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to absolutely hate the how people are speaking English!

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exse24Londoner · 03/02/2026 16:35

I really hate how we have "suddenly" starting gifting presents rather than giving them as we did only a couple of years ago. Vacations - when did we start having vacations instead of holidays?????? The other day I saw an advert for pants - turned out to be trousers. Apparently when I speak to someone it is now liaising & if I call or text, I am reaching out..... the other day someone was talking about the front end, or as I prefer to call it - the beginning!!🙄

Dont get me wrong, I love the evolution of language & that generations make it their own but this isn't that this is not teenagers or cultures developing own language its...... weird management/pop psychology speak

is it just me??

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Rayburn · 04/02/2026 16:49

JoannaTheYodelingCowgirl · 04/02/2026 13:16

My DD10 has a slight american accent from bloody youtube and loves to use american words. She insists on saying chips not crisps, perFUME instead of perfume, going to the bathroom instead of the toilet.

Drives me up the bloody wall!

Tell her she’s nothin’ but a yeller coyote!

Gmary22 · 04/02/2026 16:36

Ugh what annoys me most if the sating t's as d'd for exmaple, "wadder" in stead of water and "pardy" instea dof party. I think social media has excellerated the americanisation of english over here. Another that I find annoying is young mums are now "mama" instead od "mummy" 😖. And dont get me started on the peigeon fake jamaian accent that now domimates london and Surrey.

Goldenbear · 04/02/2026 16:32

Sidge · 04/02/2026 16:24

Yes, birth control as in contraception. I’m quite old and have been doing this job donkeys years, so know it’s a recent thing to be asked for birth control by young women (and with that I mean teens and early to mid twenties) as opposed to “I want to go on the pill” or “I’d like to talk about contraception” or “I want something to stop me getting pregnant” which is what I’ve been hearing for the last 25 years…

Even my own daughter does it, and when I asked her why she said that’s what all the TikTokers refer to it as.

Yes, I agree, I grew up in London and it was "on the pill".

Biggles27 · 04/02/2026 16:32

Mom it’s MUM, cell phone - it’s a mobile! Vacation - no it’s a holiday. Pants no trousers, pants are your underwear. Zucchini no it’s a courgette. Eggplant - ugh, it’s an aubergine

but the one that is currently winding me up is Mom!!!!

Sidge · 04/02/2026 16:24

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 04/02/2026 14:49

Do you mean birth control as in contraception? That was the term used back in the 1980s. I definitely heard of birth control before I ever heard the phrase contraception. How old are you ?

Yes, birth control as in contraception. I’m quite old and have been doing this job donkeys years, so know it’s a recent thing to be asked for birth control by young women (and with that I mean teens and early to mid twenties) as opposed to “I want to go on the pill” or “I’d like to talk about contraception” or “I want something to stop me getting pregnant” which is what I’ve been hearing for the last 25 years…

Even my own daughter does it, and when I asked her why she said that’s what all the TikTokers refer to it as.

RitaIncognita · 04/02/2026 16:01

At least we Americans don't say "I was sat" or "I am stood" and their ilk. This usage seems to be ubiquitous now in British English.

Goldenbear · 04/02/2026 15:43

user5678934 · 04/02/2026 14:36

How odd.

I'd much prefer my teens (and I) had friends who used Americanisms than ones who would - with the encouragement of their parents, I think? - make fun of them and do impressions behind their backs.

Not odd at all as it is a trendy affectation and sounds a bit ridiculous in the accents my DC and their friends have. Equally, the joke is between themselves, it's funny because they aren't American. If they were American it would obviously not be funny. Believe or not we aren't all comfortable with becoming the 51st state!

RitaIncognita · 04/02/2026 15:36

Aphroditesangel · 03/02/2026 18:40

Homicide is an unlawful death. It covers manslaughter and murder and is used legally in the Uk

In the US, "homicide" generally means killing of someone by another person. Homicide does not equate with murder; in fact, depending on legal definitions that vary by state, there are lawful (often referred to as "justifiable") homicides, such as a killing in self-defense.

RitaIncognita · 04/02/2026 15:26

Badsox · 03/02/2026 18:21

"Can I get..." when ordering food or drink is my pet hate.

Surely it should be "Please can I have....."

You don't understand the full meaning of the word "get." There is nothing wrong with "can I get" unless you want to quibble with the can/may distinction, which will probably be gone in a few years anyway. Get means "come to have or hold (something); receive."It does not have some sort of built in reflexive. To ask someone "can I get" can mean "can I receive".

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 04/02/2026 14:49

Sidge · 03/02/2026 20:19

I’ve been getting young women asking me for “birth control”.

