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Ionablue · 29/01/2026 18:00

Before I start I completely get that it can be expensive, the weather is bad and many Irish residents are emigrating for accommodation & opportunities. But....
A very very large proportion of the Irish people seem put on earth specifically to restore visitors faith in human nature. Genuine and warm, great sense of humour
Many women in particular supposedly find Ireland blissfully relaxing, not just because it is a laidback culture but because the general male culture seems to revolve less around making women feel uncomfortable than in other countries.

Some of the countryside and heritage is literally heavenly. Co. Waterford, especially its western extremities eg Dungarvan. Ardmore, Lismore, is an undiscovered gem.

Yes its not cheap but the food can be exceptional.

Most ordinary people seem exceptionally well disposed to foreign visitors and many have relatives abroad.

In rural Ireland you can drive for miles without seeing a car.

The music is brilliant and the people seem enormously invested in live music.

Well, that's my tuppence.

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Lemonyyy · 30/01/2026 16:49

Buskingit · 30/01/2026 15:54

That should say I see your Ireland and I raise you New Zealand

New Zealand on the other hand....😂genuinely yet to meet an unpleasant New Zealander but I'm sure they do exist!

Lemonyyy · 30/01/2026 16:48

I've met some absolutely delightful Irish people. And some deeply unpleasant, very racist Irish people. Just like any other nationality! Ireland is gorgeous and I do love it there but I wouldn't move on the romantic premise of everyone there being a saint...

calpolandcuddles · 30/01/2026 16:45

TheIceBear · 30/01/2026 16:36

if you are judging an entire population of people based on two bitchy women you worked with that says more about you than anything else

Also two women the pp met... 30ish years ago.

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Martymcfly24 · 30/01/2026 16:45

Buskingit · 30/01/2026 15:54

That should say I see your Ireland and I raise you New Zealand

Oh yes. As an Irish person I loved New Zealand so much. It's just stunning. OP you may be slightly biased because you went to the best part of the country, the sunny South East!

PluckyChancer · 30/01/2026 16:44

I live here in the far south west and it is truly wonderful. 😊

TheIceBear · 30/01/2026 16:36

tescofishcakes · 29/01/2026 19:37

I worked and lived with two Irish women back in the 90s and the pair of them were total bitches who didn’t do their jobs properly cos they were super lazy. It’s a no from me.

if you are judging an entire population of people based on two bitchy women you worked with that says more about you than anything else

3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 30/01/2026 16:32

When I went to Dublin someone nicked my coat.

WhitsunWedding · 30/01/2026 16:28

Having spent every wretched summer in Ireland from 0-16, I will quite happily never set foot in the place ever again.

It’s a shame, but I’ve been entirely put off.

HelpMeGetThrough · 30/01/2026 15:56

TwentyFourHoursToTulsa · 29/01/2026 19:31

This thread is like someone visiting the Cotswolds or Cornwall, and going "Isn't England lovely! The natives are so friendly! Lovely landscape, no litter, no ditr, and all the women seem blissfully happy!" 😆

You might want to take Cornwall out of that. It’s pretty shite and some of the locals are pricks.

Buskingit · 30/01/2026 15:54

That should say I see your Ireland and I raise you New Zealand

GhostMutt · 30/01/2026 15:52

TwentyFourHoursToTulsa · 29/01/2026 19:27

Did you pop along to the riots about immigrants? For the craic?

Making judgments about the whole population of Ireland based on the relatively tiny number of scum bags who were responsible for those riots would be like judging the whole of England in the eighties based on the behaviour of football hooligans.

Icelap · 30/01/2026 15:52

I am Irish, born and bred, and left Ireland for a reason. I never miss it. I go home regularly enough to see family, but treat it like a holiday and visit the nice bits. Ultimately I feel very suffocated when I go home. I don't like saying this because it sounds like i have a 'looking down my nose' on my home country complex, but I can't help it. If I stay for longer than 3 weeks I feel a dark cloud looming over me and feel my personality changing, in a way I do not like.

Buskingit · 30/01/2026 15:52

OP I’ll your beautiful Ireland and I raise you New Zealand….

MeinKraft · 30/01/2026 15:44

Ireland and the UK nations all have incredibly scenic spots, countryside villages and mostly nice enough people. It’s about the area you choose to live in. I think we are all lucky to live in such a beautiful part of the world.

Dappy777 · 30/01/2026 15:38

Rural Ireland is kind of similar to rural England, but without the overcrowding. English people love rural Ireland because it reminds them of what rural England used to be like. I remember saying “isn’t it quiet” to my partner, but then thinking “hang on… this is normality. This is what the countryside is supposed to be like. It’s rural Essex, with its endless housing estates and country lanes clogged with traffic, that’s abnormal.”

Butterbeersallround · 30/01/2026 15:35

FcukBreastCancer · 30/01/2026 15:21

Ah my experience was different. Saw a man having the shit beaten out of him in the street. I was kneeling beside him and was covered in blood. I live somewhere rough in UK and it was the worst violence I've witnessed.

