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DC played with recalled asbestos sand

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AsbestosWorriez · 27/01/2026 18:50

Just got an email from Hobbycraft and we purchased a box with the exact product code that has been recalled. The sand is the first thing the kids played with, we made some artwork and it went everywhere.

I have health anxiety at the best of times and am in complete bits. I feel I have failed my children.

If anyone has some more level headed information please let me know, there is really little information given but it says to dispose of with gloves and a mask which is so worrying.

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AsbestosWorriez · 28/01/2026 14:56

Butterflypuzzle · 28/01/2026 13:23

I think Hobbycraft have been disgraceful. Their initial reaction was to say there was no evidence of anyone being harmed, which is nonsensical in the context of asbestos where any harm will take decades to emerge. It just seemed like they had no understanding of the issue at all.

Yes unfortunately I read that they are well within their rights to do this. Since Brexit, UK legislation is that if there is no proof of harm, they don't need to do a thing unfortunately. Super convenient in this case where it would be decades before effects become obvious....

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AsbestosWorriez · 28/01/2026 14:54

NoAttorneysToPleadMyCase · 28/01/2026 14:05

I was diagnosed with peritoneal mesothelioma at age 21, caused by small asbestos fibres and not repeatedly exposed to it. It's very rare, but it does happen!

So sorry to hear. Do you know what the source of it was? I hope you are doing ok

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AsbestosWorriez · 28/01/2026 14:53

Nomnomnew · 28/01/2026 14:23

I know this is all so worrying but please try not to panic. We were gifted lots of posh sand pots at Christmas and I don’t know if they were made in China or not, so I’m going to throw them out and replace with proper kinetic sand (the brand) which is European and so is asbestos free, whereas Chinese regulators allow up to 5% tolerance for asbestos. But in all my reading about it, it seems to be especially low risk because the reason the play sand pours like it does is because it has silicon in it to make it ‘sticky’, and the silicon means the asbestos particles can’t easily become airborne, which is where the risk lies. Dispose of it and try not to worry, the risks are minuscule.

Thank you, the stickiness makes sense for kinetic sand but this is not what was in the hobbycraft box. It was normal sand, just coloured. But quantities much smaller than if playing with kinetic sand, so I guess that's always something.

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Playingvideogames · 28/01/2026 14:44

NoAttorneysToPleadMyCase · 28/01/2026 14:05

I was diagnosed with peritoneal mesothelioma at age 21, caused by small asbestos fibres and not repeatedly exposed to it. It's very rare, but it does happen!

That’s awful. How are you now? I recall a poster doing an AMA a couple of years ago - was that you? If so, really glad you seem to be stable.

Nomnomnew · 28/01/2026 14:23

I know this is all so worrying but please try not to panic. We were gifted lots of posh sand pots at Christmas and I don’t know if they were made in China or not, so I’m going to throw them out and replace with proper kinetic sand (the brand) which is European and so is asbestos free, whereas Chinese regulators allow up to 5% tolerance for asbestos. But in all my reading about it, it seems to be especially low risk because the reason the play sand pours like it does is because it has silicon in it to make it ‘sticky’, and the silicon means the asbestos particles can’t easily become airborne, which is where the risk lies. Dispose of it and try not to worry, the risks are minuscule.

GoldDuster · 28/01/2026 14:13

the risk to children who played with the sand is thought to be low.

This is where to focus. The world is full of things that can be harmful in the wrong quantity, time or place. Just being alive in this world as a human is inherantly a risk, there is no way to remove them all and you wouldn't want to. There are substances, and happenings at every turn which could harm, you have absolutely not failed your children.

Bin it, wash your hands, and book in a few appointments with whoever you're getting support from for your OCD and health anxiety.

NoAttorneysToPleadMyCase · 28/01/2026 14:05

AppropriateAdult · 27/01/2026 19:55

The risk from asbestos is in inhaling the fibres, and is dose-related, so the risk increases with the frequency of exposure. Almost all cases of asbestosis and mesothelioma (the cancer caused by asbestos) occur in people who worked with it for long durations before the risks were fully understood. I’m a doctor and a mother, and I wouldn’t lose a minute’s sleep over this; it’s a very very low risk. Just throw it out.

I was diagnosed with peritoneal mesothelioma at age 21, caused by small asbestos fibres and not repeatedly exposed to it. It's very rare, but it does happen!

Tina46 · 28/01/2026 13:33

Please try not to worry. I'm a teacher in Australia and we had to throw away all sand products last year. The advice was that we were doing so with an abundance of caution. My understanding is that the risk of a problem is when the sand is pulverised - as in by industrial machinery, not by playing with hands / plastic tools.

some batches showed trace amounts in testing - of some batches of some brands over some time scales, the world over. Many batches were tested and fine.

