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to absolutely hate the how people are speaking English!

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exse24Londoner · 03/02/2026 16:35

I really hate how we have "suddenly" starting gifting presents rather than giving them as we did only a couple of years ago. Vacations - when did we start having vacations instead of holidays?????? The other day I saw an advert for pants - turned out to be trousers. Apparently when I speak to someone it is now liaising & if I call or text, I am reaching out..... the other day someone was talking about the front end, or as I prefer to call it - the beginning!!🙄

Dont get me wrong, I love the evolution of language & that generations make it their own but this isn't that this is not teenagers or cultures developing own language its...... weird management/pop psychology speak

is it just me??

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RedToothBrush · 03/02/2026 17:22

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 03/02/2026 17:18

You do understand its entirely legal to shoot people who do this? Little known but accurate fact.

I entirely agree with this sentiment though not the actual violence bit as we don't live in America and that shooting stuff is too American for me.

I'll stick to inaudible shouts of wanker inside my head instead. Much more civilised.

BatsInHibernation · 03/02/2026 17:21

IT IS just the evolution of language though. You say it's not, but it really is. American culture affecting our language in the way Western culture has affected the language and behaviours of a great many countries. You will notice it is largely younger people adopting this language so it IS evolution and it is annoying because it makes you (us) feel left behind. It's ok that you find it annoying but YABU.

Crumblesandcustard · 03/02/2026 17:20

I'm from Cumbria and would always say pants to mean trousers, although my teenagers laugh at me! Your underpants are kecks or grundies!

25mini7 · 03/02/2026 17:20

Local gym now has a "Run Club" its a bloody Running club

TheBogPeople · 03/02/2026 17:20

Its not just you. The one that’s boiling my piss at the moment is ‘reset’ for good old fashioned tidying up.

anniegun · 03/02/2026 17:19

Language evolves , I am sure your Victorian grandparents would recoil at some of your use of language. Sometimes it is not a new thing. Gift as a verb has been around about 400 years and has been consistently used in legal documents. It has got more popular since the 1990s

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 03/02/2026 17:18

Toddlerteaplease · 03/02/2026 16:48

One of my colleagues says ‘elevator’ and ‘vit-a-mins, she also pronounces the letter Z as Zee. It makes my teeth itch.

You do understand its entirely legal to shoot people who do this? Little known but accurate fact.

Goldenbear · 03/02/2026 17:17

Astra53 · 03/02/2026 16:47

The use of the word 'homicide' has crept in. I thought we had 'murders' in the UK!

Yes and the 'Feds'.

MousePolice · 03/02/2026 17:14

FreshInks · 03/02/2026 17:11

I’m in the Northwest of England and it’s always been pants rather than trousers, even 30 years ago when I was in school.

I only realised it was regional when I went to University. How are underpants, under pants, unless you put pants on top?

Maray1967 · 03/02/2026 17:13

Rayburn · 03/02/2026 16:48

Tell that to Shakespeare.

Yes, we need to be careful what we’re complaining about. ‘Gotten’ would have been very familiar to people in the British Isles in the 17th C.

My particular gripe is over ‘upcoming’. What happened to ‘forthcoming’?

Coffeeishot · 03/02/2026 17:12

Those are English words thougn do you mean you hate non brittish words?

LlynTegid · 03/02/2026 17:12

I am happy for language to evolve, just as long as English is not replaced by the version spoken in the United States. We are not the 51st state.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 03/02/2026 17:12

ThrowingDi · 03/02/2026 17:01

Who cares honestly?

the “rules” for language evolve over time and modern humans communicate differently. It’s hardly a surprise. There likely will be further changes as AI usage embeds. Nothing lasts forever.

I'm afraid I have to agree with this. It's literally the most common thread topic on this site , more than parking, mother-in-law or marriage gripes. Oh and kids.

Allywill · 03/02/2026 17:11

where do you stand on “get yer kecks on”? Now that the proper phrase in Lancs if you ask me.

