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To think primary kids shouldn't have smart watches

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Trainsandcars · 01/02/2026 07:44

DS wants a smart watch because friends do. He's in primary school. There's a proliferation of disctracting tech. You can't tell them to put it away. They're basically wearing a cheap games console. And its a constant dopamine hit and distraction likely to lead to demotivation etc..

AIBU?
No - they shouldn't be for under 10s
Yes - its no big deal

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Bobbybobbins · 02/02/2026 17:22

I am not a fan so wouldn’t get a child one either. I do think they feed into the tech addiction. An internet free Nokia brick with numbers programmed in as a previous poster said above us a great idea for year 5/6 if they are going out independently.

healthyteeth · 02/02/2026 16:20

Since there is no long term data on the health effects of smart wearables (especially in children with their developing brains and bodies) my opinion is that no child of any age should be wearing these.

Developers and manufacturers say ‘no evidence of harm’ but what they mean is ‘no evidence SO FAR, time will tell’. Until they can categorically say they’re proven safe, over a long period of time, I won’t be buying my kids anything like smart watches or Bluetooth headphones.

History shows us that small unnoticeable (in the short term) effects accumulate from things such as asbestos, tobacco, transfats, lead etc.

And this doesn’t even cover the unknown effects of how these things affect behavior and neurology.

Obviously we live in a digital world surrounded by WiFi, 4G etc and smartphones which worries me enough but wearing something on your body (especially for children) is a big no-no for me.

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 15:38

The facts aren't snippy, the way you have relayed them is.
Our Scouting groups are also mobile free, but not smartwatch free, at this time. The young people that have smartwatches in our groups generally have the ones which are fitness trackers not ones which are akin to a smartphone.
Anyway, I'll bid you good day.

TheNightingalesStarling · 02/02/2026 14:52

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 14:42

What I meant by

Are they only allowed 'dumb' watches? How does it work when they do map reading expeditions and need to be at a rendezvous point by a specific time?

was, how does it work when they need to use watches to figure out what time they need to get to their rendezvous point.

If they don't have a watch they can't take part in that activity.

I have two children in Scouting and their leaders haven't raised smartwatches as an issue, so I was just curious

And you're still being snippy.

Phones are banned for safeguarding normally. So that will include all devices capable of phone calls etc. Same with at school.

If they need a watch, its a normal watch.

If you feel this is snippy I apologise but its just fact.

Ineedanewsofa · 02/02/2026 14:51

The curse of bloody imoo! Banned at DDs school thankfully, agree the camera is a safeguarding issue for primary students (friend’s son was photographed using the toilet as a prank by yr5 classmates!)
I’ve bought a dumb Nokia that’s got a giffgaff sim in it and our phone numbers loaded in, DD takes that with her if she’s out and about on her own. Otherwise it sits on my desk at home

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 14:44

Oh and I've not heard of watches being a part of a school uniform list before. That's news to me too.

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 14:42

TheNightingalesStarling · 02/02/2026 14:25

But that isn't what you asked. You asked how they navigate without a smartwatch.
But yes, since a normal watch costs a fiver, and is actually on the uniform list for local schools, the kids already have them.

What I meant by

Are they only allowed 'dumb' watches? How does it work when they do map reading expeditions and need to be at a rendezvous point by a specific time?

was, how does it work when they need to use watches to figure out what time they need to get to their rendezvous point.

If they don't have a watch they can't take part in that activity.

I have two children in Scouting and their leaders haven't raised smartwatches as an issue, so I was just curious

And you're still being snippy.

TheNightingalesStarling · 02/02/2026 14:25

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 14:17

Did you need to be so snippy in your response?

I merely asked a question.

I am well aware that they use paper maps and compasses to navigate, not their phones.

My reason for asking was that many young people don't own a 'dumb' watch nowadays, some don't even own a smartwatch, relying instead on the clock on their mobile phone. I was wondering whether parents were willing to buy another watch for their children to participate in an extracurricular activity.

But that isn't what you asked. You asked how they navigate without a smartwatch.
But yes, since a normal watch costs a fiver, and is actually on the uniform list for local schools, the kids already have them.

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 14:17

TheNightingalesStarling · 02/02/2026 11:55

They use a map and a normal watch? And all groups out alone without a leader have a phone for that time. (Kept in the phone safe otherwise).

Seriously... you want to know how people navigate without an unnecessary piece of modern technology

Did you need to be so snippy in your response?

I merely asked a question.

I am well aware that they use paper maps and compasses to navigate, not their phones.

My reason for asking was that many young people don't own a 'dumb' watch nowadays, some don't even own a smartwatch, relying instead on the clock on their mobile phone. I was wondering whether parents were willing to buy another watch for their children to participate in an extracurricular activity.

Natsku · 02/02/2026 12:07

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 11:31

Are they only allowed 'dumb' watches? How does it work when they do map reading expeditions and need to be at a rendezvous point by a specific time?

When my DD did scouts they used paper maps and compasses, not the map on their phones (though they also had their phones with them so leaders could track them if needed, though the one time they needed to there was no signal so they couldn't track or call!)

TheNightingalesStarling · 02/02/2026 11:55

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 11:31

Are they only allowed 'dumb' watches? How does it work when they do map reading expeditions and need to be at a rendezvous point by a specific time?

