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If your house is "nice" inside how did you get it that way

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Designless · 04/02/2026 22:54

Do you know lots of good workmen, did you get lucky calling them in, are you really good at stuff yourself?

I've only ever lived with chaotic stuff that's in various states of disrepair. If I get a new kitchen the hall needs plastering and the bathroom is falling apart and it's an endless cycle. I've never lived somewhere that's just all nice and fresh.

Teach me your ways!!!

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Crochetandtea · 04/02/2026 23:08

We designed and built ours. I did without a lot of things until I could save up to get exactly what I wanted. We had lightbulbs in our front hall and landing for years and years until I found chandeliers I loved. I still haven’t replaced the kitchen table and chairs we brought with us from the house my husband grew up in. I love old furniture etc so don’t mind waiting until I find something I love.

Peridoteage · 04/02/2026 23:03

Its a mixture.

We know we aren't very "handy", so when we bought our house a key criteria was one that didn't need loads doing, we wouldn't have taken on something needing renovation. We likely wouldn't buy a really old/period property for this reason, there will be more things needing repairs and maintenance.

That said, i am willing to get stuck in on absolute basics (dh less so), i'll paint (properly, i'll tape all the edges etc), polyfilla holes & cracks and sand them back. We'll do jobs like hanging pictures and mirrors & I'm a thorough cleaner, so i'll do a proper job shifting limescale. Little things like replacing a shower head or a yellowed shower seal can freshen stuff up without costing a lot. Ive touched up grout in floor tiles & DH has replaced silicon round the bath once

Beyond that - we buy things or get tradespeople in. So we've just replaced carpets, & flooring. Dh has bought really nice light fittings. Try and buy good quality stuff - it lasts. My kitchen is 10 years old but looks really good, i've got spare paint matching the units and will touch it up this summer.

HisNotHes · 04/02/2026 23:02

Spending a lot of money.

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