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How can I make a comfortable income from home

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Sweetly1 · 02/02/2026 13:28

Hi Ladies I want to find out what ladies are doing to make a comfortable income around their primary school children and still have time for family? Kindly advise?

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Lauralou19 · 02/02/2026 22:07

I cant read all the posts but if you’re not looking to make a fortune, i’d stick with admin around school hours for the Primary years. Having a brilliant boss who tells me to go home if I stay a couple of minutes over my finish time, being able to trade days with colleagues (for the xmas play etc), good holidays (I can have 6 weeks off in the year which is better than alot of jobs), good pension and pretty much a guaranteed job.

Im planning to up my hours in a few years when I don’t need to be home after the school run (flexibility was the most important thing over finances when I took the job and realise that is a lucky position). We’ll have uni to fund in a few years so that will tie in with upping my hours! Both me and DH can’t work from home but I consider that a good thing as when we walk out our workplaces, there’s no expectation to read an email till we’re back in (DH in an industry that’s well paid but nothing can be done from home), nothing related to work in the house and home is about our family life.

If school hours are the priority, choose something you can easily walk away from before the school run.

bryceQ · 02/02/2026 21:07

I work from home around my disabled child. Its really hard. I do marketing freelance but this is absolutely not easy money. I earn £2000-4000 a month. You could do VA route but getting clients can be a challenge.

maxandru · 02/02/2026 20:59

TillyTrifle · 02/02/2026 14:19

Sorry but you sound wildly unrealistic and somewhat entitled. Who on earth do you imagine is going to pay you £50k for working flexibly around your children, from home, when you haven’t worked in years and have some basic admin qualifications. I don’t mean to be unkind but it sounds like you’re living in cloud cuckoo land.

You quite often see these posts from women who have decided the time is right to step back into paid work after a long time out but clearly aren’t willing to sacrifice any time with their kids or not be able to keep up with the housework so the idea of commuting to a workplace or using childcare is absurd. And of course it needs to make a massive difference to the family finances so needs to be at least triple NMW 🙄 I want to be supportive of people trying to get back into the workplace but honestly, it’s like they’ve been on another planet. The world doesn’t owe you a massively paid, flexible and convenient career which doesn’t have any impact on your family life and the people that have those unicorn jobs have usually obtained them by staying in the workplace and working their arses off while juggling nursery bills etc. If people could take years out and the just sashay back into a decently paid and flexible job that could
play second fiddle to their kids, then everyone bloody would!

Honestly, the entitlement is next level.

Phenomenal response; love it!

AliceRose1971 · 02/02/2026 20:56

TillyTrifle · 02/02/2026 14:19

Sorry but you sound wildly unrealistic and somewhat entitled. Who on earth do you imagine is going to pay you £50k for working flexibly around your children, from home, when you haven’t worked in years and have some basic admin qualifications. I don’t mean to be unkind but it sounds like you’re living in cloud cuckoo land.

You quite often see these posts from women who have decided the time is right to step back into paid work after a long time out but clearly aren’t willing to sacrifice any time with their kids or not be able to keep up with the housework so the idea of commuting to a workplace or using childcare is absurd. And of course it needs to make a massive difference to the family finances so needs to be at least triple NMW 🙄 I want to be supportive of people trying to get back into the workplace but honestly, it’s like they’ve been on another planet. The world doesn’t owe you a massively paid, flexible and convenient career which doesn’t have any impact on your family life and the people that have those unicorn jobs have usually obtained them by staying in the workplace and working their arses off while juggling nursery bills etc. If people could take years out and the just sashay back into a decently paid and flexible job that could
play second fiddle to their kids, then everyone bloody would!

Honestly, the entitlement is next level.

Friend to women and mothers you are! She’s probably been raising her own children not sitting on her arse as you suggest. No wonder women aren’t having so many children these days. Society f’ing hates mothers! Yes she might have to lower her initial salary expectations but she’s asking for help not to be smashed down by you.

Loloblue · 02/02/2026 20:06

Delulu!

ThatCyanCat · 02/02/2026 20:05

stclementine · 02/02/2026 19:49

Oh god don’t try and make a CV out of so called SAHM skills. Not only is it really cringey, but none of it has any applicability in a proper grown up workplace. No dealing with toddler tantrums is not conflict resolution Ffs. Those applications go straight into the bin after the recruiters have had a good laugh.

ive been involved in recruiting lots of staff in the NHS and as we get hundreds of applications for each role we can afford to ditch any applications from people who have been out of the workplace for more than a few months.

Oh God no.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3008481-AIBU-to-think-SAHMs-shouldnt-put-this-nonsense-on-a-CV-job-application

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Zov · 02/02/2026 20:04

Xmasxrackers · 02/02/2026 18:24

OP keep an eye out for school admin/reception roles. Obviously wouldn’t be wfh but you’d have the right hours. Either that or start your own business. I’m in the same situation and I have just started a home help business x

School admin roles?