They use a map and a normal watch? And all groups out alone without a leader have a phone for that time. (Kept in the phone safe otherwise).

Seriously... you want to know how people navigate without an unnecessary piece of modern technology

winterwonder1 · 02/02/2026 11:53

I'd say they are better than phones, and can be useful as they get into older years of primary school for the GPS tracking as kids start getting more independent and playing out.

Jijithecat · 02/02/2026 11:31

TheNightingalesStarling · 01/02/2026 07:58

They are being added to the banned electronic item list for our Scout group.

Are they only allowed 'dumb' watches? How does it work when they do map reading expeditions and need to be at a rendezvous point by a specific time?

PurpleThistle7 · 02/02/2026 11:20

My 9 year old son got a smart watch last year when he started to walk himself the mile to school. We are the last street of the catchment so there's no one else around when he's walking back and forth the first and last bit. It also means when he plays out in the estate he both knows the time (so if we say home at 6 for dinner he can do that) and also can get called by another friend or by us if someone is looking for him. Prior to this I spent ages wandering around looking for him as he had no idea what time it was.

No games, in school mode for the entire school day and he never messes with it. He can only call pre-entered phone numbers so it's just his neighbourhood friends (who have them too) or us / his sister. His calls are 10-20 seconds each time as it's literally just 'are you free? great, see you at the green'.

The watch is glitchy and pretty crap so we will get him a phone soon but it's been great for us and really useful. No issue if they want it in the box with the phones during the day but would really push back on any sort of ban of him having it outside of school times.

Hmmmmwineandchocs · 02/02/2026 11:12

My 9yr old has a kids one with a cheap sim in, it’s for use at a weekend when she goes to the park/on her bike/to her friends.
I wouldn’t allow her to wear it to school, she has no need to, also they aren’t allowed in school anyway.

Rainbowdottie · 02/02/2026 10:59

I’m don’t have one nor want one so maybe not best placed to answer. I do know however that working with adults who have them, is awful from my experience. A constant constant distraction.

my adult son had one for a while. He sold it in the end. He a slightly anxious addictive nature. It was a like worry monitor to him. How much he’d slept (or hadn’t) how many steps he’d done and the such like. I don’t think primary school child needs one but I can recognise it’s important to fit in at that age.

Scottishskifun · 02/02/2026 10:55

We got our 7 year old one as he likes to tell the time and likes to see his step count. But it does have good controls so all games on it are turned off during school time and we control it via an app so he can't over ride it!

I think it very much depends on the type and the parental control features

Trifletree · 02/02/2026 10:52

I don't have a smart watch and dont even like my husband having a smart watch. They just feed an addiction to technology. They interrupt conversations, they take you out of the present moment. Not exactly sure what they offer for children but definitely wouldn't give one to my child.

Trainsandcars · 02/02/2026 08:23

TheNightingalesStarling · 01/02/2026 09:14

You know his watch is where its supposed to be. Not him.

As a group of parents near me found out... they were leaving their phones at the park when going elsewhere to play.

Yes I think as a teenager I would have occasionally left it at a friends house.

The other issue is you know where they are not what they're doing or who they're with.

I suppose its a minor deterrant and helpful if they get lost and need collecting.

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Parker231 · 01/02/2026 10:22

Chickadiddy · 01/02/2026 10:20

Long time Primary school teacher here...

SICK TO DEATH of these watches.
They are a constant distraction and totally unnecessary.

Most primary and senior schools I know ban them so pointless buying one.

Chickadiddy · 01/02/2026 10:20

Long time Primary school teacher here...

SICK TO DEATH of these watches.
They are a constant distraction and totally unnecessary.

rainylake · 01/02/2026 10:18

When I say I don’t understand tracking, obviously I understand the desire to want to know where your child is and the feeling of anxiety at them going out in the world even though it is time. What I don’t understand is the feeling that a proportional response to that anxiety is to put a tracker on them. If I did that it would be a coping mechanism for me and my anxiety not about preparing them for navigating the world independently.

A tracker can’t protect against the dangers of cars (the biggest risk for children walking to school alone). And nor can it protect against a scenario where the watch is removed.

gototogo · 01/02/2026 10:00

I don’t get the tracking thing either except in specific cases eg Alzheimer’s or my dd sent me a link as she’s driving here so I can tell when to put food on (I’m guessing she’s hungry!)

AmethystDeceiver · 01/02/2026 09:54

TheNightingalesStarling · 01/02/2026 09:48

Thats the point though. Tracking isn't a substitute for trust. If you trust them, you shouldn't need to ttsack them.

I do trust him but he's 9, I don't want him out for hours at a time without some way of contacting him or knowing where he is.

Natsku · 01/02/2026 09:49

Trainsandcars · 01/02/2026 08:45

I also dont understand tracking. If my kid is old enough to be out by themselves theyre old enough not to get lost.

Kids all walk to school alone from 6/7 years old where I am, they can definitely still get lost at that age! DD got lost on one of her first days she was walking alone, called me and I could see from the tracker where she was and direct her where to go.
DS got lost in a train station (big city one) last summer, he got off the train before the rest of us without anyone noticing because we were all busy grabbing suitcases and helping my elderly dad and only realised when we were all off and he was nowhere to be seen. He called me in a panic and I was able to calm him down and ask him where he was and tell him to stay still and we'd come to him.

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