Stay-at-home dad

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MRROWE · 31/01/2026 16:48

Do you think it's a good idea to give up a well-paid job in order to stay at home and take care of the kids as a full time father?

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WallaceinAnderland · 31/01/2026 16:54

Obvious question - can you afford to do so?

Josephinemarch1 · 31/01/2026 16:54

That's something you and your partner need to decide together. It depends on the circumstances, and what you both want.

NewYearNewMee · 31/01/2026 16:53

Depends - can you financially afford to? Are you willing to make that sacrifice? Would it work for the family? Do you have the support of partner / spouse? What would finances look like in terms of spending money, pension contributions etc? How old are the DC? Is there a plan for when they go into education?

DigbyandFizz · 31/01/2026 16:53

Are you married? Do you want to? What does your partner think?

lizziedripping98 · 31/01/2026 16:52

That all depends on the circumstances and if you can afford to. If you can live comfortably and happily on one wage and your spouse is on board with it then there is nothing unreasonable about it.

Cerialkiller · 31/01/2026 16:51

If it suits your family situation, budget and everyone is happy with you doing so....yes.

ImmortalJillyCooper · 31/01/2026 16:49

YABU to not include enough basic info in your post to make any judgement.

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