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To be overly impressed with nice simple old fashioned cafes/restaurants

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soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 16:45

I popped out to go to a little cafe today which does some fancy flavoured latte I havent tried yet at a fiver a pop, all industrial and fashionable inside, selling overpriced soaps and 'statement pieces' but they were full up

So I went next door instead which was a little old fashioned Greek restaurant/cafe, with brick wall paper and ordered a latte

It was your bog standard 'milky coffee' and served with a Mcvities digestive

I dont even like digestives but I just loved the simplicity of it, the old fashioned coziness of it. The unashamed not keeping up with so called fashion and expectations

Dont know why

I ate the digestive and very much enjoyed it.

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soupyspoon · 29/01/2026 00:06

Liver sausage!!!

Oh my days.

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/01/2026 00:03

I love this picture and this seems like the thread for it. Dates from the early 1970s, I believe. London sandwich shop. Not quite a tearoom but a close cousin.

To be overly impressed with nice simple old fashioned cafes/restaurants
MrsMoastyToasty · 28/01/2026 23:35

In the Bristol area we used to have a small chain of bakeries called Mountstevens. The larger shops had cafés where you could get a pot of tea and things like poached eggs on toast and of course an "afters" of Chelsea bun or similar.

Gingerbiscuitlover · 28/01/2026 22:34

MrsMoastyToasty · 28/01/2026 17:49

It's so hard to find an independent cafe around here that is midway between "Wanky-Hipster Deconstructed Sourdough Locally Sourced Bollocks" and "Two Soups? a la the Julie Walters sketch".

That’s funny 😁 remember Mrs Overall 😃. I just don’t understand why all the fuss about sourdough - I think it’s awful, all hard and crunchy. Coconut macaroon anyone?

stickydough · 28/01/2026 22:31

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 16:57

Oh absolutely this, and where do you ever see a simple soup these days and god forbid they have more than one (boring) flavour, soup is so underrated, cheap, easy to produce, easy to keep hot, cheap for customers, cheap for the cafe/restaurant but no, they have to faff about doing things with big mixtures of stuff, a dollop of this, a smear of that, takes bloody ages to come.

If you are ever travelling north in Scotland, go to the Green Welly services. They have about 5 flavours of soup in an old skool cafe, the mushroom is amazing, and you can even buy a frozen tub to take home!

lazyarse123 · 28/01/2026 22:26

mdinbc · 28/01/2026 22:04

We have 3 decent privately owned cafe's here in our town of 12,000. We also have Starbucks and Tim Hortons (Canadian). The only one I'm not crazy about going to has the noisiest coffee maker, and in summer the blender is going constantly for cold coffee drinks. So noisy that you can't carry on a conversation.

The one where I meet my friends for a Saturday afternoon coffee makes the nicest latte at a reasonable price, and the atmosphere is nice (in an old bank) but their baked goods are not top quality.

What is a cheese and pickle roll? Is it actually a pickle rolled in cheese, or is there bread involved?

It's a cheese sandwich with pickle/chutney spread on the cheese.

Alouest · 28/01/2026 22:24

mdinbc · 28/01/2026 22:04

We have 3 decent privately owned cafe's here in our town of 12,000. We also have Starbucks and Tim Hortons (Canadian). The only one I'm not crazy about going to has the noisiest coffee maker, and in summer the blender is going constantly for cold coffee drinks. So noisy that you can't carry on a conversation.

The one where I meet my friends for a Saturday afternoon coffee makes the nicest latte at a reasonable price, and the atmosphere is nice (in an old bank) but their baked goods are not top quality.

What is a cheese and pickle roll? Is it actually a pickle rolled in cheese, or is there bread involved?

The pickle isn't a Canadian/American pickle. It's Branston's Pickle or similar. The dish is a bread roll with sliced cheese and Branston's in it.

StrawberrySquash · 28/01/2026 22:17

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 28/01/2026 16:50

You know what I long for? A good old spud cafe.

A potato with 5-6 filling options which you can double up for a quid, and a side salad. Beans, tuna mayo, cheese, chilli.

There's a cafe near me that faffs and struggles over a menu the staff can't handle, yet nary a jacket potato in sight.

I hear jacket potatoes are making a comeback, so you may soon be in luck.

ZenNudist · 28/01/2026 22:12

5foot5 · 28/01/2026 17:05

I completely agree.

