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Did I have enough space to reverse

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YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:43

Big white van was parked where the green dots are. I was parked where the red dots were.

I was trying to reverse but I couldn't. Van driver moved a little but then said I had enough room to get out. I honestly don't know if I'm just a bad driver or I needed that much space. He ended up moving and I got out.

Did I have enough space to reverse
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GreatUserName · 31/01/2026 14:49

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:20

I think people drive too close to reverse park, so I just swing in. I parallel park on the right side of the road outside my house.

Do you not have to reverse to parallel park?

Also, you've marked 3 red dots, which space was you in?

CombatBarbie · 31/01/2026 14:48

If those markings are standard road markings in car parks you had waaaaay more than enough room!!! Unless you are expecting to reverse directly out without having to pull forward and turn.....this situation is dependant on size of your car.

Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:45

MigralevePink · 31/01/2026 14:43

Some spaces and situations lend themselves to reverse park, others don’t. The van was in a space not marked out as a parking spot for a reason and it looks to me like it would have been tricky though not impossible to get
out.

I think people are quick to get uppity nowadays. If I see a car reversing out on a car park, I simply let them… if the manoeuvre was already in progress as I approached I don’t know why I wouldn’t?

It's not 'uppity'. In most cases it's safer.

TheMorgenmuffel · 31/01/2026 14:45

Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:42

You're definitely not. It scares the living daylights out of me that people like this are in charge of a vehicle. I tell my son to assume that everyone else on the road doesn't have a clue what they're doing.

ime it's best to assume everyone is actively trying to kill you and has never even heard of the highway code.

RightOnTheEdge · 31/01/2026 14:45

Sortis · 31/01/2026 13:57

I was always taught to reverse park, but I notice that younger colleagues always drive straight in. Saying that, they all drive new cars with the parking beeping and/or cameras. I've had them in hire cars and can't bear them. Does anyone know if young people can sit their test in a car with the beeps? (What's the real name??).

My driving instructor's car had assisted parking with beeps.
I didn't get asked to reverse park in my driving test though.

It also had push button start and automatic headlights.
My car is a 16yr old Fiesta so no automatic or assisted anything! It took a lot of getting used to after learning in a fancy new car and I wanted to give up in the first few weeks when I kept stalling it, I felt like absolute shit and my confidence was zero. Maybe everyone should learn to drive in an old banger, it might help develop better driving skills 😆

I love my car now though.

TwilightAb · 31/01/2026 14:44

I always reverse park as much as possible as there are less likely to be as many hazards reversing in to a space than reversing out of a space. But yes plenty of room kn the picture to reverse out.

Pinkywoo · 31/01/2026 14:44

I'm surprised there's so many people being
smug keen to reverse park on a parenting forum. You've obviously all forgotten the ball ache of dragging a pushchair out of the boot while being screamed at by a grumpy baby!

Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:44

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:42

Reversing is frightening lol

I hope you're joking.

There's no reason not to reverse into the parking spaces in your original photograph.

MigralevePink · 31/01/2026 14:43

Some spaces and situations lend themselves to reverse park, others don’t. The van was in a space not marked out as a parking spot for a reason and it looks to me like it would have been tricky though not impossible to get
out.

I think people are quick to get uppity nowadays. If I see a car reversing out on a car park, I simply let them… if the manoeuvre was already in progress as I approached I don’t know why I wouldn’t?

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:43

ReadingSoManyThreads · 31/01/2026 14:42

Definitely not the only one!

This thread is certainly proving the need for repeated driving tests at certain intervals!

For the van driver illegally parked. Yes

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YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:42

Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:42

You're definitely not. It scares the living daylights out of me that people like this are in charge of a vehicle. I tell my son to assume that everyone else on the road doesn't have a clue what they're doing.

