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Child reading while mother on social media

103 replies

SuperGinger · 29/01/2026 19:06

I saw a mum on the tube with a small boy, he was doing his reading to her, she was not listening at all, just doom scrolling through rubbish on Instagram. He would finish a page and she didn't notice (until about 10 seconds had passed, during which he just sat there), she would then turn the page.

I know that listening to your small child reading can be boring but AIBU to think she should try to pay attention and be present? It is setting a bad example to her child and is disrespectful and frankly sad.

Then on the Today programme they are discussing the negative impact of phones on children and how helpless parents feel, but you read what you sow.

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99pwithaflake · 29/01/2026 19:10

YABU to judge based on a two second snapshot.

I used to read the same stories to my mum over and over as a kid, I must have driven her insane.

Ladybugheart · 29/01/2026 19:10

You don't know anything about them other than the brief encounter you witnessed so I'd say yabu. Maybe she had spent the day actively engaging with him and just wanted 5 minutes to sit down.

CheeseItOn · 29/01/2026 19:08

Voted yavu because reading on the tube isn't quality time together. For.all you know he's been reading that out lout to her, on repeat, for months

some of us have crazy verbal Children Who never stop talking. So yabi to judge that.