FreshInks · 03/02/2026 17:11

I’m in the Northwest of England and it’s always been pants rather than trousers, even 30 years ago when I was in school.

WonderingWanda · 03/02/2026 17:11

I totally knoe what you mean. My teen dd has watched a fair bit of American tv follows a load of annoying YouTubers and she says things like candy, elevator interchangeably with sweets or lift.

I've noticed certain words creeping into British made TV, I suppose because lots of shows are made for both the UK and the US market now. I can't think of a specific example but do recall something the other week which annoyed me.

I mean I understand what is meant so it's not a big deal but I find it slightly unsettling, in the same way that I disliked the colour of the butter, eggs and use of creamer instead of milk when I went to America.

Cosyblankets · 03/02/2026 17:09

BerryTwister · 03/02/2026 16:53

I agree OP.
I understand that language evolves, and of course the words my Gran used would make no sense today eg "gay" meaning happy rather than homosexual.

But it's the sudden and rapid influx of Americanisms that irritate me. It doesn't feel like gradual and natural evolution. It seems that adults who've said "pissed off", "got" and "holiday" all their lives, are suddenly saying "pissed", "gotten" and "vacation".

There's always been a perception that America is "cool", so I assume people think they sound cooler and better if they use American words.

If we have to change our language, can't we make our own changes, rather than trying to talk like Americans?

Hate the expression pissed!
I assume someone is drunk

GaelsBlue · 03/02/2026 17:08

I read the other day that Netflix had dropped a new season of something I was looking forward to watching so I was really disappointed - until it dawned on me this is a new way of saying they're now showing it. How odd! I understand language evolving, but to mean the complete opposite? No thanks.

Rainbowdottie · 03/02/2026 17:06

I’ve always enjoyed regional accents and phrases. I’ve always been fascinated how words are used all round the country and love the history of words.

I must admit I tire of The American phrases. No I don’t hate Americans , I just hate the conversational way that children these days refer so easily to “trash” or “candy”, as an example .In my experience in schools, it’s very common. But that’s just TV and influence for you, no one thing or person really at fault. Where I’ve worked “reaching out “ and “feeding back “ are totally the buzz words and I guess it’s just a filtered down influence again.

oscilla · 03/02/2026 17:05

American is taking over. I associate it with Trump.

ZemblanityZen · 03/02/2026 17:03

'Invite' as a noun 😒

RedToothBrush · 03/02/2026 17:02

BerryTwister · 03/02/2026 16:53

I agree OP.
I understand that language evolves, and of course the words my Gran used would make no sense today eg "gay" meaning happy rather than homosexual.

But it's the sudden and rapid influx of Americanisms that irritate me. It doesn't feel like gradual and natural evolution. It seems that adults who've said "pissed off", "got" and "holiday" all their lives, are suddenly saying "pissed", "gotten" and "vacation".

There's always been a perception that America is "cool", so I assume people think they sound cooler and better if they use American words.

If we have to change our language, can't we make our own changes, rather than trying to talk like Americans?

Secretly in our heads there are so many of us still thinking
WANKER
Whenever anyone British does this.

So they can be 'evolving language' if they want but the price of doing so is knowing you don't know which one of us is looking at you with a nice smile going 'wanker' inside our heads.

If you do it, you now will look around and wonder which one of us is inwardly calling you a wanker.

Screamingabdabz · 03/02/2026 17:01

’Life hack’ - that does hack me off.

In a separate note, I wish people criticising the obvious typo would piss off and save it for the your-instead-of-you’re people. 🙄

ThrowingDi · 03/02/2026 17:01

Who cares honestly?

the “rules” for language evolve over time and modern humans communicate differently. It’s hardly a surprise. There likely will be further changes as AI usage embeds. Nothing lasts forever.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 03/02/2026 17:00

Some of us are so chronically online that we can't actually remember if it's airplane or aeroplane or pajamas or pyjamas , so you definitely have a point.

My incredibly British friend who has never left the country used the word poop the other week and I questioned our 50 year friendship. She says she actually prefers it to poo 😖.

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