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AIBU to ignore Money Saving Expert advice?

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Lookingafterthepennies · 31/01/2026 21:46

Has anyone regretting taking out student loans rather than using savings to cover tuition fee costs?

My children are in for fortunate position of having an amount equivalent to over 2 years worth of tuition fees in their trust fund accounts. I understand it makes more financial sense from a numbers point of view for them to keep that money invested and use it for eg a house deposit in the future, and take out tuition loans, but the idea of them having to pay back a debt for most of their working lives makes me feel a bit sick.

So AIBU to think the psychological stress of having a never ending debt is worse than the the benefit of having a big chunk of money to use for something else.

YABU: it’s fine, you accept the debt and it doesn’t really phase you

YANBU: the never ending dent in the pay packet due to loan repayments is demoralising and should be avoided if poss.

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newmummycwharf1 · 01/02/2026 16:27

NemesisInferior · 01/02/2026 14:24

Hardly anyone on a graduate income is paying £300 off a month, that equates to a salary of around 70k for plan 5.

The reality is, at the start of a young person's career they will be paying off very little of their loan, if anything at all, and will have very, very little wiggle room to save for a deposit. Having savings for a deposit on a house is far more valuable rather than saving £20 a month on loan repayments. The only exception is if there is enough money to cover all student expenses and then some.

Edited

Not true - junior doctors start on 38k a year, which can be as high as 50k with locum shifts that most do. Investment banking first year analysts, City law firm first year hires, people in consultancy - all sometimes earn >100k starting and even if outside London, well over 50k within 5 years.
Median graduate salaries are 50k within 3 years of graduating and some sectors (tech, consultancy, banking, City Law) outstrip that

This generation may well be more entrepeneurial - again high-risk, high-reward - so may well deliver the growth in economy with more earning higher earlier in their careers.

taxguru · 01/02/2026 16:02

cestlavielife · 01/02/2026 14:28

My tombstone will read "and she still never paid off that stupid loan".

So what?
After 30 years it gets wiped out
So if you live til 60+ you fine.
Your tombstone will read
She got a degree and used it (hopefully)

"So what"??

The point is that they may have paid tens of thousands in interest even if not "fully" paid, despite maybe having paid off the initial capital borrowed years or decades ago. The interest is an absolute killer. Martin Lewis's figures re loans not paid off sound good, but the reality is that huge numbers of people have long since paid off the capital, but still having to repay the ever increasing interest, but are still included in the statistics for "loans written off" - it certainly doesn't mean just people who've paid nothing off or only paid off capital.

taxguru · 01/02/2026 15:57

It all depends on potential earnings. If the person is likely to be an above average earner, then they'll be paying it off for decades and the interest will soon double (or even treble) the capital borrowed. If they're going to be a very high earner, they'll pay it off sooner, so interest will be less. If they're going to be a lower earner, they'll only be paying low amounts so the interest doesn't matter as they'll not even pay off the capital. You need to do a model on a spreadsheet to get the "right" answer. I've done it loads of times and those on average lifetime earnings of £50-£100k are absolutely hammered with the interest, whereas those earning a lot more or a lot less tend to benefit from the loan due to not "paying" anywhere near as much interest.

bumptybum · 01/02/2026 15:53

ThatsWhatIGoToSchool · 31/01/2026 23:11

But it isn't classed as a "proper loan" ... Even by mortgage companies! It really isn't like being in debt, it is definitely more a 'graduate tax' as PPs have said.

But you end up paying way more than the loan about as you we paying an ever increasing interest only. It’s a tax you continue to pay until close to retirement

BashfulClam · 01/02/2026 15:51

I’ve never actually eaten enough to repay my student loan. I get refunded each year when my P60 goes through as they air it when I get my bonuses. Mine gets written off in about 9 years..

WhitegreeNcandle · 01/02/2026 15:49

I’m with you. Partly because I’m a Dave Ramsey listener. Partly because I don’t think a lot of degrees are worth the money and asking yourself would I pay cash for that is a good market. It worries me the government can change the terms at any time. I

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 01/02/2026 15:38

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 31/01/2026 22:04

The interest rate is really high though? I wouldn't want my kids to have an ever increasing debt burden.

I regret not using my savings. It’s 20 years since I graduated, I’ve been paying it back for the last 18 of those years and I still owe what I borrowed.

