My Maid of Honour is currently planning my hen do, with some input from my bridesmaids. It’s a weekend abroad so I’ve offered to pay for myself as it’s not fair for others to cover the cost. This is somewhere that the bridesmaids have been a few times.
I don’t know what the rough itinerary is and none of the potential activities have been booked yet.
My maid of honour has told me that the bridesmaids want to do a day long activity, which is quite expensive. The problem is that she knows I would hate it, which is why she’s told me. She’s told the bridesmaids it would be my idea of hell but they have all apparently said that they loved it and I will be fine.
I’m now in a situation where one of the three days will be spent doing something I don’t want to do, and it costing a bomb at the same time. AIBU to put my foot down and say absolutely not (which would seriously annoy the bridesmaids), or suck it up and let them plan the whole thing? I don’t want to be THAT kind of bride ☹️