Definitely an Americanism. It’s a new phenomenon and I can only assume it’s come via TikTok.

I don’t mind some Americanisms creeping into the English language, but I do take issue with pretentious flexing of it. “I sourced my new lamp in a quaint town in Cornwall” - oh fuck offffff, you found it in a shop whilst you were on holiday.

Do you mean birth control as in contraception? That was the term used back in the 1980s. I definitely heard of birth control before I ever heard the phrase contraception. How old are you ?

HRTQueen · 04/02/2026 14:41

I just hope we do not take on Legos 😧as regular use here

Gifted is annoying and the worse is pop being over used. Pop of colour, pop over blouse can't think of any others but that is enough to keep my blood boiling

user5678934 · 04/02/2026 14:36

Goldenbear · 03/02/2026 17:26

If my DC used Americanisms I would correct them as we are not American. They are older teens now and none of their friends use Americanisms, in fact it is something that would joke about and do an impression of.

How odd.

I'd much prefer my teens (and I) had friends who used Americanisms than ones who would - with the encouragement of their parents, I think? - make fun of them and do impressions behind their backs.

LadybirdsAreFab · 04/02/2026 14:07

The one that is annoying me currently is 'shook' as in, I was watching the news and I was shook. Someone on Traitors said shooketh, as in I was watching the news and I was shooketh.

The over use of 'National Treasure' when referring to a celebrity. Not every celebrity is a National Treasure.

And cop/s instead of police.

Our daughter is 16 and I do correct her when she uses words like trash or parking lot.

Language can lead to interesting discussions, my daughter and I have just moved to Scotland. The doctor referred us to to have our 'jags' (vaccinations) and we discussed the origins of the word. We went to the vaccination centre to have our jags.

My husband writes/edits for a living (not a journalist) and he spends so much time correcting words/sentences, sometimes he thinks it is him that is wrong as the same errors keep appearing. The company insists that English is used, not American English and they do not want slang/shortened words to appear in any written documents/website.

HopeSpringsInfernal · 04/02/2026 13:20

I hate the way the verb to take has all but vanished. It seems to have been replaced by bring, for some reason

LastnightIdreamtIwenttoManderleyagain · 04/02/2026 13:16

Has anyone mentioned ‘pacifically’ …?

JoannaTheYodelingCowgirl · 04/02/2026 13:16

My DD10 has a slight american accent from bloody youtube and loves to use american words. She insists on saying chips not crisps, perFUME instead of perfume, going to the bathroom instead of the toilet.

Drives me up the bloody wall!

luckylavender · 04/02/2026 13:14

CeciliaMars · 03/02/2026 16:38

I think if you're going to complain about incorrect English, you should proof-read your title.
Other than that, most people I know wear trousers and go on holidays.

I thought that

AgentPidge · 04/02/2026 13:12

Ugh. Someone ( British) being interviewed on R4 talking about customers being put on a 'wait list'.

Mulledjuice · 04/02/2026 13:03

JamesClyman · 03/02/2026 16:45

YANBU. There is no such word in English as "gotten". It's "got"!

Incorrect. "Gotten" is archaic. This has been done to death.

OnlyFrench · 04/02/2026 13:01

@Helen1625DD is a fashion journalist. Apparently the fashion singular is a recognised “thing”.

a red lip
a smart trouser

Fortunately she only uses it satirically when speaking.

Abitofalark · 04/02/2026 12:58

PistachioTiramisu · 03/02/2026 19:39

And what is 'fumming' instead of 'fuming'? Don't people realise it is wrong?

The equivalent of the estate agents' dinning room. And the posters online who are scrapping the barrel.

Abitofalark · 04/02/2026 12:49

NeverDropYourMooncup · 04/02/2026 10:40

The modern trend is to not be referred to using a term that now commonly denotes a person who is employed by a supermarket - unless you work for a supermarket.

Same way people aren't referred to as clerks when they work in a shop, in admin or when they are providing governance support. The use of the term clerk has changed and therefore the language used to describe people we work with has changed.

Which term do you mean in your first paragraph?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 04/02/2026 11:29

Hollyhobbi · 04/02/2026 10:54

Didn’t know that about Australia. Interesting.

Irish nuns and priests teaching over there.

Haitch is probably older than aitch. The h was dropped due to the French influence on British English.

Hollyhobbi · 04/02/2026 10:54

OchonAgusOchonOh · 04/02/2026 10:47

And Australia.

Didn’t know that about Australia. Interesting.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 04/02/2026 10:47

Hollyhobbi · 04/02/2026 06:21

But it’s haitch in Ireland?

And Australia.

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