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Paying at 3YO birthday

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ambitiousgoose · 26/01/2026 21:28

AIBU - invited to a meal for my pals 3YO son’s birthday celebrations. We pre-ordered & nothing was mentioned about payment. A week later she sends a message telling me what we owe along with her bank details. Has etiquette gone out of the window? We travelled an hour to this event & it’s just hit a nerve with me.
Also didn’t get a thank you for his gift 🙈

OP posts:
EvangelineTheNightStar · 26/01/2026 21:30

Is what she’s asking what it cost? Is it a proportion of the party or the usual soft play/food cost?