Is this benefitting her or women in general? I’m really unimpressed

You claim you have been abused on this thread.

So you need to remove yourself from this thread.
Actually best if you remove yourself from MN.
Maybe get rid of your internet access.

Because the rationale is that to return to the thread having being abused is to invite more abuse - which would then be your fault.

Am I doing it right?

Or is a better response that the responsibility for abuse lies with those dishing it out, not those on the receiving end?

There is this weird sense of superiority and pride amongst some Mumsnetters about the fact that they are far too busy, important and intellectual to have any idea about modern popular culture. It’s so weird because they obviously can read and have access to the internet (by virtue of them posting on MN), many have children who are interested in popular culture, and generally being totally ignorant about what’s going on around you isn’t really something to shout about.

Please show me where I have abused people on this thread? All I have done is called out misogyny, victim blaming and slut shaming.

Disagreeing with you isn’t abuse. On the other hand, Starting a thread about a named (and pictured) individual with the sole purpose of creating a pile on about her choices and blame her for any sexual abuse she receives most definitely is.

I did see the irony in that myself! I am also astounded by the number of pposters on this thread, who obviously have internet access and therefore are presumably not living in a cave somewhere, who claim to have never heard of one of the biggest pop stars in the world. They are definitely missing out on something special though as she is brilliant!
However, as a previous poster pointed out, nobody over the age of thirty cares about new pop music, so I guess I am the deviant for still listening to contemporary chart music despite being a withered old crone in my late thirties!

I can't see poster abusing anyone, she just disagree with your victim shaming

@HighLadyofTheNightCourt you are talking about why is it acceptable to abuse a woman online for making different choices to you...yet you have consistently abused others on this thread for having a different opinion from yourself. Think on .

Over 90% of women have been sexually harassed by men. Myself included- multiple times.

I don’t blame women for that harassment. Why do you? Why do you think it’s acceptable to abuse a woman online for making different choices to you? And also use the sexual harassment she experienced against her?

What you have shared is a marketing campaign for a lingerie brand. A brand that a chosen to use a particular actor and lean into the theme of her most recent TV show. You only know about this campaign because a tabloid newspaper has chosen to share it. You think that gives you the right to instigate a personal attack on this woman using her previous sexual harassment incidents as a stick to beat her with. It’s disgusting and you should be embarrassed.

I’ve had at least two emails today from lingerie companies featuring models posing in a similar way to EA. Those pictures also feature on the company social media. Are you going to launch a personal attack on those models too? Or is it only people you clearly dislike who deserve that?

Aside the from weird idea that men cant stop themselves from sending a woman wanking videos if provoked by the sight of her in underwear 🤮 I really dont think Emily Atack or any woman carries the responsibility of 'benefitting women in general'. Who made Emily the woman ambassador???

OK, so I’ve DM’ed you.

She disliked men sending videos of themselves wanking to her, and being sent sexually abusive messages. Do you think that posing in underwear gives people the right to do those things?

😂 Careful, they will be offering you a job!

I don’t know, you don’t have to 🤷🏻‍♀️, I’m just genuinely interested in your answer and you’re unwilling to give it on the thread so I thought it might be a way around that!

Why would I want to do that?

You could always DM me and tell me why it’s strange?

Oh, I do. I'm not surprised you won't voice the opinion.

Why? It’s a discussion forum and we’re having a discussion. What would be an appropriate place?

Are you the OP? No? Then it wasn't aimed at you.

And why are you saying "once again im adding things"? That was my first and only post on here until now. Sounds like you are very confused all round...

I used to model in FMH wearing underwear

I have a PhD and a successful, professional career

I was repeatedly raped by an ex partner

None of these things have any bearing on any of the other. The comments on this thread are utterly shameful

Unfortunately not.
It’s a thread full of misogyny and judgemental attitudes towards women.

I don’t really think so.

Could you hoik your judgy pants up any higher?

Er , well, this is not exactly a thread of respectful and rational debate, is it?