And even those with trace amounts could only be a problem if crushed by machinery and inhaled again and again over a long period.

Butterflypuzzle · 28/01/2026 13:23

I think Hobbycraft have been disgraceful. Their initial reaction was to say there was no evidence of anyone being harmed, which is nonsensical in the context of asbestos where any harm will take decades to emerge. It just seemed like they had no understanding of the issue at all.

Newgirlandboy · 28/01/2026 13:10

I have phoned Hobbycraft today and their response was terrible - no information and shirty. She wouldn't say what type of asbestos, how much, or if they are doing further testing

eurotravel · 28/01/2026 00:09

Please don’t panic. Whilst certainly not good the reality is that asbestos is around us far more than you’d realise. A lot of schools and other public buildings.. lots of flats of a certain age. Garages of older houses. Etc Issues arise when it’s breathed in. Smoking is known to make risk miles higher but not sure anyone knows why. Some people can get massively exposed and never suffer. Others the opposite

Playingvideogames · 27/01/2026 23:21

Hi OP, we also had this box. I’m 70-80% sure I threw the sand out (we lived in a carpeted flat at the time so didn’t really allow sand or play doh etc) but that was a couple of years ago so I can’t specifically recall.

If it helps, I’ve established the following:

  1. The asbestos content was very small - 0.1% at most. We know this because they describe ‘trace’ amounts - the limit for it to be deemed ‘trace’ in the UK is 0.1%. Trading standards have said if found we can throw it away in household waste - again, by law anything more than 0.1% asbestos has to be disposed of by specialists, so the test result must be below this threshold.
  2. Australia and New Zealand recently had the same scare - play sand contaminated by trace amounts. They ran tests and established there were no respiratory fibres released during ordinary play with the sand (hopefully that would be the same with this).
  3. Asbestos related illnesses are dose dependent - out of people who worked heavily and directly with it over many years, 90% did not go on to develop serious illness. While no exposure is ‘safe’ (like with cigarette smoke for example), the exposure here is considered to be very low.

I will also paste a quote from a leading consultant in asbestos related lung disease from one of the Australia articles:

Prof Fraser Brims, a consultant respiratory physician at Sir Charles Gairdner hospital and director at Curtin University Medical School, said the ACCC was correct in saying the risk to children was low.
“Any exposure to asbestos and all of its forms is definitely undesirable, but there is a really important message that the risk of developing asbestos-related diseases is dose-related, and so [with] very low exposures, which is what no doubt is the case with this sand, the risk is unmeasurably low,” Brims said.
Brims said the states’ decisions whether or not to close schools came down to “their own interpretations of safety and risk”.

The above is taken from the Guardian.

So while obviously any exposure should be avoided, please don’t worry yourself sick.

hollytheheroic · 27/01/2026 23:08

Half the mums on here will have had this stuff at some point, I know we have. I was a bit shocked to read it but realistically there's nothing to be done and it's probably fine. You'll drive yourself mad worrying about it for the next fifty years.

Greebosmum · 27/01/2026 22:58

I honestly know nothing about any.of this, but I can tell you a story.

I am a child of the 60s. I had always wanted a fancy Wendy House like my friend had. When my Dad was renovating our living room and took out the fireplace and boiler there was a wonderful sheet of white, board like stuff with a hole, just the right size for a small child to use as a door. The was attached to Mum's 3 sided clothes horse and made a little play house for me. I loved it. I was in and out of the playhouse 100 times a day, brushing against the sides of the door and flaking off the fibres.

I am sure you realise this was asbestos.

I am now 64 and have had, as yet, no issues.

So.please try to keep.your anxiety at bay. I know it's difficult but as yet, nothing bad has happened.

Take care.

noblegiraffe · 27/01/2026 22:55

The advice says "If the sand has been used, clean-up sites where the product was used using wet cloths to avoid generating dust. Wear gloves and a mask. Double bag the sand, gloves, mask and cloths."

AsbestosWorriez · 27/01/2026 22:47

Newgirlandboy · 27/01/2026 22:31

I'm the same. Do we throw out everything which was stored in the box touching the item we made? And we did it in the kitchen so it went everywhere and it was played with on different surfaces etc.

Our tubes of remaining sand are in the bin, but I had a look through the bin as I want to send mine off for testing. I might send the item we made for testing too.

Do we throw out everything? Or just wipe items which touched the sand?

I found a picture of my son on the floor with his head next to the artwork we'd made as he was so proud of it he wanted me to take a picture of it. His head was right next to it. They were also mixing it with paint and spreading it with their fingers, I mean it just went everywhere.