That's not gonna pay £50K a year. Most of the teachers don't earn that. Not even close.

I know some people who work in a school - in admin/clerk roles, and reception etc. Most are part time (20 to 25 hours a week and work 40-42 weeks of the year maximum,) and they are on £14K to £16K a year. And these are people with some years of work experience, training, and qualifications.

Even some Admin Officers and Secretaries (a higher pay grade, and also experienced and educated,) are only on £22K to £25K, because they are also paid for around 40-42 weeks of the year. So whilst they do work a few more hours (like 8.30am to 5pm,) they are not in for over a fifth of the year,

The OP is utterly deluded.

stclementine · 02/02/2026 19:49

CapriceDeDieux · 02/02/2026 14:52

I think 15 years out of the workplace is only one way to couch it - there was a great post yesterday where someone rewrote her SAHM role as a job and skills and it was really very good.

I too think 50k is going to be a lot though unless you have a serious specialisation. I did think of remote concierge jobs though - combination of admin and organisation, but again with a bit of a specialism you might struggle.

Oh god don’t try and make a CV out of so called SAHM skills. Not only is it really cringey, but none of it has any applicability in a proper grown up workplace. No dealing with toddler tantrums is not conflict resolution Ffs. Those applications go straight into the bin after the recruiters have had a good laugh.

ive been involved in recruiting lots of staff in the NHS and as we get hundreds of applications for each role we can afford to ditch any applications from people who have been out of the workplace for more than a few months.

100Bees · 02/02/2026 19:43

I earn about 50k working from home for the equivalent of 3 days a week (I fit it around the school run over 4 to 5 days in practice). I'm an in house lawyer with nearly 20 years' experience.

I echo others that it's slightly delusional to expect 50k with your limited qualifications and experience, but good luck.

Alltheyellowbirds · 02/02/2026 19:42

ThedaBara · 02/02/2026 19:42

It sounds like OP is maybe going through a divorce and has turned around after 15 years of being a SAHM and realised that her lifestyle is quite expensive. Assuming this is real.

We might know more if she’d returned to the thread.

ThedaBara · 02/02/2026 19:42

It sounds like OP is maybe going through a divorce and has turned around after 15 years of being a SAHM and realised that her lifestyle is quite expensive. Assuming this is real.

ThatCyanCat · 02/02/2026 19:40

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 02/02/2026 19:14

Very unrealistic.

Perhaps the oldest profession in the world might achieve that level for part-time work.

Midwifery doesn't pay that well.

daisychain01 · 02/02/2026 19:34

Sweetly1 · 02/02/2026 13:28

Hi Ladies I want to find out what ladies are doing to make a comfortable income around their primary school children and still have time for family? Kindly advise?

Business administration is a worthwhile career to get into, if it includes project management, budget control, quality control, not the mundane tasks that will be run through AI.

unfortunately if your goal is a comfortable job wfh, you'll be overtaken by the bright young grads and apprentices who will be front and centre in the office, getting in front of the big bosses and making a name for themselves .

the only way to fix this is to change your attitude to your career. You either pursue the route you're current studying towards or you will have to sacrifice the big money £50k and go for a call centre role which may be shifts and sometimes offered as a hybrid role. You'll have to make that choice. No way will hard stretched businesses in 2026 pay £50k for someone who disappears after their induction and is only seen on MS Teams.

Janblues28 · 02/02/2026 19:34

I have my own consultancy business - earn between 100 and 120k work full time and from home with occasional travel. DS is in after school care until 4.15pm 2 days per week, otherwise it's 3pm pick up. DH also wfh so we juggle. I do an 8 hour day but often either get up at 5am to get my 8hrs in or do a couple in the evening. Not ideal but I love my work and I love that I can do every drop off and pick up.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 02/02/2026 19:30

Sweetly1 · 02/02/2026 13:43

50k per year

Never going to happen. You’ve not worked in 15 years. I have fully qualified accountants with years of experience fighting for full time remote jobs at 60-70k.
The banks are great for remote working, but you’d be lucky to get a job on 25k with your lack of experience.

user1473878824 · 02/02/2026 19:29

TheGoddessAthena · 02/02/2026 13:32

These sorts of threads are like a klaxon going off to the MLM huns.

But mama, she’s not asking for boss babes she’s asking for ladies and what ladies do from their lady home kindly. Maybe you need some essential oils?

auserna · 02/02/2026 19:26

Sweetly1 · 02/02/2026 13:40

My experience is working in administration my last job was working as a Business administrator for social services 15 years ago. I recently did a teaching assistant level 2 course and I'm currently doing a intensive Business Administration course

You're not going to earn £50K working part time if you haven't worked for 15 years. You're definitely not going to earn £50K as a teaching assistant even full time.

If you want to work in business administration you should probably brush up on your grammar/proofreading.

LadyBrendaLast · 02/02/2026 19:23

NeverSeenThatColourBlue · 02/02/2026 19:14

Yep, I've made some bad decisions in my life but trekking into and out of London during the toddler years, bringing home basically nothing once childcare and travel were paid, was not one of them and I'm so glad I did it now!

