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AIBU to refuse to pay cash in hand?

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Dontasksillyquestions · 28/01/2026 20:29

This recently came up in conversation with a friend and she disagreed with me.

I generally avoid hiring anyone who asks to be paid cash in hand. I don’t see how cash is more convenient these days unless it’s to avoid tax, benefits rules, etc., and I don’t want to be involved. I also rarely carry cash and getting to a cash machine is inconvenient.

Last year I stopped using a regular gardener when he suddenly asked for cash only, despite there being no payment issues (I always transferred the money on the day he’d done the work). My friend thinks I’m being ridiculous and that it’s none of my concern how people run their business. AIBU?

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SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:46

justasking111 · 28/01/2026 21:43

Hairdresser, cleaner, window cleaner I pay cash on the day. My cleaners had a lot of trouble chasing clients who do BACS transfer. She sacks them off now. My neighbour is a tutor he's had issues getting paid, so he gets cash.

We have a retired decorator who does the odd job when the spirit moves him. His work is excellent we've paid him cash.

The local Chinese is cash only.

Since the government change there's a lot more cash being used again apparently. It's a way of budgeting

How would a change in government be responsible for people budgeting? It’s not like there wasn’t a cost of living crisis under the last government.

TheDenimPoet · 28/01/2026 21:44

It's up to you how you'd like to pay. You need to find someone who accepts your preferred payment method. However you pay, you need to do so in good faith, assuming that all cash will be declared. I declare ALL cash that my business earns.

Newusername0 · 28/01/2026 21:43

Motheranddaughter · 28/01/2026 20:59

Bank charges, credit control, cash flow
To Name 3

How are credit control and cash flow improved through cash receipts?

justasking111 · 28/01/2026 21:43

Hairdresser, cleaner, window cleaner I pay cash on the day. My cleaners had a lot of trouble chasing clients who do BACS transfer. She sacks them off now. My neighbour is a tutor he's had issues getting paid, so he gets cash.

We have a retired decorator who does the odd job when the spirit moves him. His work is excellent we've paid him cash.

The local Chinese is cash only.

Since the government change there's a lot more cash being used again apparently. It's a way of budgeting

YourKhakiViper · 28/01/2026 21:43

I don’t usually carry a large amount of cash either but lots of small businesses prefer it. There is a cafe on the beach near me which doesn’t accept card payments so I always make sure I have a few pounds in my pocket when walking the dog there. I’ve seen one of the beauty salons in my town turn people away or charge them a higher price to pay by card, I assume to cover their costs and my corner shop also has a £5.00 minimum payment for card so I use cash there to save myself spending needlessly. To be fair to them, I think there’s a bit of a use it or lose it attitude to cash at the moment.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 28/01/2026 21:42

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 20:48

For what other reason would a tradesman want to be paid in cash? Genuine question?

Exactly. A tradie I gave a lot of work to started asking me to pay in cash because he was near the threshold for VAT registration.

A lot of people think working cash in hand makes paying tax and NI optional. It's not.

MarshaMarshaMarsha · 28/01/2026 21:38

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/01/2026 20:48

Cash jobs don't always go through the books but I think it's fair as self employed people don't get paid for annual leave or for being sick. If they don't work they don't get paid. It can also be complicated for households with a self employed earner to claim Universal Credit as a top up as earnings vary so much.
Sometimes doing a few cash in hand jobs are a little fuck you to the government.

And a “fuck you” to everyone legitimately paying their taxes too! 🙄

socialdilemmawhattodo · 28/01/2026 21:35

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/01/2026 20:48

Cash jobs don't always go through the books but I think it's fair as self employed people don't get paid for annual leave or for being sick. If they don't work they don't get paid. It can also be complicated for households with a self employed earner to claim Universal Credit as a top up as earnings vary so much.
Sometimes doing a few cash in hand jobs are a little fuck you to the government.

A fuck you to the govt? NO, it's a fuck you to tax payers. And that's why I object to cash in hand. Inevitably no tax, VAT, NI or insurance is paid. Which impacts CMS and benefits. And often a shit job without accountability.

