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How to pass a driving test without lessons

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Bilster · 03/02/2026 14:27

My daughter is keen to pass her driving test. Her dad lives a 8 miles away, can’t drive for medical reasons and the bus there takes ages, so I drop her off and pick her up with her doing the driving and me sitting next to her. We’ve been doing this for a while and she’s a natural. She’s driving perfectly now.

She’s booked a test for 2 months time amd ever since she booked it I have been trying to get her driving lessons. There are just no instructors near us with any availability. I’ve been trying for a few months with no luck. What would it take for her to pass her test with no lessons? What is she likely to fail on? Any tips very welcome cause I’m feeling desperate and don’t want to have to ask her to put the test back.

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Teenmumgoingcrazy · 04/02/2026 20:39

Bilster · 03/02/2026 14:27

My daughter is keen to pass her driving test. Her dad lives a 8 miles away, can’t drive for medical reasons and the bus there takes ages, so I drop her off and pick her up with her doing the driving and me sitting next to her. We’ve been doing this for a while and she’s a natural. She’s driving perfectly now.

She’s booked a test for 2 months time amd ever since she booked it I have been trying to get her driving lessons. There are just no instructors near us with any availability. I’ve been trying for a few months with no luck. What would it take for her to pass her test with no lessons? What is she likely to fail on? Any tips very welcome cause I’m feeling desperate and don’t want to have to ask her to put the test back.

My son passed his practical test today with 1 minor, he is a natural but this was his 4th test!

MorningActivity · 04/02/2026 17:38

I wouldn’t call that luck.

And yes knowing the roads the test is on help with stress/not being flustered. It doesn’t mean you can’t do it you haven’t been on those roads before.
The OP dd has been driving in many places, many she didn’t know before. I’m not sure thats going to be her biggest problem.

2026namechange · 04/02/2026 17:27

MorningActivity · 04/02/2026 17:25

I disagree,
dc1 had a crap instructor who didn’t take him on those routes. He still passed the test.
And yes it meant he did a ‘mistake’ on a roundabout - didn’t know he was supposed to go in that inside lane to get where he wanted. He ended up having to take the previous exit. It was FINE. Stressful for him but fine. Not even a minor.

That’s great - sounds as though your DS was lucky. Many people fail not because they are incompetent drivers but because they are nervous and flustered by strange road layouts in unfamiliar places. Why would you not practice those?

MorningActivity · 04/02/2026 17:25

2026namechange · 04/02/2026 16:51

That doesn’t matter - you need to do the routes they do on the test. Practice the confusing roundabouts, the bits where you have to be in a specific lane, the one way systems etc.

I disagree,
dc1 had a crap instructor who didn’t take him on those routes. He still passed the test.
And yes it meant he did a ‘mistake’ on a roundabout - didn’t know he was supposed to go in that inside lane to get where he wanted. He ended up having to take the previous exit. It was FINE. Stressful for him but fine. Not even a minor.

2026namechange · 04/02/2026 16:51

Hiphipholiday · 04/02/2026 15:42

Op says she’s driven to other end of country on holiday and back using only A roads and regularly driving around their city.

That doesn’t matter - you need to do the routes they do on the test. Practice the confusing roundabouts, the bits where you have to be in a specific lane, the one way systems etc.

stargirl27 · 04/02/2026 16:31

She should be fine but I'd recommend she watches some videos on YouTube too. Conquer Driving is a good channel. She should also watch videos of test routes from your centre. It would be good if she could set up a sat nav, but if this isn't possible, they will ask her to follow signs for her independent driving (such as 'follow signs to X').

Good luck to her! I'm currently learning to drive and it's such a palaver arranging everything. I totally feel your pain with instructors not even responding.

NotTonightDeidre · 04/02/2026 15:48

Just read your replies OP & noticed in one of the threads someone mentioned "show me, tell me". If you haven't already, just Google it. They're a set of questions that require you to show the examiner something (where the oil fill point is for instance) or tell them something (how you'd check your light were working for example).

There was recently a news article about a lad who taught himself to drive using YouTube & passed his test first time. It's absolutely not impossible to pass driving test without lessons.

Good luck to your daughter!!

Hiphipholiday · 04/02/2026 15:42

2026namechange · 04/02/2026 15:18

Well she’s going to need experience of driving on more than just the one route if she wants to pass her test. You need to take her out driving around the test area and practice and test routes.

