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AIBU to have serious concerns about a Julia Donaldson book?

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BabyNameHelpPls · 03/02/2026 23:14

Specifically, Fox’s Socks.

The fuck is going on with this guy? He’s woken up at 10am, his clothes are all over the place—his hat is underneath the bathmat, and one of his socks on the head of a frankly disturbing Mr. Punch character in the attic… how much did Fox have to drink the previous night?!

Or, as I’m coming to wonder, how involved is the mouse in all this? She’s so unreadable: at first I thought she was just smug, passive-aggressively following him around and not helping to find any of these clothes in bizarre places.

But does she, in fact, have MH issues, possibly even dementia? She pauses halfway through to make a hat out of a rose, for god’s sake. Is Fox a carer for Mouse? Did he sleep through his alarm from sheer stress and exhaustion, to find she had woken up and distributed his belongings throughout the house? Or is this an abusive relationship and she’s gaslighting him into thinking he’s losing his mind?

AIBU to be very worried that this is not an example of healthy dynamics, regardless of character motivations, and damaging to my toddler’s perception of the world? Should I ban the book? Or is there a more nuanced and wholesome interpretation of the work that I’m missing? Any advice welcome.

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zaffa · 09/02/2026 20:43

Pineapplecolada1 · 05/02/2026 18:35

I’m more concerned about one of the ‘ Mog’ books. Mog alerts the family to a burglar and in the picture it shows the family, the police AND the burglar all smiling whilst enjoying a cuppa!!!

Yes!!! I always found this to be so peculiar!

rainbowunicorn22 · 08/02/2026 10:22

open relationship they probably met at a swingers group or a dogging liasion something very dodgy about that fox

PithyViewer · 07/02/2026 20:28

IridiumSky · 07/02/2026 19:30

I wouldn’t know.

Thank you for the information.

😄😄😄

🤣🤣🤣

IridiumSky · 07/02/2026 19:30

Damnloginpopup · 06/02/2026 23:47

Of course fox looks surprised. The realisation that you fucked a mouse last night kind of does that to you.

I wouldn’t know.

Thank you for the information.

😄😄😄

IridiumSky · 07/02/2026 19:24

Eschra · 05/02/2026 20:39

Actually linguistically its perfectly correct. Stair should always be used in the singular and/or literary state. Plural if talking about multiple stairs or a set(s) of stairs.

'He bumped into her on the stair.' Or, 'while standing on the stair.'

vs

'She ran up the stairs.' 'She stood and looked up despairingly at dozens of stairs before her.'

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I know. I was only having fun.
Although perhaps if one really wanted to be pedantic, one could use ‘stair tread’ (c.f. riser.)
Then get bogged down with the ratio between the going and the rise, and call the building inspector if these are not equal throughout, then check that the treads are sufficiently rebated into the stringers, and that the tread nosing does not excessively protrude as a percentage of the going.
Sometines I wish it was the bloody building inspector who wasn’t there. 😄

user1493379562 · 07/02/2026 13:00

Not a book (that I know of) but on TV that awful 'My Petsaurus'. Quite clearly a purple dinosaur super imposed over a dog but the things it gets up to! Spilling cereal all over the floor and many other naughty activities. We have stopped my little granddaughter from watching it as she was copying everything!

MsSmartShoes · 07/02/2026 04:18

FlashingFairyLight · 03/02/2026 23:38

I could never get over the ending of Hide and Seek pig.

Hens feet all over the egg sandwiches. Shudder.

But gorgeous books. I still know all the words the Rabbits Nap & 'read' it to my 12yo if he's stressed that he can't sleep. Sends him out like a light.

I am not familiar with this book. I would however like to express my horror at a hen walking on egg sarnies. It’s absolutely ghoulish.

NoYourNameChanged · 07/02/2026 03:56

Damnloginpopup · 06/02/2026 23:47

Of course fox looks surprised. The realisation that you fucked a mouse last night kind of does that to you.

Oh for fox ‘ake, this just gets better and better 😂

PithyViewer · 07/02/2026 01:36

Damnloginpopup · 06/02/2026 23:47

Of course fox looks surprised. The realisation that you fucked a mouse last night kind of does that to you.

😆😆😆

Damnloginpopup · 06/02/2026 23:47

PithyViewer · 06/02/2026 00:12

I just had to look at some samples of these books on Amazon.

Fox looks immensely surprised. Either he's still trippin' or he got the shock of his life last night.

As for Mole and his spectacles, he's having a good old rummage round the house and everything looks normal....except for the two giant snails on lettuce leaves casually sitting in his sideboard, where most people keep their plates and glasses. WTAF?

Of course fox looks surprised. The realisation that you fucked a mouse last night kind of does that to you.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 06/02/2026 23:17

Miaminmoo · 05/02/2026 23:55

Although my kids are older now so I am unaware of this book- I used to let them watch ‘In The Night Garden’ that quite frankly presented as if it had been written by someone who was doing a lot of mind-altering substances.

Yes, late DH and I always said the same thing. Also Abney and Teal.

InstinctD · 06/02/2026 21:15

BarnacleBeasley · 06/02/2026 20:31

Just read the Scarecrows' Wedding to DS. He said 'what's a cigar?'

