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To think six month notice period is wild?

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 15:59

Looking to sense check something please. I’m a junior director in a property management company. That isn’t quite the title but trying to retain enough anonymity. There are directors and managing directors above me. My job is essentially team leader but has started to expand into a more KPI driven role. The company was bought over and regrettably I have almost no access to a support structure but carry a great deal of risk and responsibility. I worked my way up from an entry ish level position but once promoted 18 months ago I was given next to no support to step up to the role and quickly expected to just know and handle things. It’s become uncomfortable and unsustainable. The business doesn’t seem to want to acknowledge that this is happening. I’ve just been issued with a new contract changing my notice period from two months to six months and a blasé “let us know if you have any questions” but not alluding to the specific changes much, other than that there may be some for alignment purposes. I’ll get an enhanced remuneration package in exchange. It really feels like I’m being trapped into staying put rather than them just making sure good people are adequately supported (I know many feel like that at work now) and want to work there. To me, only experts in their field need to give six months notice - I’m literally a team leader with some focus on growth and income. The job has been affecting my well-being and the six month thing was jarring. I feel it makes me unemployable as businesses can’t often wait that long - not for just a team leader. I know there are much worse problems to have, but please can you tell me what you think of a six month notice period in this context? Is it reasonable? More common than I realise? The new standard? Bonkers?

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123becauseicouldntthinkofone · 03/02/2026 14:43

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 16:35

Thank you, I’ll have a look at this.

Definitely ACAS some of those terms seem really dodgy!

ThatRubyRaven · 01/02/2026 20:01

BerylG · 31/01/2026 22:06

Your contractual and statutory rights are different things and give different ( but overlapping) remedies. So the fact that the contract says they can terminate quickly does not mean that they can do so fairly, just that they will not breach your contractual rights. You could still claim unfair dismissal (or discrimination etc if that is a factor) as those are statutory rights. The tribunal would expect a fair performance management, disciplinary or redundancy process ( as appropriate) to avoid a finding of unfair dismissal. As compensation for unfair dismissal is primarily calculated based on loss of earnings you tend to find that if you have not been paid for a long notice period, the value of any claim may be higher. It’s capped atm, but won’t be from Jan 2027. That’s not to say that I wouldn’t challenge the imbalance in the notice, but just to reassure you that the contract is not the be all and end all for you.

This is incredibly helpful, thank you so much for giving your time. Having read over the contract in more detail I’ve also noted a non compete clause so between that and the notice period I couldn’t work in the industry for 9 months. Unfortunately I think I’ll end up resigning and taking a drop in salary to move elsewhere to a lower ranking position for the time being.

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BerylG · 31/01/2026 22:06

Your contractual and statutory rights are different things and give different ( but overlapping) remedies. So the fact that the contract says they can terminate quickly does not mean that they can do so fairly, just that they will not breach your contractual rights. You could still claim unfair dismissal (or discrimination etc if that is a factor) as those are statutory rights. The tribunal would expect a fair performance management, disciplinary or redundancy process ( as appropriate) to avoid a finding of unfair dismissal. As compensation for unfair dismissal is primarily calculated based on loss of earnings you tend to find that if you have not been paid for a long notice period, the value of any claim may be higher. It’s capped atm, but won’t be from Jan 2027. That’s not to say that I wouldn’t challenge the imbalance in the notice, but just to reassure you that the contract is not the be all and end all for you.

ThatRubyRaven · 31/01/2026 20:44

PinkTonic · 31/01/2026 19:24

The thing is they can write whatever they like but if it isn’t legal it’s unenforceable. They have to abide by the law. If they have performance concerns they still have to follow a reasonable process before termination, irrespective of what terms they’ve written in your contract, or be faced with the possibility of an unfair dismissal claim. You can’t sign away your employment rights. I think it’s difficult to justify a six month notice period at your level. As people become more senior, organisations who want to hire them are prepared to wait three or six months or even a year.

You’re absolutely right, and I think I’m far too close still to be thinking objectively. I need to get clearer on where employment rights sit, adjacent to whatever the contract says. Hopefully will have obtained some advice by next week. Thanks ever so much for the sense check!

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EasternStandard · 31/01/2026 19:30

I’ve known 6 months in senior positions but it has usually been taken with gardening leave. So it’s just a way to get people out of competition for a while.

