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Are you a pack rat and proud?

165 replies

packratandproud · 29/01/2026 10:30

I've just opened my backpack at work to get my notebook out and my colleague has just said " oh have you been staying away from home?"
It was just the usual stuff I carry around every day! I have really tried to be a small crossbody bag person but I just feel miserable never having what I want. I spend long days in cities- often leaving home at 6am and not getting home until 10pm and nothing gives me more joy than being in a coffee shop between events, and having my book, my notebook, my wrap if im a bit cold, my toothbrush, my makeup etc etc
Are you an 'everything but the kitchen sink' carrier? If yes do you love it?
I like it, but my bag is very heavy 😀

OP posts:
Nabannas · 29/01/2026 11:00

I’d love to be like you op. Whenever I carry a bag it ends up full of literal rubbish - receipts, half drunk water bottles, and spilled foundation. I can’t find anything useful, or my keys. My notebook ends up dog eared. I stress about security guards demanding to search my bag because I would have to die of shame.

These days I wear jeans so I always have good pockets for my phone, cards and keys.

packratandproud · 29/01/2026 10:59

I want to be a small crossbody type bit I just love having everything I might want. Book and magazine, gloves, glasses, drink etc etc etc
Yes I'm out a lot. I'm a city hobo really. I love my house but am out of it a lot!

OP posts:
gamerchick · 29/01/2026 10:57

Absolutely no need to hide my post,.I wasn't attacking anyone.

gamerchick · 29/01/2026 10:55

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Sausagenbacon · 29/01/2026 10:52

what's your AIBU?

NoMoreSpaniels · 29/01/2026 10:51

landlordhell · 29/01/2026 10:42

Maybe try a little humour in your life?

Eh? What's funny? Why does my reply make you think my life has no humour? Confused
@BauhausOfEliott What's cheery or uncheery about my post?
No idea why it's been quoted by two people giving me instructions. I've never heard a phrase before, and just asked if OP only gets 8hrs a day at home.

BauhausOfEliott · 29/01/2026 10:51

NoMoreSpaniels · 29/01/2026 10:41

I only clicked on the thread because I don't know what a pack rat is, or why it's something to be proud about. Still don't know, but no, I don't use a bag anymore.

Do you only get 8 hours at home every day?

Cheer up, eh?

gamerchick · 29/01/2026 10:48

Yep backpack here as well. Like a tadis with surprise rooms Grin

I also use a big bum bag as well. Couldn't be arsed with handbags.

landlordhell · 29/01/2026 10:42

NoMoreSpaniels · 29/01/2026 10:41

I only clicked on the thread because I don't know what a pack rat is, or why it's something to be proud about. Still don't know, but no, I don't use a bag anymore.

Do you only get 8 hours at home every day?

Maybe try a little humour in your life?

NoMoreSpaniels · 29/01/2026 10:41

I only clicked on the thread because I don't know what a pack rat is, or why it's something to be proud about. Still don't know, but no, I don't use a bag anymore.

Do you only get 8 hours at home every day?

minipie · 29/01/2026 10:39

As little as possible here too, small crossbody bag.

Although if I have to take a rucksack anyway for some reason then I do end up bringing way more stuff.

Basically I’ll take whatever the bag will hold.

steppemum · 29/01/2026 10:39

I always have a bag.
I do vary between small bag for convenience and backpack, but the difference is usually length of time I'm out and if I have to take computer.

I wear reading glasses. Most of my clothes don't have suitable pockets for glasses and phone. I don't use my phone to pay for stuff, so I also need a purse, and of course keys.

My dh carries all that in his pockets and I hate the way it makes his clothes misshapen!.
I can just do it in my big winter coat which has big pockets. But I prefer a small bag.
Then I can throw in paracetamol, a couple pf plasters, hairbrush, and pocket pack of tissues. That's my bare minimum!

landlordhell · 29/01/2026 10:37

I think it makes sense op to carry a rucksac or back pack or whatever they’re called. I was thinking the other day as I got my handbag, lunch bag and laptop bag out of my boot, why don’t I just use a back pack and fit it all in one??? Im in my 50s and I think it’s just ingrained from the 90s work era. Those who have no bag obviously buy lunches and don’t need to transport a laptop ? I love to have my hairbrush ,small amount of makeup, perfume, pen, pad and not to mention glasses, sunglasses, hair ties etc. ----

ProfessorRedshoeblueshoe · 29/01/2026 10:35

I'm a no bag person too.
Pockets and plenty of them

elizabethdraper · 29/01/2026 10:33

I am a no bag person if possible.

Today will have a small cross body bag that fits my phone, travel pass, and keys
Cant bear lugging around bags