DM lives alone , very few friends anymore and no hobbies. Was involved in grandchildren as (paid) childminder and I know would like more family time.
Today we went shopping and I was telling DM my plans for the next 3 nights - cinema with DH, MIL birthday dinner and theatre with a friend.
I asked DM would she like to come out with me saturday or sunday for lunch and she has said no in a sulk, clearly upset that I am not including her in any evening plans.
For context, last weekend I went to her house for dinner , some wine and then during the week I popped up for tea and a chat so she is not neglected by any means.
Tomorrow afternoon one of my DDs will pop up for a couple of hours.
I feel guilty , I know it’s unreasonable but I just don’t seem to have enough days in the week to keep everyone happy ! AIBU ?