The main place I keep seeing this is on OLD profiles. They say things like “only interested in people who’ve done the work, done inner work, worked on themselves” etc. as though the only thing that can possibly make you an emotionally intelligent, thoughtful human is therapy. I’m a woman who dates women so these are women’s profiles. I’m not sure you’d see it so much on men’s profiles (although correct me if I’m wrong). I just find it so annoying and superior. As though some of these people think they’ve reached some form of emotional enlightenment that no one else can match unless they’ve had intense therapy. We don’t all need therapy to become self-aware and emotionally intelligent! 😤