Ex is usually decent with money. To be honest it’s the least he can do given he sees dd for a few hours on a Saturday and Sunday and that’s if he’s not working at a weekend in which case it’s every couple of weeks. His choice, I’ve offered whatever he wants.
Ex earns 95k. He also gets overtime, which varies so isn’t taken into account for cms.
All last year he paid a set amount which was slightly more than cms calculated. In Jan they did the new calculation and it was 34 pounds less. So he’s still overpaying slightly overall but is now paying 34 quid less than every month last year.
I think this is an incredibly dickish move and I’ve told him this. Yes I know technically he’s doesn’t have to pay more blah blah blah but fucking hell I’m doing EVERYTHING for DD all week every week and every night of her life. I feel like it was petty and unkind to knock off 34 quid. I told him i don’t get the luxury of suddenly reducing what I spend on DD as I just have to spend it. I said he was being a disgrace.
I am really upset just about how frustrated I feel really at the injustice I have enough money, it’s not about that, it’s about how I feel at the hands of his decisions when I just have to plough on and don’t get to do the same…I couldn’t decide to spend slightly less this month