I just wish you could go somewhere and ask for a straightforward cup of coffee without having to know all the coffee lingo.

I still mourn a café we used to have in the market Square of our town. It looked like the menu hadn't changed much since the 1960s. You could get main meals of the pie, chips and veg variety. But you could also get really simple things like cheese on toast, beans on toast, egg and chips etc. And the choice of drinks was stuff like tea, coffee, Horlicks, orange squash and milk shakes. I would take DD in there when she was little, it was so much nicer than a MacDonalds.

I miss one particular cafe of my youth. They did burgers with a basic white bun and a fairly small frozen patty, not the massive burgers of now, you could get a jacket with cheese or a variety of toasties, or a teacake, bacon or sausage sarnie, milkshakes which were just chocolate milk or strawberry milk, not thick like macdonalds.

They were across from the shop I worked in as a teen and I used to go in via the back door which adjoined our shop. I barely went in the front but it was definitely the kind of cafe we are talking about here. Prices were not extortionate. Happy days.

mdinbc · 28/01/2026 22:04

We have 3 decent privately owned cafe's here in our town of 12,000. We also have Starbucks and Tim Hortons (Canadian). The only one I'm not crazy about going to has the noisiest coffee maker, and in summer the blender is going constantly for cold coffee drinks. So noisy that you can't carry on a conversation.

The one where I meet my friends for a Saturday afternoon coffee makes the nicest latte at a reasonable price, and the atmosphere is nice (in an old bank) but their baked goods are not top quality.

What is a cheese and pickle roll? Is it actually a pickle rolled in cheese, or is there bread involved?

ChurchWindows · 28/01/2026 22:04

Whenever I go somewhere new I look for their market because there's usually a proper cafe there. Check table cloth, fried breakfast, a pot of tea and a nice lady in a pinny.

Matronic6 · 28/01/2026 22:02

organisedadmin · 28/01/2026 16:51

So many places are style over substance.

I have found this so much in recent years
We went to Gloria recently and it was packed and very lively but the food was a bit 'meh.' it was more about being Instagram able than good food and I felt incredibly underdressed as everyone else went for it. But a week later we were out for a walk and popped into a tiny little family run Italian cafe that looked like it hadn't been updated since the 90s and had a far more tasty pasta for less than half the price.

EatSleepDreamRepeat · 28/01/2026 21:59

I'm lucky to live somewhere we have a lot of cafes like this and butty shops. We have a nearby pub (independent) that does proper food too. Homemade. Fish pies, plate meat and potato pie, homemade chips, hot beef, onion and mustard sandwiches. Sunday Roasts. Does things like Halloumi Salad too. We go to this pub for all our family birthdays and events, it's brilliant.

There's a couple of independent cafes in nearby Market towns and villages that do homemade soup and sandwiches. Ploughman's lunch, etc. They all do proper coffee and loose leaf teas. Not greasy spoon at all, but will do a bacon butty etc too

SleafordSods · 28/01/2026 21:53

bumphousebump · 28/01/2026 16:54

Staying in London a couple of weeks ago, Premier Inn, near Fleet Street - we googled caffs and ended up in a Greek Cypriot cafe that did just the best cooked breakfast, proper mugs of tea and really nice toast. It was warm and cosy and full of people just enjoying their breakfast. We went 3 times....

I love an old fashioned caff.

I took DH to a similar sounding one recently, although not in London.

I kept expecting Count Arthur Strong to blinded his way in through the door Smile

DinosaurusFemina · 28/01/2026 21:48

Check out caffsnotcafes on instagram - the guy has posted details of loads of great caffs.

In more recent times he’s widened his scope to cover different cuisines (Czech, Indian, Ethiopian) but scroll through & you’ll find a real treasure trove of caffs.

I miss a caff that does proper fried bread! 😩

geoger · 28/01/2026 21:26

bumphousebump · 28/01/2026 16:54

Staying in London a couple of weeks ago, Premier Inn, near Fleet Street - we googled caffs and ended up in a Greek Cypriot cafe that did just the best cooked breakfast, proper mugs of tea and really nice toast. It was warm and cosy and full of people just enjoying their breakfast. We went 3 times....

I love an old fashioned caff.

Sounds fab. Do you remember the name and location?

