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AIBU? Will I get the sack?

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mumstheword1x · 26/01/2026 18:26

I work as a PA. I invited the wrong person to a meeting, that is happening in 3 weeks time. The surnames different by 1 letter.

the PA of this person, forwarded on to the correct one, and in that time I also realised the mistake - within 3 minutes, so I sent to the correct one and removing the right one.

my manager messaged me saying ‘I think you’ve invited the wrong x to the meeting on the 16th!’

I replied ‘Sorry, I did notice straight away and changed it. Their names are so similar! - as for the other meeting on that date, I was told we couldn’t do it in person and would need to be virtual but we thought maybe the follow up could be in person.’ and she said “let’s discuss tomorrow”

because the invite didn’t update the names correctly, I’m worried she thinks I’m a liar and she wants to discuss this tomorrow, I feel sick.

I suffer with anxiety and OCD and I never want to do wrong, she called me a superstar on Friday and I got an excellent rating last year.

I HATE MISTAKES AND IM WORRIED! It’s making me not want to go in tomorrow 😢

OP posts:
Boredonafridaynight · 26/01/2026 18:33

Could not fire you for this, all will be fine

mumstheword1x · 26/01/2026 18:33

TheDandyLion · 26/01/2026 18:31

You're a human being not a robot.

It doesn't feel good when you make a mistake but you realised and fixed it within minutes. Give yourself a break. They won't fire you for this.

Thank you. I think the fact the system didn’t correctly update, makes me think she might think I’m lying / trying to talk myself out of an error which isn’t the case at all.

i am super disappointed in myself as I hate mistakes, but also aware they happen.

her ‘lets discuss tomorrow’ scares me.

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Heyhelga · 26/01/2026 18:33

Would be very harsh to get sacked for that. What's the turnover of staff like at the company?

ColdAsAWitches · 26/01/2026 18:32

It doesn't sound that serious to me. No harm done, it was caught in plenty of time. I'd just laugh if it was one of my team.

tumbletoast · 26/01/2026 18:32

Why on earth would you be sacked for that?

What support are you receiving for your anxiety/OCD? Presumably you know that seeking reassurance only feeds the anxiety/OCD and ensures that you continue to think and feel this way in future?

TheDandyLion · 26/01/2026 18:31

You're a human being not a robot.

It doesn't feel good when you make a mistake but you realised and fixed it within minutes. Give yourself a break. They won't fire you for this.

RayKray · 26/01/2026 18:31

Are you getting help for the anxiety? I can’t see anything there that is the least bit concerning. I also hate mistakes and it would bother me but there’s nothing to suggest sacking you would be anywhere on the cards.