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Netcurtainnelly · 28/01/2026 14:32

Just a joke. The latest prices for Harry Styles after Oasis.
They are laughing all the way to the bank while most people are struggling with their everyday bills.
Always managed to go and see the latest acts back in the day without being fleeced.

How much money do these pop acts need to live on?

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Netcurtainnelly · 30/01/2026 19:34

Aperture his single is crap. Very boring and instantly forgettable.

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ScarletLipstick · 30/01/2026 19:30

Oopsylazy · 30/01/2026 18:21

I don’t understand this.

For one Viagogo send the tickets via your Ticketmaster account so how would they (on the door) know whether the tickets were bought 1st or 3rd hand or whatever when all you do is scan a QR code at the door that’s been forwarded to you? (Or am I missing something?)

And if you’re a huge fan of a band but weren’t able to get the tickets when first released - which many people weren’t - then why the hell shouldn’t you go if you’re willing to pay the inflated price?

It’s simple supply and demand and “you should be ashamed of yourself” comments just smack of sour grapes to me! You do you and il do me thanks! ☺️

😂😂😂😂Don’t understand as much as you like. It happened and didn’t many Oasis tickets get cancelled due to being sold by third party sellers so clearly can’t be done. There will be an electronic trail. Don’t understand the sour grapes comments? In what way is sour grapes? Sour means being negative about something because you can’t have it yourself but I can.? I too could buy tickets at inflated prices but I morally don’t want to be part of the problem.

But you do you and hope that you aren’t turned away at the turnstile of a gig and forced in to a Daily Mail sad face 😉

Crushed23 · 30/01/2026 18:40

Oopsylazy · 30/01/2026 18:02

I think I may have been at that Morrissey gig lol.

We went to see the Stones on their last tour and could only get seated tickets and a row broke out when people (including us) got up dancing with the people behind. I was like “are you fucking joking? It’s a Rolling Stones concert!!”

Will never buy seated tickets if I can help it.

I’ve done pop concerts seated (Justin Timberlake, Backstreet Boys, Disclosure) but they’re okay because 99% of people stand up in their seats and dance. But something like Morrissey or Radiohead, you can’t really dance to the music, so you sort of just sit there trying to enjoy it, unless those around you are singing over it, which is what happened at Morrissey.

I get bored, personally.

I want to leave a live music event both exhilarated and exhausted 😁

Oopsylazy · 30/01/2026 18:21

ScarletLipstick · 29/01/2026 10:50

Yes it is and they have control over ticket prices. There was an interview with Paul Heaton about ticket prices and he said he refuses to charge more than £35 and in order to do that he insists on being personally present at all planning meetings.

And all those people buying from third party sites are part of the problem. Ticket touts managing to buy loads of tickets for popular gigs and then tripling and quadrupling the price. If people didn’t buy tickets at inflated prices they wouldn’t bother taking the ones at the standard price making it fairer for everyone. So if you buy tickets from Viagogo you should ashamed of yourself.

Several years ago Ed Sheeran said they wouldn’t accept any third party tickets to his gigs and there people there being turned away (with the obligatory sad face photo in the local paper tge following day). Difficult to have any sympathy and hoped a message had been sent out re buying from third party sites. But from this thread sadly that doesn’t seem to be the case.

I don’t understand this.

For one Viagogo send the tickets via your Ticketmaster account so how would they (on the door) know whether the tickets were bought 1st or 3rd hand or whatever when all you do is scan a QR code at the door that’s been forwarded to you? (Or am I missing something?)

And if you’re a huge fan of a band but weren’t able to get the tickets when first released - which many people weren’t - then why the hell shouldn’t you go if you’re willing to pay the inflated price?

It’s simple supply and demand and “you should be ashamed of yourself” comments just smack of sour grapes to me! You do you and il do me thanks! ☺️

Oopsylazy · 30/01/2026 18:02

Crushed23 · 28/01/2026 20:18

Somewhat of a derail, but does no one else get a bit bored at gigs that are seated and the music isn’t easy to dance to? I predominantly go to raves which are all/mostly floor tickets and it’s non-stop dancing.

When I’ve tried regular live music, I was just sitting in my seat like a lemon surrounded by people singing out of tune? Example was seeing Morrissey a few years ago. Love his songs, but it wasn’t exactly a barnstorming night out! 😅

I think I may have been at that Morrissey gig lol.

We went to see the Stones on their last tour and could only get seated tickets and a row broke out when people (including us) got up dancing with the people behind. I was like “are you fucking joking? It’s a Rolling Stones concert!!”

Will never buy seated tickets if I can help it.

Oopsylazy · 30/01/2026 17:58

Crushed23 · 28/01/2026 20:52

I think older people with more disposable income are spending more on live music, for sure.

By older, I mean people in their 30s and 40s. I’m mid-30s and spend a fortune on festivals every year. In my teens and early 20s there is no way I could afford to go to Tomorrowland and the like. Indeed there are hardly any under-25s at some festivals, and an increasing number of over-45s.

