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To seriously recommend Ireland

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Ionablue · 29/01/2026 18:00

Before I start I completely get that it can be expensive, the weather is bad and many Irish residents are emigrating for accommodation & opportunities. But....
A very very large proportion of the Irish people seem put on earth specifically to restore visitors faith in human nature. Genuine and warm, great sense of humour
Many women in particular supposedly find Ireland blissfully relaxing, not just because it is a laidback culture but because the general male culture seems to revolve less around making women feel uncomfortable than in other countries.

Some of the countryside and heritage is literally heavenly. Co. Waterford, especially its western extremities eg Dungarvan. Ardmore, Lismore, is an undiscovered gem.

Yes its not cheap but the food can be exceptional.

Most ordinary people seem exceptionally well disposed to foreign visitors and many have relatives abroad.

In rural Ireland you can drive for miles without seeing a car.

The music is brilliant and the people seem enormously invested in live music.

Well, that's my tuppence.

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Hollyhobbi · 30/01/2026 18:57

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 16:52

On a seperate note I don't think this is the case, many towns and cities are very dog friendly, particularly in the south like Galway.

Galway is in the West of Ireland! Or the Republic of Ireland.

Hollyhobbi · 30/01/2026 18:55

grizzlyoldbear · 30/01/2026 17:07

Agree, visited Belfast for the first time this year, and was blown away by the architecture and the warmth of the people

But Belfast is a different country! It’s not Ireland!

Hollyhobbi · 30/01/2026 18:54

Martymcfly24 · 30/01/2026 17:27

Absolutely .

And they both have loads of sheep!

Think Ireland could learn from NZ in the way they have capitalized their land scape for outdoor activities (rafting, kayaking, zorbing etc) . It's just fab .

But doesn’t New Zealand have better weather?

Hollyhobbi · 30/01/2026 18:51

caterpillary · 29/01/2026 19:28

Also very clean

Where was it very clean? I live in Ireland so I’m just curious what part you considered to be very clean?

DandyDenimScroller · 30/01/2026 18:47

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ReturnOfTheToad · 30/01/2026 18:32

Butterbeersallround · 30/01/2026 18:27

some parts of Ireland are now ranked the most dangerous place to be a woman in Europe due to the high rates of homicide against women.

What?
Where?

Northern Ireland I think, so the UK.

Butterbeersallround · 30/01/2026 18:27

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 16:51

I think this is interesting and not to burst your bubble op, but some parts of Ireland are now ranked the most dangerous place to be a woman in Europe due to the high rates of homicide against women.

I agree it's a beautiful and wonderful part of the world but let's not pretend it's all sunshine and rainbows. Women in particular have been through a lengthy traumatic history of horrors and injustices.

some parts of Ireland are now ranked the most dangerous place to be a woman in Europe due to the high rates of homicide against women.

What?
Where?

Changedname9999 · 30/01/2026 18:24

It’s just a country. I’m from there. It’s no better or worse than anywhere else but there is a culture that is a bit different. Say from England or wherever.

Butterbeersallround · 30/01/2026 18:23

ByPeachPeer · 30/01/2026 16:50

I've never been and really fancied doing a road trip for a while but someone (irish) told me that there are very few dog friendly pubs/cafes/ hotels in Ireland unlike England where there are loads and i was going to take my dog so this has put me off although no idea if it's even true!

My cousin who’s from Ireland but lives in the UK now says this is very true (thankfully imho 😅)

Dontlletmedownbruce · 30/01/2026 17:54

Absolutely love life here and wouldn't go anywhere else. The weather doesn't bother me. BUT you guys have no idea how unbelievably privileged you are with NHS. It's about €60 upwards to see a GP. Children under 7 ( I think) are free now but that's relatively new, when ds was born he cost the same as an adult from 6 weeks old. My family had a lot of dental issues and at one point our dental bills were second to our mortgage, literally 1000s every year. We pay about 3k a year for private health insurance, but that doesn't include consultant fees which could be 250 for a first visit. There is of course the public health system option but you could be waiting literally years for surgery if something goes wrong. My one and only experience of the public system was a visit to A&E after a fall and I was told a Dr would see me in 13 hours to decide if I needed to get an X ray, which would put me back of the X ray queue. After 8 hours of pain I left and went to a private clinic the next day for a 150 or so. I can afford this but many can't. That's just a snap shot of reality of life as opposed to a holiday.

From a cultural perspective I love it. The scumbags/ pervs/ racists exist as they do everywhere, but I believe in a smaller proportion to most places I've been. It's a friendly place and if you have enough money a wonderful place to raise a family.

TwentyFourHoursToTulsa · 30/01/2026 17:49

TheIceBear · 30/01/2026 17:46

Dun laoighaire is literally the poshest place you could possibly live in Ireland. I wouldn’t call it “normal” or “mixed”

And still the women are not "blissfully relaxed".

ArtistsWay · 30/01/2026 17:47

Andflop · 29/01/2026 19:24

'A very very large proportion of the Irish people seem put on earth specifically to restore visitors faith in human nature'

that description alone would put me off ever visiting

That's okay. We don't want you.

TheIceBear · 30/01/2026 17:46

TwentyFourHoursToTulsa · 30/01/2026 17:26

I wasn't. I was just pointing out that it isn't all lovely and Oirish like the OP has seen on holiday in the countryside.

