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To think six month notice period is wild?

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 15:59

Looking to sense check something please. I’m a junior director in a property management company. That isn’t quite the title but trying to retain enough anonymity. There are directors and managing directors above me. My job is essentially team leader but has started to expand into a more KPI driven role. The company was bought over and regrettably I have almost no access to a support structure but carry a great deal of risk and responsibility. I worked my way up from an entry ish level position but once promoted 18 months ago I was given next to no support to step up to the role and quickly expected to just know and handle things. It’s become uncomfortable and unsustainable. The business doesn’t seem to want to acknowledge that this is happening. I’ve just been issued with a new contract changing my notice period from two months to six months and a blasé “let us know if you have any questions” but not alluding to the specific changes much, other than that there may be some for alignment purposes. I’ll get an enhanced remuneration package in exchange. It really feels like I’m being trapped into staying put rather than them just making sure good people are adequately supported (I know many feel like that at work now) and want to work there. To me, only experts in their field need to give six months notice - I’m literally a team leader with some focus on growth and income. The job has been affecting my well-being and the six month thing was jarring. I feel it makes me unemployable as businesses can’t often wait that long - not for just a team leader. I know there are much worse problems to have, but please can you tell me what you think of a six month notice period in this context? Is it reasonable? More common than I realise? The new standard? Bonkers?

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:24

RuffledKestrel · 29/01/2026 16:15

In my experience 6 months is usually asked from higher management and above.
As others have said, check what notice they need to give you for redundancy. It's it's less than 6 then that would be my main point to get it reduced.
Realistically though, every job I've had has been flexible with end dates. But then I've always left in a decent light so to speak.

Really good advice and I’ll check that. Thank you.

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:23

Short edit/update:

Thanks to those who suggested legal advice. I did enquire with a firm earlier today and waiting to hear back. If it’s around the £250 mark or even a bit more then I’ll def do it.

To answer one of the questions, no I don’t particularly want to keep working there under the circumstances prior to the new contract. It’s more a timing thing. I wanted to get a few ducks in a row before doing anything as I’m anticipating a salary cut and maybe a job more aligned with what matters to me.

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RuffledKestrel · 29/01/2026 16:15

In my experience 6 months is usually asked from higher management and above.
As others have said, check what notice they need to give you for redundancy. It's it's less than 6 then that would be my main point to get it reduced.
Realistically though, every job I've had has been flexible with end dates. But then I've always left in a decent light so to speak.

grizzlyoldbear · 29/01/2026 16:15

Agree pay £250 to an employment lawyer to check the contract.
It sounds insane.
Also, do you want to keep working there?

StandFirm · 29/01/2026 16:13

Three months is the standard for more senior positions (and already bad enough) but 6 months is just ridiculous as it will really trap you in the job. Is it mutual? ie do they have to give you 6 months notice in case of redundancy? Also check restrictive covenant clauses as it's likely they would have added more restrictions there too. It's cheeky of them and I don't think they're allowed to do this.

Maaate · 29/01/2026 16:09

Li don't think an employer can unilaterally change your contract of employment without your agreement

PaterPower · 29/01/2026 16:09

Yeah. So a quick Google suggests I’m talking out of my arse (not unusual)

this seems to be a comprehensive summary:

uk.adp.com/resources/adp-articles-and-insights/articles/a/are-notice-periods-enforceable-in-the-uk.aspx#:~:text=When%20employees%20resign%2C%20they're,employee%20works%20their%20notice%20period.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 29/01/2026 16:07

Just tell them you are not agreeing to the change in terms and conditions ... dont sign it

PaterPower · 29/01/2026 16:05

IANAL and unsure whether I ‘know’ this or it’s just wishful thinking…

But I believe that excessively long notice periods are unenforceable, on the basis that they throttle your ability to change jobs and therefore a restraint on trade.

It’s always worth paying out for an hour’s worth of an employment lawyer’s time to review new contracts. The £250 or so would give you some certainty.