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To think six month notice period is wild?

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 15:59

Looking to sense check something please. I’m a junior director in a property management company. That isn’t quite the title but trying to retain enough anonymity. There are directors and managing directors above me. My job is essentially team leader but has started to expand into a more KPI driven role. The company was bought over and regrettably I have almost no access to a support structure but carry a great deal of risk and responsibility. I worked my way up from an entry ish level position but once promoted 18 months ago I was given next to no support to step up to the role and quickly expected to just know and handle things. It’s become uncomfortable and unsustainable. The business doesn’t seem to want to acknowledge that this is happening. I’ve just been issued with a new contract changing my notice period from two months to six months and a blasé “let us know if you have any questions” but not alluding to the specific changes much, other than that there may be some for alignment purposes. I’ll get an enhanced remuneration package in exchange. It really feels like I’m being trapped into staying put rather than them just making sure good people are adequately supported (I know many feel like that at work now) and want to work there. To me, only experts in their field need to give six months notice - I’m literally a team leader with some focus on growth and income. The job has been affecting my well-being and the six month thing was jarring. I feel it makes me unemployable as businesses can’t often wait that long - not for just a team leader. I know there are much worse problems to have, but please can you tell me what you think of a six month notice period in this context? Is it reasonable? More common than I realise? The new standard? Bonkers?

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CoffeeAndCakeBringMeJoy · 29/01/2026 17:57

Different sector, but this is the case for those working in teaching in England, as teachers in state schools are bound to the following:

Resign by 31st October to leave on 31st December
Resign by 28th February to leave on 30th April (or end of the spring term if moving to another teaching role)
Resign by 31st May to leave on 31st August

This means that if a teacher hands in their notice on 1st June, they are contractually obliged to remain at the school until 31st December. They may be able to negotiate early release from their contract, but this isn’t guaranteed, especially in shortage subject areas. There are clear and understandable reasons for the regulations, but they were written at a time when it was very rare for teachers to leave teaching to pursue an alternative career, and cause real issues for those seeking employment in a different sector as very few companies or organisations are willing to wait for a teacher to work their notice period, particularly during the summer months.

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 17:49

Lakeyloo · 29/01/2026 17:01

I'm a recruiter specialising in fairly senior level professional services type roles and I can't help in regards to the legalities of the contract as I'm not HR or Legal, but I can say that 6 months notice is VERY unusual unless you are at Director / "C" level and even then it's uncommon (I work with big Tech/investment banking/Pharma etc).
It will definitely go against you when applying for jobs. The only time a client will wait is if the person has a very specific skill set or reputation, and usually in more of a headhunt situation.
Definitely unreasonable.

This is really helpful insight from a perspective I didn’t consider I could access. Thank you so much for taking the time to post.

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Serafee · 29/01/2026 17:15

StandFirm · 29/01/2026 17:03

As I feared: completely asymmetrical. I am not an employment lawyer but I'm willing to bet this is not legal. You are well within your rights to push back.

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This is all completely normal for a director level service agreement (although the pilon should align with the notice period)

Clychaugog · 29/01/2026 17:10

IME it's a thing in really senior roles (where a transition of leadership would be difficult) and business development ( where there's a possibility you'd run off with clients and contacts).

Sometimes employers are willing to negotiate at point of resignation. Especially if relations have broken down and the leaver being there for the notice period does more harm than good.

BoudiccaRuled · 29/01/2026 17:09

The second appearance of "wild" in the last ten minutes. Oh god. New buzzwords 😱
It isn't wild. It may be unnecessary, unacceptable, illegal or just inconvenient but what it certainly isn't, is wild.

FancyCatSlave · 29/01/2026 17:06

3-6 month notice periods are the norm in my sector (HE) but pretty much unheard of elsewhere unless very senior.

AgnesMcDoo · 29/01/2026 17:05

It’s quite normal in senior positions

StandFirm · 29/01/2026 17:03

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:31

Sorry, further update.

The contract doesn’t use the term redundancy, but makes mention of a list of reasons where they can terminate without notice and it goes beyond gross misconduct. For example it states that if they believe I have been negligent or incompetent in the performance of my duties; I’m not sure if this means they don’t even have to try to performance manage or support before termination.

Furthermore, there is a clause titled payment in lieu of notice that says they may terminate the appointment at any time and with immediate effect by notifying me that they are exercising their right under this clause and that they will make 28 days payment in lieu of notice to me. So that sounds like they only have to give me four weeks notice if I’m understanding correctly. I think I definitely need to seek some advice.

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As I feared: completely asymmetrical. I am not an employment lawyer but I'm willing to bet this is not legal. You are well within your rights to push back.

Lakeyloo · 29/01/2026 17:01

I'm a recruiter specialising in fairly senior level professional services type roles and I can't help in regards to the legalities of the contract as I'm not HR or Legal, but I can say that 6 months notice is VERY unusual unless you are at Director / "C" level and even then it's uncommon (I work with big Tech/investment banking/Pharma etc).
It will definitely go against you when applying for jobs. The only time a client will wait is if the person has a very specific skill set or reputation, and usually in more of a headhunt situation.
Definitely unreasonable.

Serafee · 29/01/2026 17:01

IAAL - It is becoming more and more common for more senior employees.

CheeseItOn · 29/01/2026 17:00

Have you been there long enough for redundancy? If so, and you're minded to shop around for a new job anyway, can you just decline to sign? Do you have to tell them you're working "under protest" while it's being sorted?

