Husband left his friends who I don’t know alone in our house with our 6 month old

I'll say it for the trilionth time.

Whether we undertand the reasons or not the op and her dh had agreed not to leave their dc with others. He overrode that and it is understandable that the op was pissed off about it. We all have phones, we don't need to send out telegrams via the postman or anything.

I'll say it for the trilionth time.

Whether we undertand the reasons or not the op and her dh had agreed not to leave their dc with others. He overrode that and it is understandable that the op was pissed off about it. We all have phones, we don't need to send out telegrams via the postman or anything.

What exactly could have gone wrong with the baby?

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

putting a postcode into maps is a 20sec job.
Finding the exact house isn't always easy.

Had a tradesman coming to my house last week. He called to say he was outside my house. He wasn't. Sat Nav had sent him to the next street. And he was local and should have known without SatNav.

Or even that the friends drive! Or at least drove to the DH. Most of my childhood friends visit us by train so wouldn't have been an option for us.

Even if the DH was happy for his friends to drive his car (assuming they had 3rd party from fully comp on their own car), I know it takes me at least one drive to feel comfortable in a different car.

I would probably have offered to run the sister to A and E if I were one of the friends. Seems more sensible for the baby to remain with a parent and a friend help with the emergency.

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

The dc wasnt seriously ill and putting a postcode into maps is a 20sec job.

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

It also assumes the friends know exactly where his mum lives.

Keep in mind he probably made the decision "Yes Mum I'll be there just now" in the space of 20 seconds. While friends have said 'we'll stay with baby'.

It probably never entered his head that Op would be upset by him leaving the baby with his friends who he clearly trusts.

She had multiple fractures and again, could have had fractured ribs that could have punctured a lung or her liver. That broken collarbone could have torn blood vessels. She could have had multiple internal injuries and bleeding and head trauma. She needed to get assessed and treated ASAP. Yes, an 11 year old with multiple injuries including fractures is going to need physical support in the back of a car and some emotional and someone right there to monitor them. A baby in a car seat is in the way of that. Yes, they will be in a lot of pain and be frightened.

People die from falls all the time.

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

'Jesus christ' yes breaking a leg would be awful I agree with you there. Can also be life threatening due to bleeding internally. Unlike broken arms.

The ops dh was in agreement with the whole not leaving the dd thing. He knew and didn't even run it by her.

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

Jesus christ, she is fucking 11 years old

A work colleague of mine broke a leg on a rugby pitch, vomited and passed out, couldnt be moved. He was in agony. Emotional and physical support was needed.

He's not unusual. And not an 11 year old girl.

Jesus christ, she is fucking 11 years old

A work colleague of mine broke a leg on a rugby pitch, vomited and passed out, couldnt be moved. He was in agony. Emotional and physical support was needed.

He's not unusual. And not an 11 year old girl.

Because many have experienced a broken arm and/or collar bone or know someone who has. There isn't any screaming, there isn't 'emotional or physical support ' required. You give them painkillers and they get a cast and sling. Not so much me minimising as some folk being dramalamas.

Rightly or wrongly the op and her dh agreed not to leave their dc with people, for him to override that without even a brief chat would seem a bit shit imo. But we can all agree to disagree.

Getting an injured child to hospital is not the time for faffing around with Google Maps and street layouts you aren't sure off.

Google maps is wonderful for collecting random stuff from Facebook marketplace, not for getting a seriously injured child to hospital

Why are you trying to minimise his sister’s injury?
You sound ridiculous.