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To be overly impressed with nice simple old fashioned cafes/restaurants

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soupyspoon · 28/01/2026 16:45

I popped out to go to a little cafe today which does some fancy flavoured latte I havent tried yet at a fiver a pop, all industrial and fashionable inside, selling overpriced soaps and 'statement pieces' but they were full up

So I went next door instead which was a little old fashioned Greek restaurant/cafe, with brick wall paper and ordered a latte

It was your bog standard 'milky coffee' and served with a Mcvities digestive

I dont even like digestives but I just loved the simplicity of it, the old fashioned coziness of it. The unashamed not keeping up with so called fashion and expectations

Dont know why

I ate the digestive and very much enjoyed it.

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moggerhanger · 29/08/2026 22:58

EquinoxQueen · 28/01/2026 16:48

I love the old chintzy tea rooms. Table cloths, curtains with pelmets, simple sandwich filling (ham, cheese, egg mayo or pushing the boat out with coronation chicken!), good selection of teas, simple coffees and squashes. They are the absolute best but hard to find these days.

There's a fab one in Ludlow.

HarvestMouseandGoldenCups · 29/08/2026 22:54

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 28/01/2026 16:50

You know what I long for? A good old spud cafe.

A potato with 5-6 filling options which you can double up for a quid, and a side salad. Beans, tuna mayo, cheese, chilli.

There's a cafe near me that faffs and struggles over a menu the staff can't handle, yet nary a jacket potato in sight.

There’s one near me that does spuds, pies and a full English as well as deli sandwiches. They’re always full!

mamaduckbone · 29/08/2026 20:38

I went to the cafe on the market with my mum today - big mug of tea and a bacon sandwich on thin plastic white bread. Bloody lovely!

Crikeyalmighty · 29/08/2026 20:37

plominoagain · 28/01/2026 19:23

I mourn a cafe in Islington called ‘Alpino’s’ , in
Chapel Market, that was run for years by an Italian couple . Never less than heaving from the moment it opened , autographed photos of every famous person that visited , and the breakfasts were numbered - and fabulous. I often used to go there for lunch too as it was such great food and value for money . And proper Italian coffee . Then I think the landlord put the rent up
and they had to move and rename . A pity .

if it’s the one I remember they used to do those great schnitzel sandwiches

tommyhoundmum · 28/08/2026 19:25

My favourite is a down at heel Italian run cafe that serves the best coffee in South London in my opinion. And in a cup and saucer.

Crikeyalmighty · 29/01/2026 22:34

@LittleArithmetics yep , you are right - I think it has the vibe people were talking about , guess it’s that an Italian /greek cafe often has in my opinion an understanding of hospitality!! Actually we struggle in Bath in centre at all for an old school greasy spoon!!

LittleArithmetics · 29/01/2026 21:46

Crikeyalmighty · 29/01/2026 16:04

What you want is Terrys in Southwark or that one down near the river at Putney Tube, look like they haven’t changed in decades but there’s something about them!! - we’ve got one I like here in Bath called Rosarios - run by lovely chatty, camp Rosario - it’s not fancy but does lovely stuff , decent music, fantastic amount of gluten free , good wifi , always warm when needs to be.

Rosario's isn't exactly unfancy. It certainly does a range of fancy matcha lattes and the like. I guess the food is fairly traditional, but traditional Sicilian stuff which is much more appealing than a basic cheese sandwich or whatever. I think in my book there's a big difference between an old-school Italian/Greek/Turkish etc cafe, which are likely to be good, and an old-school British place, where I'll be expecting bad coffee and boring sandwiches.

soupyspoon · 29/01/2026 21:33

mdinbc · 29/01/2026 20:48

Thanks for the clarification on the cheese and pickle. To me it sounds like an odd mix, but hey ho, I can try new things. I've never seen such a sandwich on offer here, nor have I ever tried Branston pickle. The relish here is green, so not sure if it would go with cheese!

Where are you?

This is a cheese and pickle roll (although thats a fancy pants roll, I couldnt find an image of an old fashioned crusty bakers roll)

https://www.paulhollywood.com/winter-rolls-recipes/cheese-%26-pickle-sandwiches

Cheese & Pickle Sandwiches

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https://www.paulhollywood.com/winter-rolls-recipes/cheese-%26-pickle-sandwiches

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mdinbc · 29/01/2026 20:48

Thanks for the clarification on the cheese and pickle. To me it sounds like an odd mix, but hey ho, I can try new things. I've never seen such a sandwich on offer here, nor have I ever tried Branston pickle. The relish here is green, so not sure if it would go with cheese!

Thecatandme · 29/01/2026 20:31

If you are ever on the East Kent coast you may like to visit this place. Not my "ahem" cup of tea but very popular

https://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurant_Review-g186314-d12646396-Reviews-The_Home_Front_Tea_Room-Ramsgate_Isle_of_Thanet_Kent_England.html

ThatWasMyLastFatFreeFrush · 29/01/2026 20:23

If anyone is in Sheffield, I thoroughly recommend Sarnis on the High Street. Not quite greasy spoon, not a tea room, just a nice friendly cafe with sandwiches, jacket potatoes, breakfasts etc. It's lovely. (I do not work for them!Grin)

SouthernNights59 · 29/01/2026 20:08

ZookeeperSE · 29/01/2026 14:25

My friend runs her own business supplying afternoon tea/catering for all sorts of events - kids parties, funerals even weddings. She has based her model on ‘old fashioned’ afternoon teas. Everything made from scratch though but white bread sandwiches with fillings as you have stated: cheese, ham, egg mayo and sausage rolls, basic Victoria Sponge, rock cakes, scones, jam etc. She’s got a big tea urn and serves squash and has bought lovely old fashioned crockery to serve it all. Not a fancy item on the menu and in huge contrast to the other tea party businesses available locally. She is absolutely run off her feet. There’s definitely a market for it!