At the time I felt I was doing everything badly, juggling children, work and study and couldn't see an end in sight. Now I have a 50k job, fully wfh, flexible, great career prospects and lovely independent teenagers.

I know someone who took 20 years out of the work place to raise her children. She had just got back in and is unskilled at NMW.

I am so grateful I struggled through.My marriage has ended and I am the main breadwinner. I would be really stuck if I hadn't kept going. I feel much safer knowing that I have the money and professional reputation to provide for my DC and be there when they need me.

Twowhippetstwogingers · 02/02/2026 19:20

Peoplecoveredinfish · 02/02/2026 17:18

The thing that is frustrating about these threads is the way people are so vague. I know people don’t want to be identified. I know I am very out of touch (worked in health, pre kids, which is a world of its own) job adverts are the same. They give no clues as to what people actually DO, so I’ve no idea if I could do them. I run a business, so I’m not clueless. I’ve had a professional job and got two degrees, so I’m not stupid and I feel like I could aim higher than customer service. But aim for what? It feels very exclusive and I need a map and interpreter. I think that’s what people are asking.

I would honestly pay good money to have a kind of graduate recruitment thing for post kid-mums or have someone explain to me how to decode things like what phrases like “niche business administrator’ or ‘freelancer in a creative profession’ actually do. I know what the words mean, but they don’t convey any useful information to me. I don’t mean to pick on those people and I don’t want to pressure anyone to say, but it still leaves me at a complete loss - how the fuck do I find out? They’re like cryptic crossword clues. They make sense when they’re explained, but they don’t give me any tools to decipher any more of them. The whole business seems like another language. Perhaps that means I’m deeply unsuited to them, but we’ll never know if unless I find an interpreter!

I’m considering being a climbing arborist. That seems FAR easier to get to grips with from where I’m standing. And if I’ve go to start at the bottom anyway, why not? 😂

So I wrote that I’m freelance in the property industry. More detail, without being too outing, is: first degree building surveying, second degree green building. I advise people on altering and adapting their buildings.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 02/02/2026 19:14

Very unrealistic.

Perhaps the oldest profession in the world might achieve that level for part-time work.

NeverSeenThatColourBlue · 02/02/2026 19:14

Peridoteage · 02/02/2026 15:43

  • the people that have those unicorn jobs have usually obtained them by staying in the workplace and working their arses off while juggling nursery bills etc. If people could take years out and the just sashay back into a decently paid and flexible job that could play second fiddle to their kids, then everyone bloody would!*

This 😂 high five to all the working mums on here who pretty much paid to work when the kids were tiny and the nursery bill + train fare came to more than the wage. Its hard and you get NO rest but you come out a few years down the line in the plum senior job with flexibility and good pay and its SO worth it.

Yep, I've made some bad decisions in my life but trekking into and out of London during the toddler years, bringing home basically nothing once childcare and travel were paid, was not one of them and I'm so glad I did it now!

NeverSeenThatColourBlue · 02/02/2026 19:08

PropertyD · 02/02/2026 18:43

Where does anyone who hasn’t worked for 15 years get these ridiculous salary expectations from? Sadly I think it’s because they haven’t worked that they have these daft ideas and sense of entitlement as to what they are worth.

It is surprisingly easy to lose touch with reality when you've been out of work with a while. Years ago, DH was struggling with his MH, quit his job and decided he needed a career change. His sister, who hasn't worked in years attempted to be helpful by sending him job adverts for things like a marketing consultant or qualified accountant for £90k+. He explained to her more than once that these types of jobs require years of experience and high level qualifications but she was adamant that because he has a degree and a high IQ he should just be able to waltz into any job he wanted.

Tarkadaaaahling · 02/02/2026 19:08

Peridoteage · 02/02/2026 15:43

  • the people that have those unicorn jobs have usually obtained them by staying in the workplace and working their arses off while juggling nursery bills etc. If people could take years out and the just sashay back into a decently paid and flexible job that could play second fiddle to their kids, then everyone bloody would!*

This 😂 high five to all the working mums on here who pretty much paid to work when the kids were tiny and the nursery bill + train fare came to more than the wage. Its hard and you get NO rest but you come out a few years down the line in the plum senior job with flexibility and good pay and its SO worth it.

Completely agree with this. I spent about 5-6 years earning very little after nursery fees and transport were paid, but it was all about keeping my foot in the door in the workplace, keeping myself current, positioning myself treading water so that I was ready to kick start my career once the kids were school age.

And the result of this? A 50k, very flexible job, 60% of the time spent wfh.

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 02/02/2026 19:04

Sweetly1 · 02/02/2026 13:43

50k per year

😂😂😂😂

OnlyFans is probably your best bet. You’d need to do some pretty weird stuff to make that sort of money though.

ThatCyanCat · 02/02/2026 19:03

Sell Younique makeup, hun.