Do you know when you bought your box?

With cleaning I think I'll throw out the box with all its contents (we'd used most of it anyway), keeping sand for testing and maybe hoover out the cupboard. I'll try and stop there as I know with anxiety the more you do the more it will feed it.

I'll let you know if I manage to successfully stop myself going totally neurotic. I am so busy this week with work and renovation in the house too, I had no spare mental capacity and now this... nightmare.

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Newgirlandboy · 27/01/2026 22:31

I'm the same. Do we throw out everything which was stored in the box touching the item we made? And we did it in the kitchen so it went everywhere and it was played with on different surfaces etc.

Our tubes of remaining sand are in the bin, but I had a look through the bin as I want to send mine off for testing. I might send the item we made for testing too.

Do we throw out everything? Or just wipe items which touched the sand?

AsbestosWorriez · 27/01/2026 22:03

I just found in my photos the pictures we had made. We had used the blue and yellow sand so I suspect the others are still in the box (hopefully we didn't use all the bloody things...). It was in July 2025, I didn't think it was this recent so I feel it is even more likely to be the same batch as the one that was tested by that customer 😥

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AsbestosWorriez · 27/01/2026 21:57

@Catsonskis @Newgirlandboy so sorry you are in the same situation. We had our kitchen redone a couple of years ago and I lost sleep for weeks after they drilled into a ceiling which was suspected asbestos. Can't believe it is happening again.

I relate so much, I have contamination OCD so I am literally imagining fibers floating around all over the house. I am trying to rationalise that it is just my OCC/anxiety talking but it is hard. Where do you even start, or end, with the cleaning?

I haven't touched the box tonight, couldn't face it. I will deal with it tomorrow when kids are out of the house. I was wondering if I find remaining sand in it, should I send it for testing? Or will it just make it worse? Did you guys just chuck yours?

I guess I'll then clean the cupboard out that it was in but there are lots of books and craft supplies in there. It could have gone on anything.

I actually specifically remember the pictures we made with the sand, we kept them displayed for ages as well, the kids had loved it. Such a tarnished memory now!

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Catsonskis · 27/01/2026 20:50

I’m also freaking out having got one opened box with the matching serial code, but missing sand tubes. I THINK I threw them out because I hate the kids playing with sand or glitter, but can’t be sure. Then I have some vials from an old set with no box to check against that I’m freaking out about and have chucked.

but do I need to chuck the things the vials were touching?? Do I need to clean everything? What with?

health anxiety is well and truly back. A handful of articles saying risk is minimal….but how minimal?

lljkk · 27/01/2026 20:45

Someone I know, her dad was down the mines decades ago, from about age 14-18. All his coworkers from then long ago died of mesiolthoma (spelling?).

The father is still alive & well at 88yo. HOW? you ask... he never smoked. Turns out that smoking magnifies the risk enormously. Like... who knew? Anyway, I don't think we even know if there actually is asbestos in the sand, do we? It's just one person raised alarm and not on certain evidence, and there's background levels we are all exposed to anyway.

Try not to worry. x

Serencwtch · 27/01/2026 20:41

Try not to worry as the amounts are so tiny.

Those of us at school in the 70's & 80s will have been exposed to far higher amounts & for longer but the rate of problems is still negligible.

Children getting suntanned will carry a greater risk of cancer than the trace amounts of asbestos that they may not even have been exposed to in the play sand

Newgirlandboy · 27/01/2026 20:29

We also have the same box and I've been absolutely floored by this. I cannot get it out of my mind. I don't think Hobbycraft are giving enough information - we need to know the amount etc. I also have health anxiety so understand how you feel.

I just can't relax in the house thinking that there could be fibres everywhere - Washing machine, carpets, kitchen etc. It is horrible

Thingylingy · 27/01/2026 20:29

Unfortunately there is still asbestos being used in talc and makeup. Claires accessories had childrens make up with asbestos in it. You just cannot trust products blindly, but we are much better regulated in the UK than others.

AsbestosWorriez · 27/01/2026 20:13

Mummylove2026 · 27/01/2026 20:02

When it is saying crushing, it isn’t suggesting your child squashing it in their hands in a way children play, it’s implying properly crushing with a hammer or machinery. It’s also small quantities of a small amount, very different if it was a beach full of sand. If it was terrifyingly dangerous amounts they would arrange proper collection and disposal.

Yes thank you I was quoting this as one of the more reassuring things I had read as we certainly didn't do any crushing, just light sprinkling!

Thanks everyone, feeling a bit more level headed about it now.

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