I’m in a position that I will pay it off due to earnings rather than have it written off. I’ll have been paying it for 37 years and will have paid back more than double what I borrowed. I’m plan 1 so pretty low interest compared to my mortgage rate - think mortgage is about 4.5 and my student loan is about 3.5 ish (or was last time I looked). My post grad loan is 6.2 (regret taking a student loan for this one)

@Notmycircusnotmyotter More recent plans like plan 5 for undergraduate student loans have seen interest rates above 7 or 8%. It was over 13% at one point. Compared to a mortgage then it’s much higher.

Donotgogentle · 01/02/2026 15:36

Jamesblonde2 · 01/02/2026 15:17

But what amount in interest has been added to the loan over the (average length of a degree) 3 years? I’d be interested to know the answer to this as I don’t know.

It would just be inflation, RPI, under Plan 5 loans.

So the real value of the loan stays the same. I wish my salary had been similarly protected against inflation over the last decade.

Jamesblonde2 · 01/02/2026 15:17

RetiredMan · 31/01/2026 23:43

The MoneySaving expert advice I saw last year was that someone in this position should take out a loan initially, then once they start their first job, and can begin to predict if they will be high-earning enough to have to repay their whole loan, they can pay it off then, if it makes sense.

But what amount in interest has been added to the loan over the (average length of a degree) 3 years? I’d be interested to know the answer to this as I don’t know.

Jamesblonde2 · 01/02/2026 15:13

Honestly what is the point of incurring this debt (ultimately payable by the tax payer) if you’re only going to earn a bit more than NMW (which keeps increasing year on year)?

If your child is a striver, and plans to earn a higher salary, surely they’re better off having the fees paid by parents.

Has anyone worked out how much has been paid back by someone earning over £50k (which isn’t that high) compared to what they paid for their degree and maintenance element.

cestlavielife · 01/02/2026 15:10

TheClangyClunk · 01/02/2026 15:04

Has anyone here ever considered paying the fees as an interest free loan to their DC? Maybe there's something I'm missing but I wonder if it would at least nullify the uncertainty about future rate increases.

Why would you?
If dc dont earn enough they wont pay hmrc.
If it gets to 30 years the remainder is written off.
But will always be in debt to you.

Of course if you have enough to loan for uni and give them 50 to 100 k house deposit then great go for it.
At 30 they will likely want a house deposit more than anything

aCatCalledFawkes · 01/02/2026 15:06

My parents set a trust fund up for both of my children the size of a house deposit. DD is off to uni in september and she could blow the whole lot there and be debt free rather than a house deposit but I think it's better to wait and see what she what her next move is before throwing her eggs in one basket.
Saving for a substantial deposit on a house is also not easy.

TheClangyClunk · 01/02/2026 15:04

Has anyone here ever considered paying the fees as an interest free loan to their DC? Maybe there's something I'm missing but I wonder if it would at least nullify the uncertainty about future rate increases.

Obvioushobbyist · 01/02/2026 14:50

Donotgogentle · 01/02/2026 12:26

Plan 1 interest is currently 3.2%

Well that’s good news! But yes on my last statement it was 6.5%

To compare.. my mortgage is 0.9%! Shortly will go up!

But the reason it’s an awful loan is all in the detail. The detail which they are able to change at any time. Which is ridiculous. How is that legal?!

My current biggest gripe is because I am self employed and they calculate student loan after I do my self assessment. Is that the money only gets taken after the interest has compound accrued.

You would think ahh, well I will just pay in advance monthly a certain amount. But no - you can do this, but they will take that as voluntary and will still demand the payment at the end.

So it’s incredibly unfavourable to business owners / self employed.

Honestly I do think it will get challenged in court and cancelled as illegal at some stage. There’s no way you can say getting 17yo to sign up to this is legal. And basically making it harder to pay off every time your circumstances change to make it more likely you will pay it - ie. Earning more, setting up a business etc.

roses2 · 01/02/2026 14:44

MadBlack · 31/01/2026 21:49

It's the cheapest loan they will ever have. Paying it off (or not taking it out in the first place) makes no sense at all

Interest is interest - you have to pay it back and it continues to accumulate until you've paid it back.

If you have the cash, it only makes sense to take out the student loan if you can earn more interest on your cash than you are paying on the student loan or you use the money on eg a mortgage in order to get this at a lower rate due to you having higher deposit.

