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To think we shouldn’t have to contribute to soch if we don’t intend to use it?

737 replies

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:03

For example, I don’t want a state pension - so I should surely be able to opt out of soch based contributions percentage. And just pay a lesser amount to cover anything I do take advantage of.

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1apenny2apenny · 27/01/2026 22:37

I am happy to contribute for things that support society, to an extent. The issue I see is that those actually contributing are being expected to give more and more whilst governments give those not contributing more and more. They also in my view seem to encourage things that cost a lot but that don’t seem to benefit society as a whole eg lifting the 2 child cap.

At some point I have no doubt that those contributing will be told that actually they can’t have some of the things they need because there isn’t enough to go round and that’s when it will go very badly indeed - eg the state pension and healthcare.

Icanttakethisanymore · 27/01/2026 22:37

Is this a piss take because someone called their pension a pench?

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:36

BlackCatDiscoClub · 27/01/2026 22:36

Can you imagine, the police call an ambulance to a road traffic accident, the paramedic says "oh hang on, this one opts out of the NHS" and kicks the body to the side of the road 🤣

Admittedly, this has made me roar.

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BlackCatDiscoClub · 27/01/2026 22:36

GrethaGreen · 27/01/2026 22:30

What do you mean non NHS- user.
If you collapse in the street tomorrow, an ambulance will be called and you are an NHS
user…

Can you imagine, the police call an ambulance to a road traffic accident, the paramedic says "oh hang on, this one opts out of the NHS" and kicks the body to the side of the road 🤣

GardenCovent · 27/01/2026 22:36

I don’t know who a non nhs user would be?
I have private medical cover but if something happens to me and I need to visit a&e the ambulance would take me to a nhs hospital.
Who can possibly say they will never be a nhs user?

Sunflower3000 · 27/01/2026 22:36

nah, we’re having too much fun with you now

AgentPidge · 27/01/2026 22:36

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 27/01/2026 22:32

Contributions to tits?

😂

fashionqueen0123 · 27/01/2026 22:35

what on earth is Soch? Are you in another country?

Anyway you would have used the nhs from
birth so you’re already a user.

lazyarse123 · 27/01/2026 22:35

Op is mardy and bossy. Oh and ridiculous.

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:35

Tigerbalmshark · 27/01/2026 22:35

wrong Thread

Edited

many thanks

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Tigerbalmshark · 27/01/2026 22:35

wrong Thread

JanuaryJasmine · 27/01/2026 22:35

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:33

Ok the discussion is now finished! Stop

Not your choice.

MasterBeth · 27/01/2026 22:35

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:32

Diffrent areas, diffrent lingo

Yes.

That's why, if someone asks you what you mean by a word, it's usually better to tell them, rather than saying "it's self-explanatory."

SleepingStandingUp · 27/01/2026 22:34

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:29

I think there are better ways - for example

If you want to use public services - pay more sosh.
If you do not - pay less, for example 1% discount for non NHS user.

So you walk out tomorrow and get hit by a car.
Do you have to swipe your credit card before I call an ambulance or leave you in the road for your private medical care providers to collect you?

AgentPidge · 27/01/2026 22:34

Ineedanewsofa · 27/01/2026 22:25

According to my google search it means ‘mindful’ in Urdu, so I’m no clearer…

It's "social securtity contributions" (sic) as per the OP at 10.25.

JanuaryJasmine · 27/01/2026 22:34

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:16

I’ve never said to duly opt out. Just that I’d like a discount for what I will not benefit from.

Well me too, I'll opt to stop contributing to international Aud. Security, education.

my choice is just as valid as yours.

(PS Don't panic people , I don't really want to
opt not to be paying towards them!)

Pearlstillsinging · 27/01/2026 22:34

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:16

I’ve never said to duly opt out. Just that I’d like a discount for what I will not benefit from.

You would have to hope that you never fell over and broke your leg then. Or you could be left lying in the road wondering how to get to a private hospital that your insurance company was prepared to pay to deal with your injury when they got round to it. Private hospitals don't do emergency care.

cardibach · 27/01/2026 22:33

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:27

Stop being facetious. You all know full well what soch/sosh is.

No, I don’t. I’m 61, politically engaged and financially literate. I have no idea.

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:33

Ok the discussion is now finished! Stop

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MasterBeth · 27/01/2026 22:33

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:30

Well I think you’ll find I know how to spell it the MOST as I’m the one who used the word first. I’ve spelt it both ways for those who struggle with comprehension.

Maybe you can spell some more words in two/too ways/waze in/inn case/kays anyone struggles/struggles.

BlackCatDiscoClub · 27/01/2026 22:33

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:27

Stop being facetious. You all know full well what soch/sosh is.

OP this falls squarely into the bracket of 'ask silly questions, get silly answers'

FrodoBiggins · 27/01/2026 22:33

BlackCatDiscoClub · 27/01/2026 22:31

Oh in which case I would also like to reduce my contributions. I only want to give 1% of my annual earnings to traditional letter press printing as I expect to be able to fund my own private letter press printing

Can we lower our contributions if we bring our own weights for the press? I've got some industrial sized tins of chickpeas lying around.

bridgetreilly · 27/01/2026 22:32

Nope. Everyone has to contribute to things they don’t benefit from personally in order to ensure we have the kind of society where everyone is included.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 27/01/2026 22:32

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:25

Social Securtity contributions. Prior to 2001 this was their name, and therefore how I choose to word it, as I have done for the entirety of my life.

Contributions to tits?

slozenger · 27/01/2026 22:32

AgentPidge · 27/01/2026 22:31

I used to work for DSS and I've never heard of it either.

Diffrent areas, diffrent lingo

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