PinkTonic · 31/01/2026 19:24

ThatRubyRaven · 31/01/2026 18:33

Thanks so much for this detail. The company I work for was acquired around two years ago. My contract was in original company name but the new one is the group company name and states it supersedes and extinguishes all other agreements. The way it reads, they don’t even have to performance manage or support if work quality were to deteriorate - they can just terminate. I have no concerns over my work quality but there’s been an enormous shift in culture and this kind of thinking, if I’m interpreting correctly, is symptomatic of the broader shift. So I really want to get it looked over for anything that didn’t jump out at me but ought to be on my radar. They have lost several staff to one competitor in particular so that stacks with what you’re saying about their reasoning. Thanks again for taking the time. It is truly appreciated.

The thing is they can write whatever they like but if it isn’t legal it’s unenforceable. They have to abide by the law. If they have performance concerns they still have to follow a reasonable process before termination, irrespective of what terms they’ve written in your contract, or be faced with the possibility of an unfair dismissal claim. You can’t sign away your employment rights. I think it’s difficult to justify a six month notice period at your level. As people become more senior, organisations who want to hire them are prepared to wait three or six months or even a year.

AlohaRose · 31/01/2026 19:04

Wonder if it is the same company? The one I am thinking of ultimately has a PE US owner.

ThatRubyRaven · 31/01/2026 18:33

BerylG · 31/01/2026 15:34

I am an employment lawyer. Six months is not that uncommon- especially in a business which may want to protect against competition- it is easier to enforce than a restrictive covenant after termination. But the notice should be reciprocal in that case- which your’s isn’t if they can terminate your employment with 28 days PILON or widely without notice. There may also be other “tricks” in there so a check by a lawyer would be a good idea. Two other points: if the takeover was through a share purchase it’s unlikely be TUPE so you wouldn’t have extra protections. But otherwise TUPE protects your T&Cs and can mean any additional obligations eg extra restrictions including notice, could be unenforceable. In any event even if you signed the contract whether the employer would seek to enforce six months would likely depend on where you were going. As I allude above, if it’s a competitor they may insist you work or put you on garden leave to give a period where they can secure relationships etc. but if you are not, then the only loss they may have is if they incur extra recruitment costs because they have to cover you at short notice. I’ve never known an employer actually sue for this - though I’ve seen them threaten it. But they may play silly buggers over your reference so I’d get that sorted before you advise them you’re leaving or not serving full notice!

Thanks so much for this detail. The company I work for was acquired around two years ago. My contract was in original company name but the new one is the group company name and states it supersedes and extinguishes all other agreements. The way it reads, they don’t even have to performance manage or support if work quality were to deteriorate - they can just terminate. I have no concerns over my work quality but there’s been an enormous shift in culture and this kind of thinking, if I’m interpreting correctly, is symptomatic of the broader shift. So I really want to get it looked over for anything that didn’t jump out at me but ought to be on my radar. They have lost several staff to one competitor in particular so that stacks with what you’re saying about their reasoning. Thanks again for taking the time. It is truly appreciated.

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BerylG · 31/01/2026 15:34

I am an employment lawyer. Six months is not that uncommon- especially in a business which may want to protect against competition- it is easier to enforce than a restrictive covenant after termination. But the notice should be reciprocal in that case- which your’s isn’t if they can terminate your employment with 28 days PILON or widely without notice. There may also be other “tricks” in there so a check by a lawyer would be a good idea. Two other points: if the takeover was through a share purchase it’s unlikely be TUPE so you wouldn’t have extra protections. But otherwise TUPE protects your T&Cs and can mean any additional obligations eg extra restrictions including notice, could be unenforceable. In any event even if you signed the contract whether the employer would seek to enforce six months would likely depend on where you were going. As I allude above, if it’s a competitor they may insist you work or put you on garden leave to give a period where they can secure relationships etc. but if you are not, then the only loss they may have is if they incur extra recruitment costs because they have to cover you at short notice. I’ve never known an employer actually sue for this - though I’ve seen them threaten it. But they may play silly buggers over your reference so I’d get that sorted before you advise them you’re leaving or not serving full notice!

ThatRubyRaven · 31/01/2026 14:55

AlohaRose · 31/01/2026 14:03

Can’t help with the legalities of this, but I do wonder if this property management company begins with the letter L, in which case you have my sympathies! I’m on the other side of the fence so so speak but since their new ownership everything there seems to have gone to hell in a hand basket.

Very interesting. There are several property related companies sitting within a wider group and there’s an L in there - all same owner.

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AlohaRose · 31/01/2026 14:03

Can’t help with the legalities of this, but I do wonder if this property management company begins with the letter L, in which case you have my sympathies! I’m on the other side of the fence so so speak but since their new ownership everything there seems to have gone to hell in a hand basket.