MMAMPWGHAP · 01/02/2026 14:39

No one ever mentions that paying your son/daughter’s uni costs is something that you are doing specifically for them. It will never end up in a marital pot of money and subject to a divorce settlement.

Frenchcremefraiche · 01/02/2026 14:37

cestlavielife · 01/02/2026 14:28

My tombstone will read "and she still never paid off that stupid loan".

So what?
After 30 years it gets wiped out
So if you live til 60+ you fine.
Your tombstone will read
She got a degree and used it (hopefully)

There are a million schemes.

My husband is 2 years older than me so got an earlier scheme. His got cancelled last year and he never paid a penny.

Mine gets paid as a % of my earnings regardless of what I earn. So I started paying it immediately on leaving university and will pay it until I retire. I'm in my 40s so it's more likely to be closer to 70 than 60.

So 50 years of paying sonething that just services the interest on my average wage.

cestlavielife · 01/02/2026 14:28

My tombstone will read "and she still never paid off that stupid loan".

So what?
After 30 years it gets wiped out
So if you live til 60+ you fine.
Your tombstone will read
She got a degree and used it (hopefully)

Frenchcremefraiche · 01/02/2026 14:27

Having said that.. having a student loan is normal. Having your parents provide a house deposit is a privilege that not many people are lucky enough to have.

Frenchcremefraiche · 01/02/2026 14:26

I wish someone had explained student loans to me properly. At 18 they were pushed so hard and I never really understood what I signed up to.

However, on my scheme I barely cover the interest each month. So it's not been a cheap loan. The APR might be low but because I will never pay it off, it is bloody expensive.

My tombstone will read "and she still never paid off that stupid loan".

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NemesisInferior · 01/02/2026 14:24

newmummycwharf1 · 01/02/2026 13:09

Not quite. 20k at the start versus 300 (or whatever) from your pay packet every month. How do you pay the mortgage and live as a young starter?
It does depend on whether you believe your children will earn more than the median wage early in their career - which you should if they are going to University (obviously not always). My parents were confident of that and where correct. Will do the same for my kids

Hardly anyone on a graduate income is paying £300 off a month, that equates to a salary of around 70k for plan 5.

The reality is, at the start of a young person's career they will be paying off very little of their loan, if anything at all, and will have very, very little wiggle room to save for a deposit. Having savings for a deposit on a house is far more valuable rather than saving £20 a month on loan repayments. The only exception is if there is enough money to cover all student expenses and then some.

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 01/02/2026 13:38

@Donotgogentle 🤣🤣🤣
Crikey if RR says it's fair then it's fine right ??? 😳😡🤣🤣

newmummycwharf1 · 01/02/2026 13:16

viktoria · 01/02/2026 08:36

There is a difference between plan 2 (which mine would have been on) and plan 5 which current students are on.
If you are on plan 5 the loan will be written off after 40 years. You start repaying at a lower threshold, but at least you - currently - have lower interest than plan 2.
Interest starts accruing from the first day the loan is taken out, not when they finish uni

My two daughters inherited £20k each from their grandparents.
We advised them to use that money to pay towards the tuition fees.
We were in the lucky position to pay the rest. Even though we certainly felt it.
Luckily they weren't at uni at the same time, so the cost was spread for us.

Both had part time jobs during their studies, because our allowance paid for rent, bills, food and we covered extras like sports, or a pair of shoes or dental cost, they had to earn their going out money (apparently working up to 10 hours per week, actually helps students to plan their week better and they seem to do better than students who don't work or students who work more).

Our elder (25) is about to start a job where she earns £60k. I'm so glad she doesn't have to pay the extra 9% over the (I think £28k threshold)
I don't know the figure, but I assume she'd pay back about £250 a month - while the loan amount would still increase. Yes, it does get written off after 30 years.
But those are also the years where you really feel if you have £250 more or less to spend each month.

So going against the grain, I think if you can afford it, don't go for the student loan

Precisely this

PoFacedStare · 01/02/2026 13:12

We paid our kids’ fees and they graduated and started working asap. Without a debt hanging over them. We ignored the evidence and have no regrets. They are very very grateful indeed.

AmplePlayer · 01/02/2026 13:09

Out of interest I just looked at a student loan repayment calculator, a 50k loan on plan 5 would take 21 years to pay back by someone earning 45k, there would be approx 24k of interest.