Not a fan of Scarecrow’s Wedding. First bit fine, makes sense but think it’s dredging the barrel a bit if you have to introduce a shady ‘cad’ character as a plot device in a kids book who also smokes (?)

InstinctD · 06/02/2026 21:10

Oh yeah, been there with the flappy repairs. So many came off over a few years between 2 DC I lost a couple and when we read it now and get to a ‘who’s behind this…’ moment, I make a joke of it and act surprised like ‘oh, funny frog has lost his front door!’ and ‘what a breezy house mole has, hardly worth sweeping!’ 😁

CautiousVisitor · 06/02/2026 20:40

Hahaha, my "head-canon" about this one is that Fox and Mouse are lovers. My eldest loved this book so much that we had to repair all the flaps at least once.

BarnacleBeasley · 06/02/2026 20:31

Just read the Scarecrows' Wedding to DS. He said 'what's a cigar?'

JudgeJ · 06/02/2026 17:35

Miaminmoo · 05/02/2026 23:55

Although my kids are older now so I am unaware of this book- I used to let them watch ‘In The Night Garden’ that quite frankly presented as if it had been written by someone who was doing a lot of mind-altering substances.

Doesn't that apply to a lot of things made for children? Magic Roundabout seemed to me to be a junior version of Monty Python for example. These were all written for children who probably thought none of the things mentioned here when they were hearing or reading them, it's just when adults engage in twisting the stories to fit their adult prejudices!

Cariadm · 06/02/2026 16:56

EmeraldRoulette · 03/02/2026 23:31

I don't have children

but I want to read this book now! 😂😂😂 sounds like they're all off their faces to be honest.

The OP's description of the storyline makes the book sound absolutely and astonishingly absurd and if I still had a young child to read aloud to I would have had the same reaction! 🙄
With regard to 'being off their faces' I can only wonder at Ms Donaldson's own 'frame of mind' when concocting the story for small children? 🤔😕
There's funny and quirky and the there is downright bizarre and completely irrational and this book sounds like it definitely falls into the latter category?! 😮

BoredZelda · 06/02/2026 16:27

ObsessiveGoogler · 06/02/2026 10:55

I used to think of it as an animated almanac of mental health issues. Macca Pacca clearly has OCD and probably anxiety and depression. Upsy Daisy and Iggle Piggle are co-dependent with Upsy Daisy displaying narcissistic traits. Iggle Piggle’s nightly lone sail is a quest for oblivion. The Pontipine children are neglected and probably suffer from attachment issues.

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The pontypines and wattangers are clearly in some kind of swinging agreement.

BoredZelda · 06/02/2026 16:25

BarnacleBeasley · 04/02/2026 16:56

Actually, re sexism in children's books, I do actually love Tabby McTat but it's one of the many books that eventually prompted my DS to wail 'Mama, are thiefs ALWAYS boys?

The Snail and the Whale has convinced him that all sharks have 'hideous, toothy grins' and he found it very confusing recently when reading a shark fact book from the library to see pictures of sharks with no grins. 'But where are their grins?' Luckily the book was called 'Everything You Know About Sharks is Wrong', and this just proved it.

TBF, statistically yes.

SchnizelVonKrumm · 06/02/2026 14:01

Gobacktotheworld2 · 05/02/2026 23:33

What about "A Squash and a Squeeze"? Disturbing hoarding situation unfolding with the batshit old woman. The old man is clearly abetting.

I love the old man's shifty facial expression on the page where she says "thank you old man for the work you have done" Grin

ObsessiveGoogler · 06/02/2026 10:55

Miaminmoo · 05/02/2026 23:55

Although my kids are older now so I am unaware of this book- I used to let them watch ‘In The Night Garden’ that quite frankly presented as if it had been written by someone who was doing a lot of mind-altering substances.

I used to think of it as an animated almanac of mental health issues. Macca Pacca clearly has OCD and probably anxiety and depression. Upsy Daisy and Iggle Piggle are co-dependent with Upsy Daisy displaying narcissistic traits. Iggle Piggle’s nightly lone sail is a quest for oblivion. The Pontipine children are neglected and probably suffer from attachment issues.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 06/02/2026 10:26

user794 · 05/02/2026 21:32

Monkey Puzzle. Butterfly spends the whole time selflessly helping the little monkey and only gets a load of wailing and screaming "you got it wrong" in return. Doesn't even get a thanks in the end.

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I think it is quite an accurate portrayal of dealing with a toddler, though. Monkey mum was probably just trying to have 5 minutes to herself.

billandtedsexcellentadventure · 06/02/2026 09:10

Oooh new gruffalo book with granny gruffalo is out later this year!!

BarnacleBeasley · 06/02/2026 09:00

I wasn't that impressed with Mole's Spectacles, but DP (who really needs her glasses) tells me it's a totally accurate representation of the bewilderment and confusion you feel when lose them and can't really see and everything is a blur.

I think the most bonkers is Toddle Waddle. Mother takes her toddler out for a stroll with a duck, but ends up stranded at the end of a pier with a load of randomers as night falls.

Jack80 · 06/02/2026 07:22

She does write mad books when you look at them in depth.