Op says she’s driven to other end of country on holiday and back using only A roads and regularly driving around their city.

NotTonightDeidre · 04/02/2026 15:35

Anononony · 03/02/2026 14:36

Practice reversing into a space, around a corner and emergency stop. She needs to know the show me tell me questions too and be able to independently follow a sat nav

I would also do lots of driving around the test centre area, just to and from one place all the time won't necessarily translate the skill to busier junctions etc

Not rtft but in case noone else has mentioned, reversing around a corner isn't a thing anymore. Reverse/parallel park, reverse/forward bay parking, pull up on the right & reverse 2 car lengths are the current manoeuvres.

Biggest thing for most learners is mirrors! Plus, 4/5 point check when pulling away (3 mirrors, plus over the shoulder for blind spot, can't remember the 5th thing, but it's less important).

2026namechange · 04/02/2026 15:18

Well she’s going to need experience of driving on more than just the one route if she wants to pass her test. You need to take her out driving around the test area and practice and test routes.

MalewhoisLaffinalltheway · 04/02/2026 13:47

Congrats on getting a test for two months time! The waiting list where I live, home counties, is at least 8 months unless you want to pay about £500 to use one of those 3rd party pimps!
The Government keep saying they're going to rectify the problem, but when I looked at becoming a test examiner (I'm recently retired), there are never any vacancies.

TrustyRusty · 04/02/2026 13:32

The things that really helped my son outside of me & his Dad taking him out were the things that have changed since we took our tests. Handbrake at junctions, auto hand brake, feeding the wheel, following signs, reading sat nav - & the tips on the test routes. The instructor pointed out places where people have been caught out, missed speed limit sign etc. No reason you can’t pass without lessons though - practice driving from the test centre in all directions so that she’s familiar with the roads in the area :-)

TrustyRusty · 04/02/2026 13:31

The things that really helped my son outside of me & his Dad taking him out were the things that have changed since we took our tests. Handbrake at junctions, auto hand brake, feeding the wheel - & the tips on the test routes. The instructor pointed out places where people have been caught out, missed speed limit sign etc. No

ValidPistachio · 04/02/2026 12:29

Ohmygodmother · 04/02/2026 11:20

Hi OP, I took my test a few years ago mid-Covid (ahem four times...). A large part of the test, around 20 mins, will be spent following a route that the examiner puts into a Satnav. Around 1 in 5 tests are spent following road signs instead - two of my tests were! So, it's absolutely worth practising following a Satnav around some of the test routes, and also getting your daughter to "follow signs to X until I instruct you otherwise". I think in my tests the Satnav/road sign navigation was the first half of the test, up to the point we did the manoeuvre, and then they directed me back to the test centre.
As someone with too much experience of driving tests, the things I slipped up on were twice driving into side roads too quickly, and once mounting the kerb trying to clear a path for a lorry!
I'd really recommend Driving School TV on YouTube, he's great at explaining manoeuvres and test technique.

The test format has changed significantly since you took yours.

Whattodo1610 · 04/02/2026 12:09

Bilster · 04/02/2026 08:55

Well obviously reversing, parallel parking, reversing into supermarket car parks is all part of the day to day driving we’ve been doing.

Oh clearly yes, sorry I didn’t have the super power to read you mind. So you’ve also practiced all other manoeuvres, all sat nav procedures (well we know you’ve not done that), you know about pulling up on the opposite side of the road, reversing 2 car lengths, show me tell me, and the other long list? ….

Queenofthestonage · 04/02/2026 11:51

You need to make sure the car she will be using meets the standards too
www.gov.uk/driving-test/using-your-own-car

Ohmygodmother · 04/02/2026 11:20

Bilster · 03/02/2026 18:40

Why? Is this part of the driving test? We’ve never used sat nav. Might have to learn

Hi OP, I took my test a few years ago mid-Covid (ahem four times...). A large part of the test, around 20 mins, will be spent following a route that the examiner puts into a Satnav. Around 1 in 5 tests are spent following road signs instead - two of my tests were! So, it's absolutely worth practising following a Satnav around some of the test routes, and also getting your daughter to "follow signs to X until I instruct you otherwise". I think in my tests the Satnav/road sign navigation was the first half of the test, up to the point we did the manoeuvre, and then they directed me back to the test centre.
As someone with too much experience of driving tests, the things I slipped up on were twice driving into side roads too quickly, and once mounting the kerb trying to clear a path for a lorry!
I'd really recommend Driving School TV on YouTube, he's great at explaining manoeuvres and test technique.