There are still women here who do catering to raise funds who provide food like this, and it's always lovely. If there was a cafe which provided the same sort of food I would patronize it more than those which serve massive cakes, muffins, scones and overfilled sandwiches.

Alouest · 29/01/2026 19:53

Do any Londoners remember Bonbonniere at the top of Carnaby Street? I miss that place so much!

HarvestMouseandGoldenCups · 29/01/2026 19:00

I think it’s just a nostalgia for when things were decent quality, salt of the earth and good value. Very little is good value nowadays and everything feels luxury. Back in the day a £1 coffee and a £2.50 sandwich felt easy to afford. Now even Pret is like £8 for a sarnie and £4 for a coffee.

LakieLady · 29/01/2026 18:46

We have a lovely old fashioned cafe where I live that sounds like your sort of place OP. It's cosy in the winter and in the summer you can sit outside in their sun trap of a walled garden.

There used to be another one on the high street that was very good, but it didn't have a garden. Sadly, it closed down after branches of Gail's and the Cornish Bakery opened and took all their trade.

columnatedruinsdomino · 29/01/2026 18:07

ChocolateCinderToffee · 29/01/2026 16:50

Fox Tor cafe in Princetown is another. Just the place to go when you've had a damp, foggy hike!

Ooh interesting! We are going to take a trip out to Lydford Gorge and Dartmeet next month (in memory of our courting days 🤣) and can stop halfway in Princetown.

Watchingthechaseagain · 29/01/2026 17:01

@plominoagainAlpino’s the original cappucino (frothy coffee). Great fry ups, their sausages were different, not greasy. Great place.

ZenZazie · 29/01/2026 16:52

Used to live above a lovely Italian restaurant that was open in the morning for coffees, mostly takeaway. Espresso, cappuccino and lattes, no syrups. Really good beans, very impressive Italian machine that looked amazing. A few baked things available, including the dessert they sold with meals. Some papers and magazines on a side table.

They weren’t ever busy, it was just that the staff were already there to prep for lunch/dinner service.

I would go in and usually get the place to myself with a seat in the window and the paper. Steady trickle of usually older workmen etc coming in to get takeaway because it was £1 cheaper than the fancy cafes on the rest of the street.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 29/01/2026 16:50

columnatedruinsdomino · 28/01/2026 17:43

Big shout out for the Victorian Pantry Tearoom in Okehampton. Went in today for a full English breakfast which included toast and tea or coffee for £11.50. We had the option of hot or cold milk for the coffees so a big jug of hot milk accompanied the coffees and we could have strong or milky according to our own taste. Big plus for me. The toast was a wonky doorstep of homemade bread with about half a pound of butter on each plate. No annoying little packets. Would have loved to know what the ‘pensioners lunch’ was, maybe next time.

Fox Tor cafe in Princetown is another. Just the place to go when you've had a damp, foggy hike!

Crikeyalmighty · 29/01/2026 16:45

mrpenny · 29/01/2026 02:14

Stockpot was the absolute best!!!!

Oh my god - spent many a night in there with H when I first moved to London - west end kitchen too -

Rituelec · 29/01/2026 16:44

Arlanymor · 28/01/2026 16:58

I always struggle a bit with cafés as some of them smell really strongly of coffee - not their fault of course, particularly if everyone is ordering coffee - but I cannot stand the smell of coffee, so nine times out of ten I have to sit outside with my cup of tea. I am always so happy when I find a place that, despite selling coffee, doesn't have that astringent smell hanging around in the air inside.

I hate the smell of strong coffee. We have so many 'artisan' style ones ugh and a very rare few tea rooms where you get tea in a teapot, home made cake and chips and beans

Crikeyalmighty · 29/01/2026 16:41

Idontjetwashthefucker · 29/01/2026 16:07

Agreed, went to a little Greek run place in Kingston upon Thames recently as the others were full. Best coffee I've had in ages, panini with loads of filling, and really good chips...skinless which is a massive thing for me

Ooh I think I know this one - yep very old school and decent quality , quite cheap too

purplecorkheart · 29/01/2026 16:38

I took two non local based work contacts out to lunch recently in a local pub that does simple homecooked meals. Everything made in house. They were amazed at the fact that places like that still exist. They both have asked that we go there again. They told me that they much rather going there again over the expensive restaurant I took them to the time before.

Everyothernamewasalreadyinuse · 29/01/2026 16:33

I have been going to Rafina's in Reading since i was a baby in a pram, Mid 40's now and still go when i go into Reading Shopping. It is exactly the same and still get Double egg and Chips :)

5foot5 · 29/01/2026 16:18

Toothfairy89 · 29/01/2026 15:59

But once you know the "coffee lingo" it's easy to order a cup of coffee? It's not hard or difficult to know what latte or cappuccino or Americano are. It's about 4 words

By cup of coffee do you mean filter coffee?

Yup. Filter coffee.

Course I can work the coffee menu to get something approximating what I want. But I don't like the taste as much as filter and it takes several minutes to prepare where as if they have a jug of filter on the go they can just pour it out. Job done

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