SleepingisanArt · 28/01/2026 21:35

Cash is not cheaper if you pay it into a business account in many of the banks. We found that bank transfers in had no charges, card payments incurred a charge (around 1.5%) but cash was horrendously expensive - the banks don't want it so make it expensive to use.

Cyclingmummy1 · 28/01/2026 21:35

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/01/2026 20:48

Cash jobs don't always go through the books but I think it's fair as self employed people don't get paid for annual leave or for being sick. If they don't work they don't get paid. It can also be complicated for households with a self employed earner to claim Universal Credit as a top up as earnings vary so much.
Sometimes doing a few cash in hand jobs are a little fuck you to the government.

And to the rest of us.

Deralip · 28/01/2026 21:34

Our handyman used to accept payment in cash only. He said he'd had too many customers whose cheques bounced, or who forgot to do a bank transfer, so he made it a rule only to accept cash.

He was a very upstanding kind of person, and I'd be amazed if he was doing anything dodgy with tax evasion etc.

Having said that, we eventually stopped using him, and the cash payments were one of the reasons for that. It was just a massive pain to get all the cash out. I did suggest bank transfers on the spot, so that he could see the money going in on his banking app, but he was an older gentleman and I don't think he necessarily had a banking app on his phone.

Anyway. People are not unreasonable to ask for cash payments only. But you are also not unreasonable to say no and employ someone else.

Greedybilly · 28/01/2026 21:34

If you want to look at/judge real tax avoidance look at Amazon, Boots and most millionaires!

fizzyroselemonade · 28/01/2026 21:31

Notasbigasithink · 28/01/2026 21:07

A lot of SE/small businesses prefer cash as it means they get to keep 100% of the profits. Using card machines or doing bank transfers means that they have to pay charges on any transaction made thus reducing their margins.
Asking for cash payment also ensures you are paid at the time of service and not when the client remembers to pay you. Most SE people cannot afford to bank roll all their late payers! Just because you always pay on time, its their business, their terms. It also avoids unnecessary admin by constantly having to check to see if people have paid. This eats into a massive amount of time and someone will need to be paid for that time spent too.
Just because someone is asking for cash, doesn't mean they are automatically fiddling the books; its just their preferred method of payment. If you're worried about a transaction history, then just ask for a receipt!

Exactly this ☝️

SarahAndQuack · 28/01/2026 21:30

SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:19

Must be a PTA because you have to physically bank it and account for it.

It's the accounting, not the banking - for me it's amounts of £75 or £100 and I just spend it. But I like being able to match up my invoices to my bank statement and not stress about it. Also, weirdly, some people do not like it if they pay you cash and you send them an invoice with 'paid' on it - I think they like to imagine paying cash is some kind of friendly conspiracy they've got going on with you.

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 21:25

Motomum23 · 28/01/2026 21:24

I'm a childminder and I ask for payment in cash, too many people over the years have said I've sent the bank transfer or I'll do it later, it all goes through the books correctly. It's hard for a self employed person to chase a payment if its not forthcoming.

Could you not ask for payment in advance or monthly standing order?

JLou08 · 28/01/2026 21:25

It could be tax dodging. Or it could be due to fear of losing cash because it isn't used enough. There are some theories, which some would call conspiracies, that once cash has gone we can be completely under the control of the state. There are also people who want to hold on to cash for the nostalgia of it, remembering how nice it was to get a £10 note in a birthday card, save change in a piggy bank etc. Cash can be a great way to teach maths skills. Some people budget better with cash.
I'm not a tax dodger, even if I wanted to I couldn't as I'm employed by the local authority so it all goes through payroll. I do try and use cash sometimes though as I don't want us to lose it.

Motomum23 · 28/01/2026 21:24

I'm a childminder and I ask for payment in cash, too many people over the years have said I've sent the bank transfer or I'll do it later, it all goes through the books correctly. It's hard for a self employed person to chase a payment if its not forthcoming.