Not sure where you were but Dublin has gotten worse. I think the trouble with being a tourist somewhere is that you sometimes go places at times local people wouldn’t. I’m Irish and would avoid parts of Dublin city centre especially. What you witnessed sounds absolutely horrific! I’ve lived in Ireland all my life and have never witnessed anything like that thankfully.

Anonanonanonagain · 30/01/2026 15:32

FcukBreastCancer · 30/01/2026 15:21

Ah my experience was different. Saw a man having the shit beaten out of him in the street. I was kneeling beside him and was covered in blood. I live somewhere rough in UK and it was the worst violence I've witnessed.

With a population of circa 7 million on the island it is unfortunate that you witnessed this but the rest of us are not violent thugs who go around battering each other.

BunnyLake · 30/01/2026 15:22

FcukBreastCancer · 30/01/2026 15:21

Ah my experience was different. Saw a man having the shit beaten out of him in the street. I was kneeling beside him and was covered in blood. I live somewhere rough in UK and it was the worst violence I've witnessed.

Eek 🫨

BunnyLake · 30/01/2026 15:21

Bubblesgun · 30/01/2026 15:08

I m not irish but married an irish man who I have met in the UK. We lived for 15yrs together in the UK and move back to Dublin nesrly 9yrs ago. When we oeft the UK he had lived there longer than he ever loved in Ireland.

as much as I love London, i dont miss living there. I love that it is now a holiday destination as we still have many friends there.

ireland, and especially Dublin, is so relaxing and it s in Europe which is very important for me as I am a hard Remain.

iriah people are lovely, life is easier and the education is better. And no 11+. Mountains are easy reach and so is the sea. And crossing dublin takes 20mins with no traffic. Unlike london there are olenty of times with no traffic.

caveat - public transport is mainly buses and hardly no public transport to the airport.

i highly recommend an irish life

Sounds lovely.

FcukBreastCancer · 30/01/2026 15:21

Ah my experience was different. Saw a man having the shit beaten out of him in the street. I was kneeling beside him and was covered in blood. I live somewhere rough in UK and it was the worst violence I've witnessed.

BunnyLake · 30/01/2026 15:20

Sounds wonderful but I am so tired of rain. I feel like it’s been raining non stop for a year. I want to find a corner of UK/Britain with the lowest average rainfall. I want to see tumbleweed in the garden instead of puddles 😁

Anonanonanonagain · 30/01/2026 15:16

Some of the responses are gas.

Irish living in Ireland for about 90% of my life cos I did actually escape and live in other countries but always came back to the sanctuary of home. Would not raise my kids anywhere else to be honest.

Deadringer · 30/01/2026 15:13

I agree with pps that you cant generalise about any country, we all have the good the bad and the ugly, but one thing i will say is that Irish friendliness is not fake, Irish people are generally friendly and genuinely interested in other people. They might not necessarily want to 'become friends' with you, that's a whole other thing. And I think the 'notions' thing is misunderstood, there is nothing wrong with bettering yourself, its forgetting where you came from and looking down on others that's frowned on.

Bubblesgun · 30/01/2026 15:08

Ionablue · 29/01/2026 18:00

Before I start I completely get that it can be expensive, the weather is bad and many Irish residents are emigrating for accommodation & opportunities. But....
A very very large proportion of the Irish people seem put on earth specifically to restore visitors faith in human nature. Genuine and warm, great sense of humour
Many women in particular supposedly find Ireland blissfully relaxing, not just because it is a laidback culture but because the general male culture seems to revolve less around making women feel uncomfortable than in other countries.

Some of the countryside and heritage is literally heavenly. Co. Waterford, especially its western extremities eg Dungarvan. Ardmore, Lismore, is an undiscovered gem.

Yes its not cheap but the food can be exceptional.

Most ordinary people seem exceptionally well disposed to foreign visitors and many have relatives abroad.

In rural Ireland you can drive for miles without seeing a car.

The music is brilliant and the people seem enormously invested in live music.

Well, that's my tuppence.

I m not irish but married an irish man who I have met in the UK. We lived for 15yrs together in the UK and move back to Dublin nesrly 9yrs ago. When we oeft the UK he had lived there longer than he ever loved in Ireland.

as much as I love London, i dont miss living there. I love that it is now a holiday destination as we still have many friends there.

ireland, and especially Dublin, is so relaxing and it s in Europe which is very important for me as I am a hard Remain.

iriah people are lovely, life is easier and the education is better. And no 11+. Mountains are easy reach and so is the sea. And crossing dublin takes 20mins with no traffic. Unlike london there are olenty of times with no traffic.

caveat - public transport is mainly buses and hardly no public transport to the airport.

i highly recommend an irish life

Daysgo · 30/01/2026 15:07

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