Husband left his friends who I don’t know alone in our house with our 6 month old

Or a sign that he's a decent man who did what he could to help a badly injured child and (probably) a distessed mother as quickly as possible, whilst making arrangements for his own child to be cared for by longstanding trusted friends, and his wife to enjoy her brunch uninterrupted.

I know !!!
Bloody hell. It's crazy isn't it.

Again... fucking hell 🤣🤣

Glad I aren't related to you

What on earth are you on about?
The OP went out for a rare birthday brunch with her friends. A special occasion.
Her husband was required to look after his child for a couple of hours. He didn’t need bloody friends over to keep him company ffs. I assume he’s not 15.
I don’t imagine @28loloiehas friends over all the time when she has the baby by herself.
If he had been on his own, he’d have had to (rightly) take the baby with him/contacted his wife.

No it is not.
he should have discussed this with his wife at minimum.
and ideally not prioritised being an Uber to his mom and sister

Fucking hell 🤣🤣🤣

It was wrong of him to not consider how this would make you feel. For everyone saying you are BU clearly don’t understand how much of a big deal it is to leave your baby for the first time. She trusted her husband and he chose to prioritise his own family over their baby. I’m not saying he was wrong to help his mum and sister but to not consider popping the baby in the car with him and instead leave her with people that OP doesn’t know feels really unreasonable in my opinion. It is not the fact that the people she was left with were totally “fine”, it was the promise he would watch DD for the duration that OP was out.

This isn’t about your baby. You seem to be struggling to understand that people have different setups to you.

I had two exclusively breastfed clingy babies who would have never coped with being left at 6
months but that clearly isn’t the case for OP.

All good.

Yes I seriously would not.
injured child had her mom there.

Is this satire?

When my first was tiny my OH was a junior hospital doctor. Baby used to get handed round in the doctors' mess from one person to another, sometimes when we were not there. She grew up very sociable!

God some people on this site are truly bonkers. Bonkers.

This in abundance

I can see how this feels like a big deal for you OP as it's the first time you've left your baby for a significant length of time and it always feels a bit fraught with emotion when you do so your reaction is understandable.

However, he's left your baby for a short period of time with trusted friends who presumably felt comfortable with this. The fact they have known each other since childhood and are likely to have experience with babies from extended family is really important context.

In an emergency I think your DH's response was not only understandable but sensible. Your baby will have been safe and well cared for while your DH was able to devote his attention fully to ensuring his sister got safely to A&E.

And no desire to tbh

oh yeah so looks like he didn’t need to go at all. His sister was with her mom and they could’ve called AN UBER - he didn’t need to drive there leaving a baby with friends who never had children.
or, he could have take a baby with him.

and regardless he could have called his wife to discuss this first.

but no, he decided that what his mom and sister demanded is more important.

OP, that’s a first sign that he’ll treat his mommy and sister as more important than you and your children

Good to hear.

You can see his thought process though. You were out having a break (and we all know how consuming babies are). A situation came up and he was able to manage it without disturbing your time away.

There are so many rubbish men out there who wouldn’t know what to do- he clearly dealt with it well. It was only one hour which isn’t long at all

He trusted his friends to take of his baby in an emergency situation. Baby was fine, so what's the problem?

The fact you would have made a different choice is irrelevant as you weren't there. You don't get to negate his ability to make an informed decision using his own judgement.

Well the op's baby is clearly more resilient.

You seriously wouldn't leave your baby with friends you've known your whole life to drop an injured child to A&E and come straight back?

how do you know what emergencies/situations I may have had to deal with?

You have absolutely no clue.

Apparently so.
Or they're bored and like arguing with people on MN