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 21:23

FuzzyWolf · 28/01/2026 21:19

It’s likely they just want to save money and that’s why they are cheaper in the first place.

A small business using a card machine will typically have to pay 2% in fees (sometimes more) which means £20 for every £1000. Lots of banks don’t charge to deposit £1000 and if they do it’s likely to be a nominal fixed sum that doesn’t exceed £10. Therefore, a job charged at £5000 costs the trader (and effectively you, because it’s passed on) £100 in charges. Pay in cash and it costs between £0 and £10. It’s not tax fraud, just sensible finances. The fact so many people are ignorant to this is astonishing.

Why is it astonishing? Are you one of those people who expects everyone to know the same stuff you know?

SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:22

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 28/01/2026 21:17

Benefits me if we go with the cash quote…

Sure. As long as you know you’re not actively colluding with tax evasion, which isn’t legal for either of you.

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 21:21

caringcarer · 28/01/2026 21:15

I don't mind paying small amounts in cash because if you pay by card the trader loses up to 2.5 percent. I pay cash for a coffee and a bacon roll from a van, eggs at the market, and the ice cream man too.

Of course shops should continue to be able to accept cash and people to pay in cash. I think the bank charges for small businesses to use card machines is immoral. My issue is with bigger payments to tradespeople.

FuzzyWolf · 28/01/2026 21:19

user1471453601 · 28/01/2026 21:12

I never pay cash in hand. I've had quotes for work done on my home where they've given me two prices. One for cash and one not.

I'm not a fool, I know cash in hand means they are avoiding tax, or similar.

I don't approve of tax avoidance, let alone tax fraud.

If I want to live in a civilised society ( and I do) where we have NHS, free education ( albeit only up to age 18 these days) a functioning police force ect. Then we have to pay for it. The way we pay is through taxation.

And of course, there is always the reprobate who wants cash in hand so he doesn't have to declare it to CMS. So another child goes without thanks to the colusion of the people who paid the father cash in hand.

Some may think I'm a gullible fool. I don't care what they think of me. I care what I think of me. And cheating is in effect a lie.

I don't approve, or want to be associated with liars.

It’s likely they just want to save money and that’s why they are cheaper in the first place.

A small business using a card machine will typically have to pay 2% in fees (sometimes more) which means £20 for every £1000. Lots of banks don’t charge to deposit £1000 and if they do it’s likely to be a nominal fixed sum that doesn’t exceed £10. Therefore, a job charged at £5000 costs the trader (and effectively you, because it’s passed on) £100 in charges. Pay in cash and it costs between £0 and £10. It’s not tax fraud, just sensible finances. The fact so many people are ignorant to this is astonishing.

SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:19

SarahAndQuack · 28/01/2026 21:16

I can sort of see why someone might ask for cash for a one-off job (ie., they do not trust you). But if someone's a regular, then I think it's fair to say no, you'd rather not.

FWIW I'm a gardener; I find it mildly irritating when people pay me cash in hand. A lot of people seem to think it's preferable, but it's not.

Must be a PTA because you have to physically bank it and account for it.

SouthernNights59 · 28/01/2026 21:17

WhitsunWedding · 28/01/2026 21:01

I’m happy to pay cash to any tradesman that asks for it. We just had an opening widened and I gave the builder £1900 in cash.

Wow!! I don't live in the UK but I can't imagine any builder here wanting to be paid that much in cash, nor have I encountered anyone who asked to be paid in cash in many decades. Builders here generally send an invoice at the end of the month, as do most other trades. Even my late DM's lawnmowing man sent a monthly bill, and that was for a tiny amount.

BillieWiper · 28/01/2026 21:17

As long as he gave me a receipt I probably would just pay cash for light gardening. But as others say, it could be to dodge cms or tax so don't feel bad for saying it's bank transfer or we part ways.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 28/01/2026 21:17

SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:12

Well no, because taking cash and not declaring it as income is tax evasion and not tax avoidance.

Which only benefits the person not declaring taxable income.

Benefits me if we go with the cash quote…