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To be overly impressed with nice simple old fashioned cafes/restaurants

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soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 16:45

I popped out to go to a little cafe today which does some fancy flavoured latte I havent tried yet at a fiver a pop, all industrial and fashionable inside, selling overpriced soaps and 'statement pieces' but they were full up

So I went next door instead which was a little old fashioned Greek restaurant/cafe, with brick wall paper and ordered a latte

It was your bog standard 'milky coffee' and served with a Mcvities digestive

I dont even like digestives but I just loved the simplicity of it, the old fashioned coziness of it. The unashamed not keeping up with so called fashion and expectations

Dont know why

I ate the digestive and very much enjoyed it.

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Alouest · 28/01/2026 20:31

I really mourn all the Stockpot and similar restaurants that we used to have in London. Simple and cheap and filling.

ginasevern · 28/01/2026 20:20

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 20:13

Totally this. I dont think Ive seen a basic cheese and pickle roll in years. Particularly in cling film so that the crusty roll loses its crustiness and becomes soft and chewy by lunchtime.

Gorgeous.

Oh god yeah. A cheese and pickle roll in cling film from one of those old fashioned glass cabinet things they used to have on cafe counters. The stuff of dreams!

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 20:13

ginasevern · 28/01/2026 19:59

Oh I agree OP. All you want sometimes is a bowl of soup or a good old fashioned cheese sandwich. Not Iberico ham served with samphire, grilled peppers and mustard mayo on rock hard sourdough. It would also be nice to have a slice of homemade Victoria sponge instead of rich double chocolate and peanut butter cake with tripple salted caramel candy floss (or whatever)! The old Greek Cypriot or Italian cafes used to be the best for simple but good fare but they've mostly vanished now.

Totally this. I dont think Ive seen a basic cheese and pickle roll in years. Particularly in cling film so that the crusty roll loses its crustiness and becomes soft and chewy by lunchtime.

Gorgeous.

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ginasevern · 28/01/2026 19:59

Oh I agree OP. All you want sometimes is a bowl of soup or a good old fashioned cheese sandwich. Not Iberico ham served with samphire, grilled peppers and mustard mayo on rock hard sourdough. It would also be nice to have a slice of homemade Victoria sponge instead of rich double chocolate and peanut butter cake with tripple salted caramel candy floss (or whatever)! The old Greek Cypriot or Italian cafes used to be the best for simple but good fare but they've mostly vanished now.

billiongulls · 28/01/2026 19:44

I love an old fashioned simple cafe, but I would only drink tea there, not coffee, as i do like a really good coffee, and as a pp said, modern places do better coffee.

plominoagain · 28/01/2026 19:23

I mourn a cafe in Islington called ‘Alpino’s’ , in
Chapel Market, that was run for years by an Italian couple . Never less than heaving from the moment it opened , autographed photos of every famous person that visited , and the breakfasts were numbered - and fabulous. I often used to go there for lunch too as it was such great food and value for money . And proper Italian coffee . Then I think the landlord put the rent up
and they had to move and rename . A pity .

AlviarinAesSedai · 28/01/2026 19:15

I went somewhere can’t remember that did a cafetière! DH let me plunge it, it’s the little things.
We have a couple of nice cafes in my city centre. And in the nearest little town. But I’m in the north east.

justtheotheronemrswembley · 28/01/2026 18:50

This is my kind of thread.

Ponoka7 · 28/01/2026 18:45

We live in over 55 housing. It's a massive complex of apartments. The ones under the Extra care have a restaurant in, they do everything, everyone pines for on this thread. We are also lucky to live in a area with a proper tea room, modern eateries and a good Weatherspoons. One of the most successful food stalls in Liverpool, is Spud man. Pound Café and cafés in the likes of Home Bargains are still comfortably old fashioned.

Istherehopee · 28/01/2026 18:36

bumphousebump · 28/01/2026 16:54

Staying in London a couple of weeks ago, Premier Inn, near Fleet Street - we googled caffs and ended up in a Greek Cypriot cafe that did just the best cooked breakfast, proper mugs of tea and really nice toast. It was warm and cosy and full of people just enjoying their breakfast. We went 3 times....

I love an old fashioned caff.

Ooo can you remember what this was called? Would love to try it!

Endofyear · 28/01/2026 18:30

We had a lovely tea rooms near me, sadly the lady retired and it's a fancy deli place now 😢 they did toasties, jacket potatoes, homemade soup, fabulous homemade cakes and always a hot dinner like lamb chops with mash and veg and gravy, or a hearty stew and dumplings 😋 I really miss it!

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 28/01/2026 18:27

There are so many cafes in my area now, I don't know how they all keep going.

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 18:22

I miss a nice cafetiere and also a rombouts filter coffee

And I hate the noise of those stupid machines.