Reversing is frightening lol

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Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:42

B1anche · 31/01/2026 14:21

Seriously? How long have you been driving? I can't be the only one who finds it frightening that you are asking this question

You're definitely not. It scares the living daylights out of me that people like this are in charge of a vehicle. I tell my son to assume that everyone else on the road doesn't have a clue what they're doing.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 31/01/2026 14:42

B1anche · 31/01/2026 14:21

Seriously? How long have you been driving? I can't be the only one who finds it frightening that you are asking this question

Definitely not the only one!

This thread is certainly proving the need for repeated driving tests at certain intervals!

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:41

Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:39

You should always reverse into a parking space and drive out if you can. It's much safer as you have more visibility. Safer for pedestrians too. Why does reversing into a parking space 'cause issues' as well?

Because when you got people behind you theu don't leave enough space despite reversing hazards on, plus it's a corner

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Makemineacosmo · 31/01/2026 14:39

You should always reverse into a parking space and drive out if you can. It's much safer as you have more visibility. Safer for pedestrians too. Why does reversing into a parking space 'cause issues' as well?

Lougle · 31/01/2026 14:38

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:19

Visibility of what? Hitting pedestrians or cars? Sorry just trying to imagine it.

Both. When you have driven into a space, your starting point for getting out is that you have almost a whole car length before your wing mirrors or your windscreen will show you what is perpendicular to you. Until that point, your wing mirrors really only show you what is immediately to your left and right (the other car doors, usually) and possibly anything that walks into and out of the corner of your car. You can't see things approaching from a distance because the adjacent cars block your vision. So you edge out, keeping an eye on your rear view mirror. Then, as you get half a car's length back, you start to be able to use the rear passenger windows. Finally, as you get 3/4 of a car's length back, you start to be able to use the front windows, then the windscreen.

When you reverse in, you start from the position of being on the main 'road' of the car park. You have all-around visibility. You can reverse cautiously, and position carefully. Your nose of the car is the bit that swings the most when you steer, and that is the last bit that goes into the space, which is the tightest part of the manoeuvre because it's the part where you are restricted by the presence of other cars. If you need to make fine adjustment you can, because your nose is free with space around it. On the way out, you can use your windscreen to see the main 'road' of the car park, creeping out if necessary. Your nose is the first thing that's free, and your steering wheels are at the front of the car. Where your nose goes, your rear will follow.

Notmyreality · 31/01/2026 14:37

TheMorgenmuffel · 31/01/2026 14:33

fucking terrifying isn't it?!

Yup

Notmyreality · 31/01/2026 14:37

JFC.

AlbieJiggered · 31/01/2026 14:36

I nearly got hit by a couple in a car. The driver was relying on her sensors instead of looking at where the car was going.

If your car is dirty, the sensors might not work.

TheMorgenmuffel · 31/01/2026 14:33

B1anche · 31/01/2026 14:21

Seriously? How long have you been driving? I can't be the only one who finds it frightening that you are asking this question

fucking terrifying isn't it?!

SerendipityJane · 31/01/2026 14:32

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:48

Why reverse park... It doesn't change the shape of the car.

Because you have passed your test, read the Highway Code and remember rules 200, 201, 202 and 203 ?

AlbieJiggered · 31/01/2026 14:31

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:19

Visibility of what? Hitting pedestrians or cars? Sorry just trying to imagine it.

The space you are going into.

Image shows red (my car with me in it), blue (other cars and people)

I need to have started to pull out before I can see in my mirrors or by looking that it is clear to do so.

How the hell do you not know this stuff?

(My driving is much better than my artistic talents)

Did I have enough space to reverse
AnSolas · 31/01/2026 14:30

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:20

I think people drive too close to reverse park, so I just swing in. I parallel park on the right side of the road outside my house.

Wot?
You indicate and stop and that stops traffic.

You check traffic is stopped and move off again to swing into a space.

If other traffic tailgating is a problem you have a due care and attention problem.

Waterbaby41 · 31/01/2026 14:26

That appears to be a two lane road so plenty of room to reverse - or do you normally mount the pavement opposite when reversing?

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