I think a big part of it is millennials not wanting to grow up (see also: tumbling birth rate). 😁

Agree with this - when we went to Isle of Wight festival it was about 70% 30’s-50’s age group I’d say with a smaller demographic of teens/20’s and some families with kids.

Not many young people can afford £300 for a ticket. It was great though - I loved the mixed demographic and dh and I (40’s) finished every night in the grime tent with the youngsters 😂

Crushed23 · 30/01/2026 15:30

UndoRedo · 29/01/2026 21:00

Saw Maddix in Plymouth, he was fab. And just bought Dom Dolla VIP tickets 😃

OMG I love Dom Dolla! I saw him in Las Vegas last May and at EDC Orlando in November. A couple of the festivals I’ve got tickets to this year haven’t released their lineup yet, so I’m hoping he’s going to be at one of them.

Is it the Old Royal Naval College show you’re going to? I’m actually in London the following week so will just miss him. But might catch Overmono who are playing the weekend after Dom Dolla (I’m on the ticket ‘waitlist’ 😒). Do you recommend I go for VIP at this venue?

Crushed23 · 30/01/2026 15:25

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 29/01/2026 20:33

I'm not sure about DJs but Olivia Rodrigo, Sabrina Carpenter etc. are selling out so quick that you have to be really lucky to get them. I'm not sure who is buying the tickets but I think it is probably Mums.

You’re absolutely right that there’s probably a big difference between pop stars and DJs. Teenagers might go to see Carpenter and the like with their mum, but they’re not going to go to a rave with their parents, or at all - raves are usually 18+ or 21+.

CaptainCarrotsBigSword · 30/01/2026 13:22

smooththecat · 28/01/2026 15:19

All the money is in touring these days whereas it used to be in selling the music.

I think this is a much bigger part of it than we realise. Noone really makes money selling music now that streaming has come along, so the touring really does have to bankroll everything.

Netcurtainnelly · 30/01/2026 13:18

Miranda65 · 28/01/2026 15:36

And, to be fair, the artists only take a part of the ticket price. They don't make money from "record sales" any more, either. Things can change quickly, and they have to make their money while they can. And, of course, it's perfectly legal. So good for them.

They have to make their money while they can. Agreed. They have already made millions though and could afford never to work again.

When does one decide they've made enough?

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Netcurtainnelly · 30/01/2026 13:15

Swiftie1878 · 29/01/2026 17:29

Exactly. So why are you moaning?

Because it's all a big rip off merchandise and all.

100 pound to wear Adele on your top lol.

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SnowDaysAndBadLays · 30/01/2026 10:56

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 29/01/2026 20:33

I'm not sure about DJs but Olivia Rodrigo, Sabrina Carpenter etc. are selling out so quick that you have to be really lucky to get them. I'm not sure who is buying the tickets but I think it is probably Mums.

It's absolutely the Mums., I'm a Mum of an adult DD but it's me buying the tickets for me, Dd wouldn't come!

UndoRedo · 29/01/2026 21:00

Crushed23 · 28/01/2026 20:53

Oooh which DJ? 👀 I’m off to Tomorrowland this year (and went last year).

Saw Maddix in Plymouth, he was fab. And just bought Dom Dolla VIP tickets 😃

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 29/01/2026 20:33

Crushed23 · 29/01/2026 20:29

Just saw a post on Instagram that was “Festival lineups from 2016” and almost all of the headliners at the major festivals are still headlining and touring today. I think it’s just the same handful of artists/bands filling stadiums and headlining festivals year on year. There’s no new Calvin Harris or David Guetta because they’re both still super active and super popular.

Brand new DJs who are popular among Gen Z / Gen Alpha but not so popular among Millennials and up simply won’t sell enough tickets to have a major tour or headline a major festival.

I'm not sure about DJs but Olivia Rodrigo, Sabrina Carpenter etc. are selling out so quick that you have to be really lucky to get them. I'm not sure who is buying the tickets but I think it is probably Mums.

Crushed23 · 29/01/2026 20:29

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 29/01/2026 18:35

I think you're right and it's also why bands who haven't really been big names in decades are still able to fill arenas.

My SD16 has seen Linkin Park, Busted, McFly, Pink and whole lot of other bands which I was listening to in the early noughties with her Mum. My Mum wouldn't have dreamed of taking me to a pop concert and I wouldn't have dreamed of going with her. Going to see a band who peaked in fame 20 years earlier with a parent would have been considered mortifyingly sad.

Just saw a post on Instagram that was “Festival lineups from 2016” and almost all of the headliners at the major festivals are still headlining and touring today. I think it’s just the same handful of artists/bands filling stadiums and headlining festivals year on year. There’s no new Calvin Harris or David Guetta because they’re both still super active and super popular.

Brand new DJs who are popular among Gen Z / Gen Alpha but not so popular among Millennials and up simply won’t sell enough tickets to have a major tour or headline a major festival.

