

Come to Scotland where most of the time is spent asking why the government is fighting tooth and nail to keep men in women’s prisons, they have made dog snatching illegal even though it already was and they have banned greyhound racing even though we have no greyhound racing tracks in the country. All while violence in schools soars, the NHS gets worse annd worse and major infrastructure projects are still failing.

Exactly. It feels like tinkering rather than systemic improvement and growth fit for the mid 2000s. The Labour government was elected with a mandate (majority) which should have enabled once in a lifetime change. For example why do we still have the same Hospital Front Door (A&E) for a stubbed toe and a heart attack? UTCs are a solution but sparse, opening hours are limited and most people don't know what the UTCs can treat so off they go to A&E.

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ChurchWindows · 05/02/2026 14:26

Another really excellent step forward will be the ban of puppy farming, greater regulation of dog breeders and the crack down on puppy smuggling all as part of the Animal Welfare Strategy. So much suffering prevented.
www.gov.uk/government/news/defra-announces-biggest-animal-welfare-reforms-in-a-generation

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 14:25

MotherofPearl · 05/02/2026 14:06

This was published just before Christmas but I thought made for interesting reading OP.

I do think this current government is very bad at communicating - including communicating its own achievements.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/dec/22/labour-2025-apprenticeships-workers-wages-price-rises-children

Thank you for sharing this it makes interesting reading.

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Fluffyholeysocks · 05/02/2026 14:20

redwinecheeseandothersnacks · 05/02/2026 12:42

Remind me ..how much governing was achieved by the conservatives when they were in power?

I do wish posters would stop comments like this. Let's not compare Governments by how bad they are. This Labour Government was elected to be better and do better. Are we unreasonable to expect higher standards ? Or should we accept the 'yes they are shit but less shit than the Tories?'

explanationplease · 05/02/2026 14:20

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 13:59

I do have some sympathy for this but I also think this government brings about its own obfuscation of it's "effective changes" with the constant dubious appointments, leadership "challenges" (Andy Burnham, Wes Streeting) and U-turns. Much more exciting (and click generating) for the media to cover than banning junk food adverts.

They do, actually.

Mishmosher · 05/02/2026 14:16

Come to Scotland where most of the time is spent asking why the government is fighting tooth and nail to keep men in women’s prisons, they have made dog snatching illegal even though it already was and they have banned greyhound racing even though we have no greyhound racing tracks in the country. All while violence in schools soars, the NHS gets worse annd worse and major infrastructure projects are still failing.

ExtraOnions · 05/02/2026 14:13

Capped ground rent at £250

ChurchWindows · 05/02/2026 14:13

Thanks for the link @MotherofPearl . The Best Start initiative is such a brilliant step forward. The Tory cancellation of Sure Start was a terrible mistake.

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 13:59

anniegun · 05/02/2026 13:54

The media never cover the boring effective changes. A lot of good work goes unreported , especially by governments that do not meet with the approval of the right wing press

I do have some sympathy for this but I also think this government brings about its own obfuscation of it's "effective changes" with the constant dubious appointments, leadership "challenges" (Andy Burnham, Wes Streeting) and U-turns. Much more exciting (and click generating) for the media to cover than banning junk food adverts.

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anniegun · 05/02/2026 13:54

The media never cover the boring effective changes. A lot of good work goes unreported , especially by governments that do not meet with the approval of the right wing press

randomchap · 05/02/2026 13:52

CoralTrout · 05/02/2026 13:48

I watched the C4 programme about Ninja knives at the weekend I could not believe these were legal to buy online by anyone. Shocking lack of governing. In regards to your list:

Banned junk food adverts for children - great but not heard of this
Employment rights bill - good shout
Martyn's law - not heard of this
Abolish non-dom status - has this happened?
Ended vat exception for private schools - had heard of this but not convinced this is systemic change for most

I am well read, watch the news etc. and feel this is quite a limited list.

It's a very limited list of things I could think of in less than a minute. Had to Google the link to the knives thing.

It says a lot about the media in this country that all these things have happened, but you as a well read news watching individual hadn't heard of some of them