Husband left his friends who I don’t know alone in our house with our 6 month old

So what you’re saying is you can’t leave you and your DH’s baby with anyone he doesn’t know for any amount of time, no matter the situation?

It feels like there are people on here who just want to upset the Op. And make her think her DH did something horrific.

He did the absolute best thing he could do. He left the baby 👶 in safe hands people he'd known for years and people he trusted. They even managed to make sure baby was fed and changed before Op got home.

Language is the reason Op doesn't really know these friends. But you know what she came home to a happy baby and thats all she needs to know. DH trusted them. They proved him right.
I won't minimise it must have been a shock to find out he'd left, he 100% did the right thing, but they are friends who are worth getting to know. Because we all know good friends are priceless.

yes, and in the thread the OP says she's actually met them a few times.

I wasn’t “sneering at braincells”. I was pointing out that for anyone who had more than 2 braincells and who had read the thread there was only one possible interpretation.

This is literally all that needs to be said on the subject.

Exactly!

I was probably in a similar position to OP in terms of the amount my DC were left with either DH alone (rarely) or with anyone else (never) below the age of one. That had absolutely nothing at all to do with any agreement or moral objection to doing so, it was just the way things worked out.

It wasn't your decision. It was his. Surely he's allowed to make that call?

But she also goes on to say she has met them. She just doesn’t know them very well.
The child’s other parent has known them since he was a toddler so they aren’t strangers to the family.

The actual question being:

"Was it reasonable of DH to leave our 6 month old child with friends of his for an hour who he has known all this life to ensure that his badly hurt 11 year old sister could get the help she needed as quickly as possible?"

To which the only sane answer is:

"Yes, of course that's reasonable".

The title of the thread is as follows

Husband left his friends who I don’t know alone in our house with our 6 month old

Please tell us where the op tells us he disregarded her, and where she says the baby has never met them?

She doesn't, so you're just making more shit up again.

Again with the dramatics! And the fiction!
He is not a halfwit parent who disregarded his spouse.
He was a responsible parent who responded to an emergency in an appropriate manner.
We get that you’d do it differently and that’s fine. But that doesn’t mean your way is the only way.

Sorry what, we're sneering at 'braincells' not a halfwit parent who disregarded their spouse completely to do an 'emergency' dash with a minor injury leaving their dc with folk the dc had never clapped eyes on before. Riiight

That is NOT saying they had agreed not to leave their child with anyone. It's just saying the situation hadn't arisen. You can't plan for unplanned emergencies.

There is absolutely nothing in any of her posts to suggest that they had agreed not to leave their child. You have just decided that is the case to support your narrative and push on the idea that the OPs husband is a bad dad.
It's pathetic.

For the quadrillionth time, stop exaggerating.

Take you nuance and your balanced viewpoints elsewhere!

Yes but that’s not agreeing. It’s probably just never come up as that’s been the first emergency when one person wasn’t there

This isnt what you claim

Where does OP say they agreed (in italics) not to leave the child with anyone else?

'We have never left DD with someone who wasn’t me or DH before'
I mean i presume he knows they've never left the dc with anyone but some dads can be hopeless so who knows.

This such a bonkers thread. Anybody with 2 brain cells who has actually read the thread can see that the OP has the right to feel a bit shaken by this. However, anyone with two braincells who has read the thread can also see that the baby’s father was dealing with an emergency and did the best possible thing in the circumstances. It’s as simple as that.

And no matter what was or wasn't agreed nobody predicted the wee sister, falling and needing urgent medical help.

If it had been the other way round Op was home with friends and her mum needed an urgent lift, what would she have done?
Held off until baby was fed and changed or left baby with friends and gone to help her mum?

If the DH had complained he'd have been called a controlling arse.

Where does the op say this?

I picked you up on this the other day, where does OP say this that you keep making up?

You didnt answer

repeating untrue information a ‘trillion’ times doesn’t make it true though. OP just said she’d never left baby and that SHE figured when she did it would be with her parents. No talk of a big discussion or agreement.

You're just making things up now. How embarrassing for you