They take fucking ages as well

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justtheotheronemrswembley · 28/01/2026 18:19

EquinoxQueen · 28/01/2026 16:48

I love the old chintzy tea rooms. Table cloths, curtains with pelmets, simple sandwich filling (ham, cheese, egg mayo or pushing the boat out with coronation chicken!), good selection of teas, simple coffees and squashes. They are the absolute best but hard to find these days.

Oh me too. Teapots, cups & saucers, Victoria sponge cake. Heaven.

OttersMayHaveShifted · 28/01/2026 18:15

There are loads of traditional tea rooms and cafés where I live (just outside the Lake District) and modern independent ones too. I like both - it's nice to have a variety! I would never go to a chain like Starbucks /Costa etc unless they were the only option.

Neither have I had a good coffee in an old-school cafe.

My local independent traditional café is in a beautiful old listed building, in several slightly rickety-looking floors. They sell their own wide range of loose-leaf teas and freshly ground coffees in the shop part, and serve them all in the café. There's another similar one round the corner from where I work (different town).

LittleArithmetics · 28/01/2026 17:59

MindYourUsage · 28/01/2026 17:01

I usually pine for "old" stuff, simple life of old etc etc and all that

...but I'll take a modern fancy café over an old functional refreshment room any day. I think cafés have come on so much since the old scrapey chairs, chrome everything, microwaved bacon, sub-standard food and curled up sandwiches, one kind of pastry and coffee that takes no skill whatsoever to make chucked in a cold cup with cold milk.

I'm sure many people will be along to say "well that's not my experience of old fashioned cafés" to which I say "Well it's mine."

Have to agree with this. People go on about greasy spoons, but I've never had a good breakfast in one, I associate it with tinned tomatoes and rubbery eggs. Neither have I had a good coffee in an old-school cafe.

MrsMoastyToasty · 28/01/2026 17:49

It's so hard to find an independent cafe around here that is midway between "Wanky-Hipster Deconstructed Sourdough Locally Sourced Bollocks" and "Two Soups? a la the Julie Walters sketch".

columnatedruinsdomino · 28/01/2026 17:43

Big shout out for the Victorian Pantry Tearoom in Okehampton. Went in today for a full English breakfast which included toast and tea or coffee for £11.50. We had the option of hot or cold milk for the coffees so a big jug of hot milk accompanied the coffees and we could have strong or milky according to our own taste. Big plus for me. The toast was a wonky doorstep of homemade bread with about half a pound of butter on each plate. No annoying little packets. Would have loved to know what the ‘pensioners lunch’ was, maybe next time.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 28/01/2026 17:43

Theres a cafe we visit on holiday twice a year in the UK.
Fried breakfasts.
Egg/Beans on toast
Toasted teacake
Cheese/ham/egg mayo sandwiches plus tea,normal coffee and hot puddings.

smallglassbottle · 28/01/2026 17:40

We used to have a lovely Austrian cafe in our area. They would do crepes and little continental things and pastries and baroque music playing softly in the background. It was immaculatly clean and sort of a bit rustic and the owner was lovely. You felt as though you were on holiday as the village was quite pretty as well.

They closed down over covid 😭

The people who took over opened it as a sausage sandwich type place. Crumbs on the table, wiped off with a damp, greasy cloth, grating pop music, cheap food and cheap coffee. Disinterested staff. Never went back.

CMOTDibbler · 28/01/2026 17:39

I frequently go to a cafe of the 'things on toast' and jacket potato variety. They do proper soup made themselves in the winter.
We also have a deli where you can get your sandwich made exactly as you like (4 types of bread I think, or a jacket potato, or a salad box), a greasy spoon and a few other cafes, only one of which is a chain (and even then a small chain) and none of which are trendy in the least

pestowithwalnuts · 28/01/2026 17:30

I had. hospital appointment yesterday in a different town. My sister came with me and afterwards we called at a cafe for a ' snacket '
We both had a delicious cheese and mushroom omelette with salad and coleslaw and home made chips.
On a rainy cold day it was so welcome

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 17:16

5foot5 · 28/01/2026 17:05

I completely agree.

I just wish you could go somewhere and ask for a straightforward cup of coffee without having to know all the coffee lingo.

I still mourn a café we used to have in the market Square of our town. It looked like the menu hadn't changed much since the 1960s. You could get main meals of the pie, chips and veg variety. But you could also get really simple things like cheese on toast, beans on toast, egg and chips etc. And the choice of drinks was stuff like tea, coffee, Horlicks, orange squash and milk shakes. I would take DD in there when she was little, it was so much nicer than a MacDonalds.

Oh this yes. Things on toast, where have they gone?

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organisedadmin · 28/01/2026 17:09

I miss the old delis that would be behind the main roads in town. You could get amazing sandwiches just how you like.

ThirdStorm · 28/01/2026 17:08

Yes this. I found myself in a cafe last weekend and as a rare treat we decided on an impromptu coffee and ended up having breakfast. It was simply wonderful. We were charged £18 for 2 coffees and 2 fried breakfasts which were totally delicious. Staff were friendly. It was so nice.