Hiphipholiday · 04/02/2026 10:01

ShawnaMacallister · 04/02/2026 08:53

You can't go on a motorway at all as a learner

You can with a qualified driving instructor. Not sure when it changed. My dd went on motorway each week with her instructor as it was quickest way to test route. Obviously when out with me she didn’t.

Bilster · 04/02/2026 08:55

Whattodo1610 · 04/02/2026 00:03

OP’s words We’ve never used sat nav. Might have to learn. So they’ve never used one but it part of the test. I wonder if they’ve pulled up on the opposite side of the road? Reversed 2 car lengths? Parallel park? All the other things on the list? It’s easy enough to drive on roads .. not so easy to do everything to pass a test.

Well obviously reversing, parallel parking, reversing into supermarket car parks is all part of the day to day driving we’ve been doing.

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ShawnaMacallister · 04/02/2026 08:53

Reallyneedsaholiday · 04/02/2026 08:51

You can’t take your daughter on a motorway, she needs an instructor to do that, so make sure she knows all the signs and practises on dual carriageways. Apart from that, everything that everyone else says. Make sure she drives multiple routes, on every type of road. Manouveres. Reverse parks. Parallel parks. Three point turns. Reverses around corners. Mirror checking. Rush hour traffic. School pick up times. Road works. Country lanes. Roundabouts. Etc etc

You can't go on a motorway at all as a learner

Reallyneedsaholiday · 04/02/2026 08:51

You can’t take your daughter on a motorway, she needs an instructor to do that, so make sure she knows all the signs and practises on dual carriageways. Apart from that, everything that everyone else says. Make sure she drives multiple routes, on every type of road. Manouveres. Reverse parks. Parallel parks. Three point turns. Reverses around corners. Mirror checking. Rush hour traffic. School pick up times. Road works. Country lanes. Roundabouts. Etc etc

springawakeningss · 04/02/2026 08:29

I'm learning at the minute, they don't teach 3 point turns or reverse around a corner anymore. She will need to park in a bay, reverse park in a bay, reverse parallel park, definitely observations need to be really obvious, 6 point check before moving off ect, mirror signal manoeuvre, follow a satnav and confidently drive at speed. It would be best to get a couple of lessons of you can to learn what the examiner will be looking for.

Namechangetry · 04/02/2026 07:58

lightbulbandshade · 04/02/2026 07:43

There is an app you can download, it’s about £16 and that gives all the cancellations so you can check early each morning

And if you have it, the driving test website decides you're a bot and blocks you:

Dear customer.Thank you for your email. If you have Testi installed on any device in your household you will be blocked with the error 15 message.
This is because your IP address will know that a device in your household has testi installed, meaning no matter what browser or device you use you will be blocked.
Delete the testi app and clear all search history, cache and cookies off your devices and the error 15 message should be fixed.

Doesn't manage to block the actual bots though Angry

Runnersandtoms · 04/02/2026 07:55

Bilster · 03/02/2026 18:33

Thanks for all of the comments. We just CANNOT get anyone. No one even emails back. It’s infuriating. She does do loads of driving. Went on holiday to the other end of the country and she drove there and back, regularly drives through our nearest city. She is extremely cool, calm and competent.

Online there’s lots said about being used to sat nav. What’s that all about?

They can be required to follow sat nav instructions in their test. So instead of the examiner saying 'Turn left' it would be following a series of instructions on the sat nav. I'd agree with others that unless you have experience of teaching you are very likely not teaching her everything she needs to know to pass. I would be researching a lot exactly what is required. As others have said, there's stuff like, 'show me how you'd check the oil' 'show me how you open the petrol cap' etc. And a hell of a lot more observations than any regular driver does (constantly and obviously checking mirrors and blind spot). I'm sure it's possible without lessons but only if you teach to the test not just rely on, 'she's a good driver'. I've been driving 30 years and pretty sure I wouldn't pass a driving test lol.

lightbulbandshade · 04/02/2026 07:43

Bilster · 03/02/2026 18:38

Apparently the issue is people can’t get tests so learners don’t move on from
their instructor.

There is an app you can download, it’s about £16 and that gives all the cancellations so you can check early each morning

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