Yesterday DS (7) had a birthday party. It was a really cute wooden craft one where the kids get a simple woodwork project each, which they build and then decorate, and get to keep. They only got one project each which the staff explained at the beginning (any more need to be paid for).
DS invited a new friend (let’s call him Dave) who I hadn’t met before and he came across as pretty rude. Later on, Dave asked if he could do a robot as well as the car he’d started. I explained that no, everyone does just one thing, just finish the one you’ve chosen. He then waited until I was distracted, went and helped himself to another kit, and started working on it before any adults noticed. Dave was really rude when another parent went to speak to him about it.
I’m picking up the finished pieces from the workshop this week. AIBU to not give Dave the robot when I hand them out? My family said I should absolutely not let him have both, but my friend said that I may as well let him, since I have had to pay for it anyway. If he had been polite and it was a genuine mistake then I wouldn’t have minded so much.
AIBU to only give the original kit out?