SerendipityJane · 31/01/2026 11:36

It's a two way street - you get six months notice. Which if you are put on gardening leave can be nice.

Also, if you really warrant such a notice period then you should be dealing with companies that can recruit with 6 months lag time (i.e. they will wait for quality).

All of which being said, the last 20 years have seen all companies try to treat all employees with asymmetric benefits.

NotAnotherScarf · 31/01/2026 11:30

Maaate · 29/01/2026 16:09

Li don't think an employer can unilaterally change your contract of employment without your agreement

They can it's happened to me on three occasions, once with a crappy Wearhouse job and twice with a large insurance company. It's an accept them or quit situation. Yes you could take them to court, but at what cost

floppybit · 31/01/2026 11:11

4 weeks is standard for entry-mid level positions and 3 months for senior positions - 6 months is taking the piss!

ThatRubyRaven · 31/01/2026 11:07

BoudiccaRuled · 29/01/2026 17:09

The second appearance of "wild" in the last ten minutes. Oh god. New buzzwords 😱
It isn't wild. It may be unnecessary, unacceptable, illegal or just inconvenient but what it certainly isn't, is wild.

You’ll be okay.

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 19:46

GreyfriarsJobbies · 29/01/2026 19:36

OP can you clarify whether you've actually signed this new contract?

Oh great point. No I haven’t signed. I received it this lunch time.

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Serafee · 29/01/2026 19:36

tryingtobesogood · 29/01/2026 18:17

You can access legal advice through your household insurance

Well only if you have legal expenses insurance and even then only for certain types of matter.

GreyfriarsJobbies · 29/01/2026 19:36

OP can you clarify whether you've actually signed this new contract?

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 19:23

brunettemic · 29/01/2026 18:15

I once got asked to change my notice from 1 to 3 months about 6 months after I got promoted. I was already in a place wheee they’d have to give me 3 months given how long I’d worked there, so the obvious question was “what’s in it for me”, they went away to look into it and never came back.

Excellent 😂👏🏽 Also thanks for sharing another perspective for me to draw from. I’m genuinely so grateful. It’s a company that two years ago I never dreamed of leaving, and under the previous owner would’ve happily signed up to a six month notice period. So I’m finding this a lot to navigate.

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 19:21

tryingtobesogood · 29/01/2026 18:17

You can access legal advice through your household insurance

Tysm, I’ll look into this. Had no idea. Feeling very much like not a real grown up right now 😅

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tryingtobesogood · 29/01/2026 18:17

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 18:08

I really appreciate you raising the point for me to go and check. Because I only found out today, I think I’m too close to it to zoom out and measure the situation fully right now.

You can access legal advice through your household insurance

Belladog1 · 29/01/2026 18:16

I have a 6 month notice period in my job. I'm just administrative, so nowt senior about my role. However it's a company of 2, so if I left it would cause problems

brunettemic · 29/01/2026 18:15

I once got asked to change my notice from 1 to 3 months about 6 months after I got promoted. I was already in a place wheee they’d have to give me 3 months given how long I’d worked there, so the obvious question was “what’s in it for me”, they went away to look into it and never came back.

ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 18:08

StandFirm · 29/01/2026 17:03

As I feared: completely asymmetrical. I am not an employment lawyer but I'm willing to bet this is not legal. You are well within your rights to push back.

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I really appreciate you raising the point for me to go and check. Because I only found out today, I think I’m too close to it to zoom out and measure the situation fully right now.

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ThatRubyRaven · 29/01/2026 18:03

CoffeeAndCakeBringMeJoy · 29/01/2026 17:57

Different sector, but this is the case for those working in teaching in England, as teachers in state schools are bound to the following:

Resign by 31st October to leave on 31st December
Resign by 28th February to leave on 30th April (or end of the spring term if moving to another teaching role)
Resign by 31st May to leave on 31st August

This means that if a teacher hands in their notice on 1st June, they are contractually obliged to remain at the school until 31st December. They may be able to negotiate early release from their contract, but this isn’t guaranteed, especially in shortage subject areas. There are clear and understandable reasons for the regulations, but they were written at a time when it was very rare for teachers to leave teaching to pursue an alternative career, and cause real issues for those seeking employment in a different sector as very few companies or organisations are willing to wait for a teacher to work their notice period, particularly during the summer months.

This is incredibly interesting. Thank you! Measured reasons, reasonable timeframes and understandable caveats! All of the feedback is really helping me form the basis of possible discussion with my employer.

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