DeftGoldHedgehog · 29/01/2026 16:49

I think you'd be hard-pressed to get anyone to stick around for more than three months as a new employer wouldn't likely want to wait that long for the new person to start. Companies sometimes pay gardening leave when they don't want senior staff to take any key information with them or be able to approach competitors for a time in more competitive fields but it's really hard to hold people to long notice periods and you certainly can't make them actually work.

It sounds as though there are other concerns with the contract - compare it clause by clause with the Acas one.

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:49

Proccy · 29/01/2026 16:39

Don't worry about it, our company went through this. Managers were placed on contracts with minimum 3mths notice, but a couple of them later gave 1mths notice. HR told us we couldn't do anything about it as they'd been paid for what they'd worked, no more and no less. In other words our company wouldn't sue them or pursue them as there was literally nothing to gain.

That’s a useful insight, thank you. Certainly gives some helpful perspective.

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DamnUserName21 · 29/01/2026 16:44

Don't sign new contract unless you want the payrise, I guess!

I think previous contract should be protected under TUPE but I am not very knowledgeable on employment law....

Transfer of Undertakings (Protection of Employment) (TUPE) regulations protect employee rights when a business or service changes owners, ensuring terms, conditions, and continuity of service transfer to the new employer. It applies to business sales and service provision changes (e.g., outsourcing/contracting), automatically transferring staff to the new employer.

Vinvertebrate · 29/01/2026 16:43

I’ve got a 6 month notice period (senior leadership in a global company) and am a lawyer by trade. I think it’s pretty standard in senior roles - I would think it’s most likely enforceable, unless it’s disproportionate to the actual seniority of the role. I’d be realistic about what you’ll get from legal advice because it’s going to be caveated rather than black and white. My take when accepting 6 months was

  • I’ve rarely known corporates enforce them because of costs, reputation, uncertainty, etc
  • its nuts to keep unhappy checked out people around that long and a shorter period is usually offered if you want/need it
  • If you don’t, it’s a nice high base to start negotiating PILON on termination or garden leave

My biggest consideration would be whether it’s reasonable for the role or whether the employer is overreaching to make it harder for you to leave.

ColdAsAWitches · 29/01/2026 16:42

As others recommend, get legal advice. But you also need to realize that the clock has started ticking on this. If you refuse to sign they can let you go under your current notice. If you continue to work there, they could also deem that you have, by default, accepted the new conditions, even if you haven't signed. You need to decide how much of a deal breaker this is.

Swiftie1878 · 29/01/2026 16:42

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:31

Sorry, further update.

The contract doesn’t use the term redundancy, but makes mention of a list of reasons where they can terminate without notice and it goes beyond gross misconduct. For example it states that if they believe I have been negligent or incompetent in the performance of my duties; I’m not sure if this means they don’t even have to try to performance manage or support before termination.

Furthermore, there is a clause titled payment in lieu of notice that says they may terminate the appointment at any time and with immediate effect by notifying me that they are exercising their right under this clause and that they will make 28 days payment in lieu of notice to me. So that sounds like they only have to give me four weeks notice if I’m understanding correctly. I think I definitely need to seek some advice.

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Yeah, that doesn’t sound right!

80smonster · 29/01/2026 16:40

On the bright side, if you accept the new contract and were made redundant for some reason, 6 months notice would be included in your package. So it’s not all bad…

Proccy · 29/01/2026 16:39

Don't worry about it, our company went through this. Managers were placed on contracts with minimum 3mths notice, but a couple of them later gave 1mths notice. HR told us we couldn't do anything about it as they'd been paid for what they'd worked, no more and no less. In other words our company wouldn't sue them or pursue them as there was literally nothing to gain.

Hopeandwonder · 29/01/2026 16:37

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:31

Sorry, further update.

The contract doesn’t use the term redundancy, but makes mention of a list of reasons where they can terminate without notice and it goes beyond gross misconduct. For example it states that if they believe I have been negligent or incompetent in the performance of my duties; I’m not sure if this means they don’t even have to try to performance manage or support before termination.

Furthermore, there is a clause titled payment in lieu of notice that says they may terminate the appointment at any time and with immediate effect by notifying me that they are exercising their right under this clause and that they will make 28 days payment in lieu of notice to me. So that sounds like they only have to give me four weeks notice if I’m understanding correctly. I think I definitely need to seek some advice.

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I would NOT be signing this….

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:35

Maaate · 29/01/2026 16:29

Why not speak to ACAS before spending money on a solicitor?

www.acas.org.uk/contact

Thank you, I’ll have a look at this.

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RollOnSunshine · 29/01/2026 16:33

Hell no. I would not be signing that.

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:31

Sorry, further update.

The contract doesn’t use the term redundancy, but makes mention of a list of reasons where they can terminate without notice and it goes beyond gross misconduct. For example it states that if they believe I have been negligent or incompetent in the performance of my duties; I’m not sure if this means they don’t even have to try to performance manage or support before termination.

Furthermore, there is a clause titled payment in lieu of notice that says they may terminate the appointment at any time and with immediate effect by notifying me that they are exercising their right under this clause and that they will make 28 days payment in lieu of notice to me. So that sounds like they only have to give me four weeks notice if I’m understanding correctly. I think I definitely need to seek some advice.

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Maaate · 29/01/2026 16:29

Why not speak to ACAS before spending money on a solicitor?

www.acas.org.uk/contact

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:25

StandFirm · 29/01/2026 16:13

Three months is the standard for more senior positions (and already bad enough) but 6 months is just ridiculous as it will really trap you in the job. Is it mutual? ie do they have to give you 6 months notice in case of redundancy? Also check restrictive covenant clauses as it's likely they would have added more restrictions there too. It's cheeky of them and I don't think they're allowed to do this.

Going to check this. Thanks for highlighting.

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