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 21:26

CMOTDibbler · 28/01/2026 21:07

@soupyspoon I think yes to cheese and tomato, but I don't remember seeing piccalilli. However, in the interests of this thread I will report back - I don't buy sandwiches as I'm gf so only paid attention in a fascinated look at the retro corned beef. I regret no blue gingham overalls in any of our establishments, only the ladies in the greengrocer wear them.
House prices very reasonable, but it is a proper little town with a hardware store who sell everything you can possibly think of, bakers (who also sell filled rolls DH reminds me as well as proper cakes like lardy cake), fishmongers and a ladies shop who do sell the polyester overalls and proper nighties should you need one.

LARDY CAKE!!!!!!!!

Are you in the West country? I had proper lardy cake for the first time down there somewhere, high in lard. It was incredible.

Proper bakers as well, overalls were present. Not a chain

I know you can get them in that west country chain (cant remember the name of it) but they're not lardy enough there.

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HeyThereDelila · 28/01/2026 21:20

Thank you OP for this most lovely of threads ❤️

I miss proper caffs, tea rooms with real cakes and proper pots of tea, and simple bistros.

The Regency cafe near Victoria is good, though too well known really, and I’ve read good things about Arthur’s in Hackney but don’t know if it’s still going. It’s now such a nice surprise to find a proper cafe or tea room. I can’t abide the “cakes” at Costa Fortune or Starbucks.

The best caff type meal I’ve had in years was recently; heavily pregnant and in for a check up, DH bought me beef stew and chips from the hospital cafe. It was amazing. I’d have married him all over again. Plans to revisit the hospital cafe sooner rather than later…

CMOTDibbler · 28/01/2026 21:07

@soupyspoon I think yes to cheese and tomato, but I don't remember seeing piccalilli. However, in the interests of this thread I will report back - I don't buy sandwiches as I'm gf so only paid attention in a fascinated look at the retro corned beef. I regret no blue gingham overalls in any of our establishments, only the ladies in the greengrocer wear them.
House prices very reasonable, but it is a proper little town with a hardware store who sell everything you can possibly think of, bakers (who also sell filled rolls DH reminds me as well as proper cakes like lardy cake), fishmongers and a ladies shop who do sell the polyester overalls and proper nighties should you need one.

WhisperingAngelisnotbad · 28/01/2026 21:02

ginasevern · 28/01/2026 19:59

Oh I agree OP. All you want sometimes is a bowl of soup or a good old fashioned cheese sandwich. Not Iberico ham served with samphire, grilled peppers and mustard mayo on rock hard sourdough. It would also be nice to have a slice of homemade Victoria sponge instead of rich double chocolate and peanut butter cake with tripple salted caramel candy floss (or whatever)! The old Greek Cypriot or Italian cafes used to be the best for simple but good fare but they've mostly vanished now.

There are plenty of cafes like that on the South Coast. There are also the "Lounges" which have popped up in repurposed bank buildings etc, where you can get a mug of soup and half a sandwich pretty cheaply on a weekday lunchtime, also selling all day breakfasts and various specials.

ginasevern · 28/01/2026 20:58

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 20:38

Oooooh.

I might dream of these tonight.

Hopefully served by a matronly woman in a pale blue gingham overall.

Could it get any better!

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 20:58

CMOTDibbler · 28/01/2026 20:54

I will take a picture tomorrow of the cheese and pickle rolls wrapped up in one of our cafes tomorrow. I think they do ham and pickle, corned beef, and peering at their fb, I think ham and beetroot which is a brave option

Oh god. I bet house prices are high near you, the desirability factor of a proper cafe. Forget catchment areas, pah!

Do they do a cheese and tomato?

What about ham and piccalilli?

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CMOTDibbler · 28/01/2026 20:54

I will take a picture tomorrow of the cheese and pickle rolls wrapped up in one of our cafes tomorrow. I think they do ham and pickle, corned beef, and peering at their fb, I think ham and beetroot which is a brave option

soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 20:38

ginasevern · 28/01/2026 20:20

Oh god yeah. A cheese and pickle roll in cling film from one of those old fashioned glass cabinet things they used to have on cafe counters. The stuff of dreams!

Oooooh.

I might dream of these tonight.

Hopefully served by a matronly woman in a pale blue gingham overall.

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SouthernNights59 · 28/01/2026 20:32

I would just like to find cafes which offered normal size portions of food! I don't want massive cakes, scones, muffins etc., and if I want a sandwich I just want one with plain fillings, not a pack of two stuffed to the gills.

I do like a good coffee though, but I don't live in the UK and you can get good coffee everywhere here.