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IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · 07/02/2026 07:26

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:05

As I said earlier, if you’re having sex with the person why worry about dead skin cells etc? They’re in the bed! So also are pubes and hairs and Willy germs if you’re going to do oral. How is that any cleaner than a shared bath?

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I’m not having sex to get clean, though.

IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · 07/02/2026 07:21

S4uk · 05/02/2026 21:02

Yup!
it still happens here - mum first (likes it hottest) then dad then me!
yes, I am of a certain age, but still live at home.
often my 2 children will get in with mum…

Have I misunderstood this? You’re an adult with 2 children of your own, but you still live at home and you and your kids share bath water with your parents?

That’s vile and so fucking weird. I really hope I’ve misunderstood or that you’re taking the piss.

JHound · 07/02/2026 00:17

UltimateLuxury · 04/02/2026 19:41

Just that really.
For what it is worth we have a massive roll top bath which takes 15 minutes to fill
I usually offer out to rest of family when I am done.
is that okay or grim?

Ew! Gross!

Blades2 · 06/02/2026 23:52

ploddyy · 06/02/2026 22:24

Take the hint

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Until he says stop offering, and it’s not some crank on MN being mean for the sake of it, I’ll carry on thanks 🙏

greengreengrass3 · 06/02/2026 22:55

A bit of a double standard one from me but I could get in the bath with DH but the idea of getting in his bath water I find totally grim

StressedADHD · 06/02/2026 22:49

Normal and good for planet to share.

ploddyy · 06/02/2026 22:46

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:27

I repeat, oral?!😉🤣

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Most people don’t usually eat arsehole

Jollyhockeystickss · 06/02/2026 22:41

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:27

I repeat, oral?!😉🤣

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Oral shower first

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:27

Jollyhockeystickss · 06/02/2026 22:24

People always have poo around their bottom no matter how much theyve wiped, faecal matter will still be there and that will be in the bath water so its a no from me

I repeat, oral?!😉🤣

Jollyhockeystickss · 06/02/2026 22:24

People always have poo around their bottom no matter how much theyve wiped, faecal matter will still be there and that will be in the bath water so its a no from me

ploddyy · 06/02/2026 22:24

Blades2 · 06/02/2026 11:57

If I’m having a quick dip (my boyfriends flat doesn’t have a shower so no choice but to bath if I want to be clean there lol) I’ll offer him my water, he usually declines though 😂

Take the hint

Cola32 · 06/02/2026 22:22

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:05

As I said earlier, if you’re having sex with the person why worry about dead skin cells etc? They’re in the bed! So also are pubes and hairs and Willy germs if you’re going to do oral. How is that any cleaner than a shared bath?

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why worry? Because you know you’ll shower after sharing your cells…

Tableforjoan · 06/02/2026 22:11

Willy germs 🤣 did you just sit in my daughters primary sex ed lesson 🤣🤣

Again sleeping in bed. Having sex. Snogging. Blow jobs. None are what you do to get clean. A wash be that a bath or shower is supposed to be to get clean.

I brush my teeth to clean them I don’t suck a dick to do that 🤣🤣 just like I don’t eat candy floss to floss my teeth. Pubes are not a substitute for flossing folks.

suburburban · 06/02/2026 22:09

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:05

As I said earlier, if you’re having sex with the person why worry about dead skin cells etc? They’re in the bed! So also are pubes and hairs and Willy germs if you’re going to do oral. How is that any cleaner than a shared bath?

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Willy germs😂

that is hilarious but true

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 22:05

IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · 06/02/2026 21:44

Exactly. The fact that there are some people who consider this normal or okay truly baffles me. It’s vile and honestly makes me feel sick 🤢.

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As I said earlier, if you’re having sex with the person why worry about dead skin cells etc? They’re in the bed! So also are pubes and hairs and Willy germs if you’re going to do oral. How is that any cleaner than a shared bath?

IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · 06/02/2026 21:44

Youspurnme · 04/02/2026 21:31

wtf?? How is this even a question in this day and age, it’s revolting!! Sharing dead skin cells, fecal matter, pubes, hairs, with someone?? Fuck me how do you even need to ask? 🤮

Exactly. The fact that there are some people who consider this normal or okay truly baffles me. It’s vile and honestly makes me feel sick 🤢.

Tableforjoan · 06/02/2026 18:52

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 18:51

Why? How? Sex is far more intimate than a bath towel or bath water

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Don’t know about you but I don’t have sex to get clean 🤣 quite the opposite.

I also won’t share towels again I want a clean towel not a preused one.

Jane143 · 06/02/2026 18:51

NorthXNorthWest · 05/02/2026 22:37

There is a world of difference.

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Why? How? Sex is far more intimate than a bath towel or bath water

Blades2 · 06/02/2026 11:57

If I’m having a quick dip (my boyfriends flat doesn’t have a shower so no choice but to bath if I want to be clean there lol) I’ll offer him my water, he usually declines though 😂

TheActualQueen · 06/02/2026 11:36

TittyGajillions · 06/02/2026 09:02

Are you in a cult?

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🤣 this thread 🤣

G5000 · 06/02/2026 11:23

if water bill was an issueI'd rather go and run around naked in the rain than sit in the water where my husband, kids, mum and dad have previously soaked their bits.

S4uk · 06/02/2026 10:51

TittyGajillions · 06/02/2026 09:02

Are you in a cult?

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We also work together, so kinda… 🤣🤣

TittyGajillions · 06/02/2026 09:02

S4uk · 05/02/2026 21:02

Yup!
it still happens here - mum first (likes it hottest) then dad then me!
yes, I am of a certain age, but still live at home.
often my 2 children will get in with mum…

Are you in a cult?

Dawnb19 · 05/02/2026 22:40

I use the same water bathing my 2 children (1 & 4) but for adults I would find it a bit grim. Also, wouldn't the water be cold by the time the second person got in?

TheActualQueen · 05/02/2026 22:39

Gribouille · 05/02/2026 21:46

Ruined by Saltburn...

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