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AIBU to have serious concerns about a Julia Donaldson book?

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BabyNameHelpPls · 03/02/2026 23:14

Specifically, Fox’s Socks.

The fuck is going on with this guy? He’s woken up at 10am, his clothes are all over the place—his hat is underneath the bathmat, and one of his socks on the head of a frankly disturbing Mr. Punch character in the attic… how much did Fox have to drink the previous night?!

Or, as I’m coming to wonder, how involved is the mouse in all this? She’s so unreadable: at first I thought she was just smug, passive-aggressively following him around and not helping to find any of these clothes in bizarre places.

But does she, in fact, have MH issues, possibly even dementia? She pauses halfway through to make a hat out of a rose, for god’s sake. Is Fox a carer for Mouse? Did he sleep through his alarm from sheer stress and exhaustion, to find she had woken up and distributed his belongings throughout the house? Or is this an abusive relationship and she’s gaslighting him into thinking he’s losing his mind?

AIBU to be very worried that this is not an example of healthy dynamics, regardless of character motivations, and damaging to my toddler’s perception of the world? Should I ban the book? Or is there a more nuanced and wholesome interpretation of the work that I’m missing? Any advice welcome.

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Latenightreader · 03/02/2026 23:44

Rabbit's nap - if Rabbit had stopped looking for a place to sleep and either waited or talked to her friends she would have been fine. Builder Bear looks like a kind soul who would have found another task for a couple of hours, Tortoise would have stopped ringing the bell if she'd asked, and when they all turned up to sing her to sleep they were just causing more noise, and had stopped the original sleep-depriving noise! Had she even tried earplugs? Why did she let them in?

I found this book hugely frustrating as the mother of a toddler who woke frequently. Can you tell?

FlashingFairyLight · 03/02/2026 23:38

I could never get over the ending of Hide and Seek pig.

Hens feet all over the egg sandwiches. Shudder.

But gorgeous books. I still know all the words the Rabbits Nap & 'read' it to my 12yo if he's stressed that he can't sleep. Sends him out like a light.

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 03/02/2026 23:34

I believe he’s in Mouse’s house. This was a one night stand gone bad, and now Mouse would just like the Fox to leave.

EmeraldRoulette · 03/02/2026 23:31

I don't have children

but I want to read this book now! 😂😂😂 sounds like they're all off their faces to be honest.

TheGoldenApplesOfTheSun · 03/02/2026 23:28

Isn’t there another one in this series where a mole has lost his spectacles and finds them in a teapot in the end? Equally bizarre. And all the other animals just react like “oh, it’s always in the last place you look!”

OliveOyl321 · 03/02/2026 23:21

😂😂😂😂😂 I just read this book to my 4 year old today and had similar (but not as in-depth) thoughts. My little lad asked why Fox would keep his hat under the bathroom mat. Now I won’t be able to read it again without thinking either Fox is an alcoholic or being coercively controlled 😂😂😂