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 29/01/2026 18:35

Pennyfan · 28/01/2026 20:47

A theory I have about ticket prices is that concerts are full of mums taking their kids. Especially big names like TS or HS. When I was young, absolutely no one would be going with parents. They wouldn’t be seen dead! But it seems to be quite a thing now-and maybe one of the reasons why prices are as they are is because it’s middle aged people buying them.

I think you're right and it's also why bands who haven't really been big names in decades are still able to fill arenas.

My SD16 has seen Linkin Park, Busted, McFly, Pink and whole lot of other bands which I was listening to in the early noughties with her Mum. My Mum wouldn't have dreamed of taking me to a pop concert and I wouldn't have dreamed of going with her. Going to see a band who peaked in fame 20 years earlier with a parent would have been considered mortifyingly sad.

Pennyfan · 29/01/2026 18:09

Yes I do get the idea but it’s certainly more value for money. And for those people who don’t live near London, it involves travel and hotel stay for many artists who don’t do nationwide concerts.

Swiftie1878 · 29/01/2026 17:29

Netcurtainnelly · 29/01/2026 17:04

Nobody has to buy a ticket either.

Exactly. So why are you moaning?

SnowDaysAndBadLays · 29/01/2026 17:11

Nevermind17 · 29/01/2026 11:37

Please. It doesn’t cost them £200 to sell two tickets on their website. They’re just as greedy as the rest!

Twickets don't hike up the prices, I buy and sell on there a lot.

Netcurtainnelly · 29/01/2026 17:04

Swiftie1878 · 29/01/2026 16:35

Nobody HAS to buy merch.

Nobody has to buy a ticket either.

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 29/01/2026 17:03

Crushed23 · 29/01/2026 16:58

Very few festivals are on one’s doorstep though. I live in a major city and apart from a couple of day festivals which are in my city, all the festivals I’m going to this year require me to travel, pay for accommodation, etc. (two are overseas). The all-in price per day of festivals that have big names performing is not far off paying to see an artist for one night.

3-day festival @ $300 + $150 travel + $300 hotel = ~$250/day

You get the idea.

True, but I was just comparing the cost of tickets as others were, not travel and sundries as well.

Crushed23 · 29/01/2026 16:58

DeftGoldHedgehog · 29/01/2026 14:55

And if you are going to pay £250+, for a few quid more you could go to festival and see several artists you like. It's not worth it for a single band or artist though, IMO.

Very few festivals are on one’s doorstep though. I live in a major city and apart from a couple of day festivals which are in my city, all the festivals I’m going to this year require me to travel, pay for accommodation, etc. (two are overseas). The all-in price per day of festivals that have big names performing is not far off paying to see an artist for one night.

3-day festival @ $300 + $150 travel + $300 hotel = ~$250/day

You get the idea.

Crushed23 · 29/01/2026 16:51

Pennyfan · 29/01/2026 15:21

I agree with those saying go t a festival. We’ve just paid £400 for a three dayer but it includes vip, private bars, comfortable seats and proper loos. Plus being near main stage. Basic tickets were less than 200-established bands and singers plus some highly rated newer acts. And best of all, no camping so get to stay in nice hotel with proper showers! I suppose you pay what it’s worth t yo. However, the original point is valid-that ticket prices, like house prices have risen way, way above inflation and it's a shame fans with less money can’t go. Instead, it’s become like big sporting events-many of the people going don’t go for the music but because it’s a big name.

I love festivals, but I don’t think they’re cheaper when you consider the overall cost, depending on where you live. Train tickets, hotels, overpriced food & drink for 3 days - all adds up!

Compare that to: £150 ticket, tube fare and a couple of drinks.

I like to do both, but I don’t think one is cheaper than the other - for bigger artists / festivals anyway.

Crushed23 · 29/01/2026 16:46

ScullyD · 29/01/2026 16:31

Yes - even had the Lana Del Rey tickets secured and in the basket. Then thought, to hell with this, it’s daylight robbery.

buyers need to pushback against this bs

Why would we push back if we’re paying the prices, if you see what I mean? They can only charge what people are willing to pay and people are willing to pay these prices (and then some, it’s not at all uncommon to travel across the country or over to Europe to watch an artist, paying for travel, accommodation etc.).

I think what has happened is there’s now a real disposable income inequality. Some people can afford to spend a fortune and others can’t afford to spend at all. If organisers slashed prices from £250 to £150, the people willing to pay £150 overlap hugely with the group willing to pay £250, so companies would just be leaving profit on the table, so to speak.

Also, what incentive is there to lower prices? Some of these gigs and festivals sell out in minutes.

I’m not saying I agree with any of this btw, I would love for it to be more affordable, but I can’t see it changing any time soon.

Swiftie1878 · 29/01/2026 16:35

Netcurtainnelly · 29/01/2026 16:29

The merchandise is a rip off too.
Adele was selling a top with her name on for 100.
She sees them coming.
Hope she's happy.
I don't think some rich people are

Nobody HAS to buy merch.

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