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Do you view five months away as nearly your birthday or not

112 replies

Aummernight77777 · 01/02/2026 13:10

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ApolloandDaphne · 01/02/2026 13:15

No. I would say once it gets to the month of my birthday that it's getting near but not before.

notacooldad · 01/02/2026 13:15

Depends where it is. If its a big blow out to a place im not likely to ho back to yes.
Going to Malaga then no.( even though i love Malaga!)

Whatbloodysummer · 01/02/2026 13:14

Of course not ! 5 months away is almost half a year.
Would you also say I've just turned 25 when your birthday was 7 months ago?

ExtraOnions · 01/02/2026 13:14

It nearly your half birthday (anything for a night out round here).

My 50th, I let people know a year earlier (on my 49th) what I was planning

LastSeenDancing · 01/02/2026 13:14

No, but a friend who had a big party for her 40th did start planning it about 6 months before to get the venue she wanted and to give people time to plan, sort childcare etc.

DigbyandFizz · 01/02/2026 13:13

No, but maybe if you were nearly 30, 40, 50, 60 etc. as that's more than 95% of the way since your last big birthday.

KnickerlessParsons · 01/02/2026 13:12

Don’t be ridiculous.

DustyMaiden · 01/02/2026 13:12

Not usually, if it was a big milestone with a holiday or party to plan, maybe.

TwistedWonder · 01/02/2026 13:12

No

HumbleStumble · 01/02/2026 13:11

Yes.

Itwasallyellow2 · 01/02/2026 13:11

No!

murasaki · 01/02/2026 13:11

Not, it's nearly half a year!