I used to live in Dun Laoghaire. It's a pretty normal, mixed place, no different from a large town in the UK. Has its ups and downs. The women there are not "blissfully relaxed", in general 😆

Dun laoighaire is literally the poshest place you could possibly live in Ireland. I wouldn’t call it “normal” or “mixed”

Lottapianos · 30/01/2026 17:45

'I never miss it. I go home regularly enough to see family, but treat it like a holiday and visit the nice bits. Ultimately I feel very suffocated when I go home'

I feel the same @Icelap . I was born and brought up there, left when I was 20. Been in the UK for 26 years and it's definitely home to me. There are things I enjoy about visiting Ireland but I have no desire to live there and always happy to get back home

Berlinlover · 30/01/2026 17:42

DandyDenimScroller · 30/01/2026 14:42

I don't have much nice to say about Ireland.

Would you care to elaborate?

Martymcfly24 · 30/01/2026 17:27

Buskingit · 30/01/2026 17:20

@Martymcfly24 The countries have much in common. Green, rainfall, great fresh food, uber friendly people who go out of their way to help tourists, large empty spaces and big skies, aptitude for rugby. While Ireland has Guinness, NZ has wine. And I would say the scenery is more spectacular.

Absolutely .

And they both have loads of sheep!

Think Ireland could learn from NZ in the way they have capitalized their land scape for outdoor activities (rafting, kayaking, zorbing etc) . It's just fab .

TwentyFourHoursToTulsa · 30/01/2026 17:26

GhostMutt · 30/01/2026 15:52

Making judgments about the whole population of Ireland based on the relatively tiny number of scum bags who were responsible for those riots would be like judging the whole of England in the eighties based on the behaviour of football hooligans.

I wasn't. I was just pointing out that it isn't all lovely and Oirish like the OP has seen on holiday in the countryside.

I used to live in Dun Laoghaire. It's a pretty normal, mixed place, no different from a large town in the UK. Has its ups and downs. The women there are not "blissfully relaxed", in general 😆

Buskingit · 30/01/2026 17:20

@Martymcfly24 The countries have much in common. Green, rainfall, great fresh food, uber friendly people who go out of their way to help tourists, large empty spaces and big skies, aptitude for rugby. While Ireland has Guinness, NZ has wine. And I would say the scenery is more spectacular.

grizzlyoldbear · 30/01/2026 17:07

Agree, visited Belfast for the first time this year, and was blown away by the architecture and the warmth of the people

Martymcfly24 · 30/01/2026 17:06

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 16:51

I think this is interesting and not to burst your bubble op, but some parts of Ireland are now ranked the most dangerous place to be a woman in Europe due to the high rates of homicide against women.

I agree it's a beautiful and wonderful part of the world but let's not pretend it's all sunshine and rainbows. Women in particular have been through a lengthy traumatic history of horrors and injustices.

Where is it in Ireland that is rated the most dangerous place to be a woman in Europe?

Not being smart just genuinely surprised at that statistic.

iusedtobeasize8 · 30/01/2026 17:04

It depends whether you’re living in Ireland or visiting Ireland .I’ve done both and they’re completely different.
I lived on the west coast for a few years in the 2000’s and met some lovely people though I would disagree with people who say we have the same culture- we really don’t. However I also met some very racist people who snubbed me as an English unmarried mother.

TheIceBear · 30/01/2026 16:52

As an Irish woman I definitely don’t find it blissfully relaxing here in Ireland. Give me a glass of wine sitting by the seaside in Italy or Spain any day.. I have to say though I would imagine a lot of people in the uk don’t have Ireland on their “bucket list” for the same reason a lot of people in Ireland don’t have the uk on theirs.. same shite weather , similar scenery in a lot of places , similar culture. I like visiting the uk but It just doesn’t seem that exotic to me I guess.

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 16:52

ByPeachPeer · 30/01/2026 16:50

I've never been and really fancied doing a road trip for a while but someone (irish) told me that there are very few dog friendly pubs/cafes/ hotels in Ireland unlike England where there are loads and i was going to take my dog so this has put me off although no idea if it's even true!

On a seperate note I don't think this is the case, many towns and cities are very dog friendly, particularly in the south like Galway.

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 16:51

Ionablue · 29/01/2026 18:00

Before I start I completely get that it can be expensive, the weather is bad and many Irish residents are emigrating for accommodation & opportunities. But....
A very very large proportion of the Irish people seem put on earth specifically to restore visitors faith in human nature. Genuine and warm, great sense of humour
Many women in particular supposedly find Ireland blissfully relaxing, not just because it is a laidback culture but because the general male culture seems to revolve less around making women feel uncomfortable than in other countries.

Some of the countryside and heritage is literally heavenly. Co. Waterford, especially its western extremities eg Dungarvan. Ardmore, Lismore, is an undiscovered gem.

Yes its not cheap but the food can be exceptional.

Most ordinary people seem exceptionally well disposed to foreign visitors and many have relatives abroad.

In rural Ireland you can drive for miles without seeing a car.

The music is brilliant and the people seem enormously invested in live music.

Well, that's my tuppence.

I think this is interesting and not to burst your bubble op, but some parts of Ireland are now ranked the most dangerous place to be a woman in Europe due to the high rates of homicide against women.

I agree it's a beautiful and wonderful part of the world but let's not pretend it's all sunshine and rainbows. Women in particular have been through a lengthy traumatic history of horrors and injustices.

ByPeachPeer · 30/01/2026 16:50

I've never been and really fancied doing a road trip for a while but someone (irish) told me that there are very few dog friendly pubs/cafes/ hotels in Ireland unlike England where there are loads and i was going to take my dog so this has put me off although no idea if it's even true!

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