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To have not told my mum about a job interview beforehand

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greensweatshirt · 26/01/2026 16:32

I'm 26 and I had a job interview today. I live in my own house but I've come to my mum's house for dinner tonight. I took the day off work for the interview and told her about the interview when I arrived at her house. She's said she's very hurt that I didn't tell her beforehand and got visibly upset. She said no matter what I say, it will hurt. AIBU to have not told her before the interview?

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VickyEadieofThigh · 26/01/2026 16:35

I never told my mum about interviews. I told her if I got the job! My main reason was that it would open up a line of questions that I really didn't want to get into with her, especially as it would all be pointless if I was unsuccessful.

You're an adult. You do not have to tell your mother EVERYTHING.

AuntyBulgaria · 26/01/2026 16:34

I only ever told my parents if I got the job not every time I had an interview. Your mother is being ridiculous!

MamaagainJuly2026 · 26/01/2026 16:34

Your mums being a bit ott and sensitive imo

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